如何挽救爱情？

 ruhewanjiuaiqing？duiyunannvlianqingfenshou,yibanshizhangshijianzhujianxingchengde。zhiyaoduiwanhuiaiqingbaochiyizhongjijidetaidu,bingcankaoyixiawanhuiaiqingmiji,zhaohuixirizhenzhideqingganbingbunan。

一、别弥留,选择分手

 henduorenzaiduifangtichufenshoushi,huishuozhuru“wocuole,wohuigaizhengde”,zheizhongshiyongyuanbuhuiyouxiaodewanhuicushi。jiranduifangzaimouxiefangmianduiniyouyiyi,neishuomingduifangzaizhiqianyijingpangjiceqiaodejinishuoguozheixie,erniquecongweizhenzhengzhimianguozheixiewenti。suoyizaijijiangfenshoushi,buyaochangshiyong“wohuigaizhengde”laimiliu,zheixieshihaowuzuoyongde。

二、留下缓冲时间

 zaifenshouhoujiujiyugenqianrenlianxi,xiangyaoyuduifangfuhe,ranerzheixierenwangjileganqingdehuanchongqi。xiangyaowanjiuaiqing，xuyaolejiedeshicishizaiduifangdexinzhong,nishiyigefumiandejiheti,zheishihouquchangshiwanhuizhinengshipengbi。neiyingdangzuoxieshenmeni?qingkanxiayitiaogonglve,tongyangyeshiwanhuiaiqingshisuojiangdezuiguanjiangonglve。

三、冷处理,暂时不要联系

 jiranfenshoule,neijiuzanshilengchuli,buyaojiyulianxi。jishinixianzaiyijiuaizheduifang,yebuyaoyizhiqukantadekongjian、guanzhutadeweibo……xianzaidefangshi,shiduanjueyiqiedelianxifangshi。zairangzijilengjingdetongshi,haiyaojiduifangyidingdeshijian,congfenshoudechongdongzhonglengjingxialai,haohaodesikaoshangyiduanganqing。shijianshideliangyao,zaizheiduanshijiannei,lianrenhuiduinideganqingjinxingzhongxindeshuli。zaiciqijian,niyaozuodeshiguohaozijideshenghuo,zhongxinhuiguizijidepengyouquan,baochilianghaodeshenghuotaidu。ciwai,haikeyijieshixindepengyou,baokuoyixingpengyou,bingbanimendeshenghuozhaopianfenxiangdaoshejiaowangzhan,rangduifangyenenglejieni。

四、重新建立联系

 xiangyaowanjiuaiqingjiuyaozhongxinheduifangjianlixindelianxi,burulianxinimengongtongdehaoyouzuzhiyicijuhui,rangduifangzaijuhuizhonglejienicishidezhuangtai,yijinizaizheiduanshijianneidegaibian。ruguonimenyouganqingjichu,xiangxinzainixuehuizheisidiangonglvehou,duifanghenrongyiduinizaicichanshengaiyi。danshizheibingfeishiwanhuidezuizhongjieduan,wanhuiaiqingshigaosudajia,ruguoyongjiuqinglaiwanhuiduifang,neimezhihuirangduifangzaicichengweiqianren。jiuxiangwanhuiaiqingmijilizhishide，xiangyaorangduifangdefumianqingxuxiaoshidaijin,niyaozuodejiushirangtakandaonidegaibian,binglejieniyoumeilixindeyimian。zheijiushinizhongxinxiyintadechouma。

 shangtiandeanpaiwangwanghenqimiao，fenghuiluzhuan，baizhuanqianhui。youshihouniyiweishanzhongshuifu，qishiliuanhuamingjiuzaibuyuanchu，ruguojintiannizaifengyuzhongfangqileziji，neimemingtianyuguotianqing，nihaizenmeyoujihuixiangshouyuhoudeyangguangwomensuonengzuode，zhiyoufangpingxintai，naixindedengdaiyangguang。qishijishikuangfengbaoyu，yangguangyeshiduozaiwuyunbeihouanfunide，zhixuyaoniyongxinquganshou。