情感心理咨询师：怎么能挽回老婆的心

　　zenmenengwanhuilaopodexin，zaihunlianguanxizhong，jiarulaopozaoyisilexin，ruoxiangwanquanwanliutadexin，laogongbixushenkelinghui，wanliushangxindelaopozuizhongyaodebudandanshikongdongdefuwuchengnuo，gengyinggaigenjushishizaizaidexingdonglairanqitaqidai。zheileixingweiyuchengnuoderonghecaisuanshiwanliuguanliandehexinzhifa。

　　neiyang，zenmewanhuiyigeduizishenchedishiwangderen?

　　第一、细心分析造成对方对你死了心的主要原因

　　youderenzaiganqinglihenyoukenengxiandejiaoweicuxindayi，shidetamenzaihaowuzhengzhaodeqingkuangxiabeifenkai。shishishang，zaihenduopoliedeganqingli，chufeishishejidaojiujingxiannanti，juedaduoshufenqijunshiyouxiweichusuoyinfade。

　　ruguonidiyicishangdaotadexinshi，tahuoxuyijingzishenquanshuobingxuanzeyuanliangni。danshi，jiarunipinfanzaicifasheng，nvshenghuiqinshenjingliyicicidekuanrongheyihan，zhidaozuihouduizijidechedishiwang，bingjuedingfenshou。

　　yaowanliuyigeduizijidezaoyichedishiwangderen，bingrangtazaiciyunizaiyiqi，nishouxianxuyaozuodeshishenrufenxishishenmerangtaduinisilexin。jinyouzhunquezhaodaowentidebenzhi，nicainenggouzhenduixingdicaiquyouxiaocuoshikaizhanwanjiu。

　　第二、懂得积极主动有效的沟通，是挽救婚姻的主要对策

　　zaifuqiguanxizhong，ruguozhangfuqidaiwanliuzaoyishangxindelaopo，tabixulejiejijizhudongqieyouxiaodegoutongdejiqiao。zaichongfenlejielaoposhangxindeyuanyinhou，laogongyaojinxingshenkeziwofansi，bingchengxianzhenzhidekuijiu。tayaoyongzhenqingshiyilaidadonglaopo，bingqietongguoshentilixinglaizhengmingzijidegenggai，jinerranqiqizideaiyibinghuifutaduiyuzheiyifenguanliandezixin。

　　·wubidongderuhezhenxinchengyidizhiqian。

　　zaibiciyicicikuanronghou，jiarurengwuyuanwuhuiyi，takenenghuileijixinhandaoturanbaofa。zaizheiyiguanjianshishikeke，shanshuoqicidefuyanleshizhiqian，tebieshijiangchu“duibuqihaibuxingma”neiyangdehua，zhihuijiashenduifangxinhan。weilenengzhenzhenzhengzhengwanliu，laogongxuyaorenzhenchengrenzijidecuowu，bingshuochuzhenchengdeyuju，biru：“wozhiqianzhendeshitaihulvele，bingmeiyoujiyuniyinggaiyoupeibanheguanai。wonengjiuzhengzheiyidian，juebuzairangniganjuedaogudu。”

　　·行为胜过言辞。

　　chuncuidedaoqianzhishikaishi，zhenzhenzhengzhengzuizhongyaodeshigenjushentilixinglaizhengmingzijidegenggai。ruguoyiqianhushilelaopo，neiyangjintianjiuyingdangduohuadianshijianpeizheta，batabaizaishouwei。zheileichixubuduandediaozhengheqinfen，keyiranglaopokanjiannidejuexinhetouru，jineryoukenenghuizaicizourutadexinli。

　　第三、挽救婚姻的关键所在：不断存款正方向情绪

　　fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，laogongxuyaozhuzhongbuduancunkuanzhengfangxiangqingxu。zheijibaokuoduiganqingdezhuzhongyuaixi，gengyaoqiulaogongjijizhudongchengxianduizheigeguanliantouruhechengnuo。genjujianchibuxiedigoujianhunyinshenghuodeyishigan，yijishishiyouyiyuhunyinshenghuochijiudegerenxingwei，laogongnenggouweiwanjiuhunyindaxiajianshidejichu。

　　zenmenengwanhuilaopodexin，zhengfangxiangqingxushiquanyulaopoxinliwaishangdeliangyao。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，ruguozhangfunengchixudijiyulaopofeichangdeqing、zunzhongyushiyong，neimetajiuyoukenenghuitongguozijidezhenxinshiyixingdongyujiandingxinnianquhuajiecongqiandefennuhetongku。

　　henduolaogongzailaopoxinhanhoufangqi，danshi，zheileiguozaodisheqifanerhuiranglaopoduiwanliudeqidaigengweimimang。fanguolai，laogongxuyaobaochijiandingdexinnian，bingcaiqujijixingdonglaixiufuhunyin。

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，laogongdezixinhezhengqianghuayouweizhongyao。tamenbujinnenggouyinranlaopoduilaogongyuhunyindezixin，haikeyiweizheigejiatingyinrushehuizhengnengliang。yaojizhu，zouruhunyinbingfeiyishi，keshizheigeyouzhegenggaozixinxinderentongchangkeyizaihunyinshenghuozhongchongfenfahuizhudaodiwei。

　　ruguozhangfuzhongxindexiwangwanjiuhunyin，tabianwubimingjijingyingaiqingdebiyaoxing，bingqieduizishenyuqizimanhuaixinxin。zheixiezixinxinlaiziduilaopoquanmianlejie、chixubuduandeguanzhu，jiqilaogongduilaopozhenzhideaiyi。tongguobuduandicunkuanzhengfangxiangqingxu，laogongnenggouweiwanjiuhunyinzaojiuwuxiandekenengxing。