怎么做才能真的有挽回爱情吗

 xiaguinengwanhuiaiqingma？huaiyunnengwanhuiaiqingma？zheiyangdeqingkuangzaishenghuozhongbingbuhuijuedehenqiguai，faxianlaogongchuguizhihoubutongdezuofakendinghuishoudaobutongdejieguo。neimezheiyangzuozhendeyouwanhuiaiqingma？

一、反省自己，调整心态

 qizihuaiyunlaogongchugui，duiyurenheyigenvrenlaishuodoushibukanrenshoudexinlingtongku，zheishihounibunengyuanlianglaogongchuguizenmeban。ruguoniyiweiderenxing，kunaohuozhezibi，bujinyushiwubuhaiduitaieryebuli。hebuxuehuikuanweiziji，shiqingyijingfashenglejiuyaoxuehuihuanweisikao、lengjingxiangxiang，zijiyoumeiyoutaiqiangshi，youmeiyouduinanrenchongfendelijie，youmeiyouguanainanren。duiyunanrenlaishuotayeshiyigehaiziyexuyaoguanai。

 zaiqiziyunqilaogongchuguiqishitaibaobaozhishiyigejiekoueryi。laogongchuguiyidingshishuangfangzhijianjileilehenduowenti，meiyoujishidedaogoutonghehuanjie。qiafengzheigeshiqi，qizideguanzhuzhongdianzhuanyidaotaibaobaoshenshang，erlaogongshenbianruoshichuxiannenggouxinshangtadeyoushangxinyuemudenvren，huozheyouzhudongtouhuaisongbaodenvren，neitazuirongyichugui。danshizheizailingwaiyigecengmianshangshuo，laogongnenggouchugui，zhishaotahaishiyoumeilide，haishiyouxinshangtadenvrenzaideernini?renmenchangshuo：meilishinvrenyonghengdeshiye。shibushihunhoufangqileduimeilihemeilidedazaohushilezishensuyangdetigao。

 danglaogongchuguizheigewentichuxiandeshihou，xiaguinengwanhuiaiqingma，zuoweiqiziniyidingyaoxianfanshengziji，xiancongzijishenshangzhaozhaoyuanyin。laogongzhisuoyichuguizhishaoyouyidiankeyishuoming，nihaibushixiangnixiangxiangdeneimeyouxiunihaimeiyouyouxiudaotachuleni，duiqitanvrendoubuguomindedibu。suoyiniyaokaolvruhegaibianniziji。shouxianjiuconggaibianzijidetaidu，gaibianzijidepiqizuoqitaiduhaoyiqidouhuimanmanhaoqilai。piqihaoyiqieyedouhuimanmanhaoqilai。jiranyounengliranglaogongquleni，ziranyeyounengliranglaogonghuixinzhuanyi。

二、接受现实，用心态解

 mianduilaogonggufuleziji，henduoqizidoushiyuanhenjiazenge。xinzhongduilaogongquanshibaoyuan，shenzhizijiyekaishibiandezibeiganjuemeilianjianren。qishimeibiyao。yidanlihuntadeyiqieyexuyijingyuniwuguan。hentazhinengshuomingnihaizaiyita。jiusuanshangtongyezhishizuoyexingchenyunluolejiubuyaozaijiushizhongti。xihuanshihuailejiuhuanxindeaishihuailejiuxiuxiubuhaojiurenrenba。zaiaiqingdeshijieliaizongshiliyouhenjiandanjiushixiangkuayueqianshanwanshuiheduifangzaiyiqi。buaideliyouhenduo，duifangtaiqiangshile，duifangtairenxingle，duifangtaiziwole，duifangbugouwenroutitieledengdeng。laogongchugui，zhishaoyouyidiankeyishuoming，fuqishuangfangzhijiandeganqingyudaobaofengyu，meiyoushulitongchang。dangninaojinzhuanbuguolaiwanshi，nijiuwufaquhenhaodemianduizheijianshiqing。

 renshengneimezhanglianggerenxiangchuduoshaoyouwentidoushizhengchangde，guanjianshiyouwentihouyoumeiyoujijidexintaiqumiandui。yigeguanlibuhaozijiqingxuderen，wulunnengliduoqiangyebuhuidedaobierendexinren。shijiezheimemangrouruojisheikan?heburangzijijianqiangyidianyonggandiqumianduixianshi。

三、理解男人，挽回婚姻

 renmenchangshuonanrenyou“qinianzhiyang”。zaihaodehunyinsuishidouhuizaoyudaohunwailiandefengxian。huaiyunnengwanhuiaiqingma，bijinglianggerenzaiyiqijiuledangchudexinxianganhecijiganshirongyisuizheshijianxiaohaodaijinde。weiqiangneiwaidenannannvnv，zongshigaobuqingzijidaodiyaoshenme，wulunyongyoushenmeyangdeqizi，zhiyaoshigebuzizhongbufuzerendenanrendouhuichugui，doushuonanrenshishijuedongwunanrenzhiyaoshihuodedouyoukenenghuibiande!yexunanrenhenrongyixihuanyigeren，danshiquehennanaishangyigeren。

 xihuanshixiangkaojin，aishilibukai。suoyihenduonanrenjishichugui，yebuhuiyuanyifangqizijideqizi。zhiyuchuguideduixiang，dadoushibaozhewanyiwandexintai。henduonanrenyexugenbenjiumeiyouxiangguozheixiewenti，xilihutuqishineixinlizuiaidehaishizijidelaopo。xihuanshizhajianzhihuanaishijiuchubuyan。zheishishangduinanrenfuchuganqingdenvrenhuoxubuzhiyige，danwangwangzhiyouqizishiwuyuanwuhuide，shisixintadihezhangfuguorizide，qitanvrennanmianmeiyouqituhuoliyixuqiu。waimiandenvrenjishizaixiyinnanren，nanrenxinlizuianxindehaishishouzhezijideqiziguorizi。xihuanshidedaodehuanxiaishijiyudeanxin。

四、敞开心扉，快乐自来

 shituzuoyigekuailedenvren。zhendeyouwanhuiaiqingma，reqing、shanliang、zhenchengeryoutouming。tongshiyaoxuehuihelaogongyouxiaodigoutong。yaochangkaixinfeihelaogongzuoxialaihaohaoliaoyiliao。ranglaogongmingbainishitalinghunshenchudepengyou。gaosutarenhezhenhuanidounengjieshou。rangtajieshounidetancheng、lingtingnidexinsheng。tongshimingbaizuorendouyaoyouzerenhezijidedixianhunyinzhonglaibudebandiandexujiaheqipian。wokeyirongrendanbiechaoguowodedixian。wobushimeipiqizhishibuqingyifapiqi。buzuodisanzhejishishizaixihuanduifang。rujinzijiyinweishenhuailiujiayiqieweibaobaozhexiang，weilewomengongtongdeyihou，womendouyaozhenxindeduidaiduifang。laogongjishixinlizailiulianwaimiandenvren，taxinliyinyiweihaode，nengnachushoudejianglaibuhaishizijidehaizihewennuandejiama!suoyi，jiahaole，shenmecaihaole。

 hunwailianshicuihuixingfujiatingdeduyao，buguanshiduinihaishiduiduifangdoushishanghaide。dangniaiwojiupinmingaini。ruguonibuaiwolewojiulikezhisunjuebu。aiqingzheishishiniqingwoyuande，liangrenxiangaicaijiaoaiqingzhiyouyirentieshangquneihaiburuchenzaoxiangwangjianghu。

 tongshiyaotingtingtadeshengyin、tingtingtadekanfa。rangzijiyegengqingchutadewentijiujingchuzainalile?huozhetaduiniyoushenmeyijianhuozhekanfa。yaozhidaonanrendoushihaizi，sixiangshangyoushihoumeiyounvrenchengshu。ruguotashiyinweiyishichongdongfancuo，zijiyeshengankuijiubuan，neiyidingyaojiejikuanrongyuanliangta。nvrendedafanghetitiebenshenjiushiyizhongmeili，rangnanrenganjuekuanxinheanxin。ruguoshiyinweinidetaidubugouwenrou，ruguoshiyinweinibugoulijietadexiangfa，ruguoshinibunenggouzhichitadeshiye，ruguoshinibunenggoulijieta，neimenijiuyaohaohaoxiangxiang，bingxiangtabaozhengjinhouzijihuinuligaijin，weilejiatingdemeimanhuizuochugaibian，rangtayekandaonidejuexinheyongqi。

 ruguoyinweinimeiyouletachujiannishidemeili，taxuanzebuzaizhenxini，nigaosutashengwanhaizihou，niyirankeyichuanshanggaogenxiehuashangjingzhidezhuangrong，zhanfangwangridejingcai，zhongshizijideshiyeheguanghuanzouchumenbeiwanrenzhuipengzhumu。rangdaduoshunvrenchoulouquehuirangyizhongnvrenjifamei。dongdeaidenvrencainengwanhuishuyuzijideai。jishiganqingshibaileyekeyishibaidehenyouya。

 aiqingbingbushidajiaxiangxiangzhongdezhipingganjuededongxi，gengduodeshiyichangboyi，duishuangfanglaishuodoushixuyaoyongxinqujingyingde，lejieduifangdexuyaojiyuxiangyingdejiazhi，zheicaishiaiqingnenggouzhangjiudefabao。