wanhuilaopozenmewanhui,zhuweizhengzaiweihunlianwentifanchou,xiangwanhuiqizixinpengyoumen,woshinimendelaopengyouqinggandaoshilaoli。jinrizanmenjiudakaileliaoyiliao,ruhebalaopozheikeyijingyoudian“chuzou”deneixinjilashanglai。hunyinshenghuoa,jiuxiangyichangmanzhangdelvcheng,lushangnanmianyoudiediezhuangzhuang,youshiyigebuxiaoxin,xifuhenyoukenengjiuhuiduinichedishiwang,shenzhiyouleliqudexiangfa。cike,zankebunengzuozuoxialai,dekaishixingdong,zhaoduifangfajiangtawanliulai。
第一步:理智思考,找问题的根源

zanbiejizhequhelaopodaoqianhuoshiqiuhe,xianyaopingjingxialai,haohaodifansifansizheiduanganqingjiujingchushenmewenti。shirichangduitaguanzhubuzu,huoshizongyinweiyixiexiaoshihetazhengchao?shijingjishangrangtayoulegongzuoyali,huoshinizaineibianyourangtabufangxinxingwei?nidexiangtananyiyang,jiangwentiyitiaoyitiaodizhenglichulai。
liru,nizongjiabanjiadian,huilaijiuleidaodaotoudashui,meishijianpeilaopoxianliao、guangjiegouwu。shijianjiule,tabianzhihuijuedebuzaiyita,xinliyouyuanhen。youhuozheshi,nipiqibaozao,yiyudaoyidianshiqingjiuchongtafapiqi,rangtazaizheiduanganqinglichangjinlebiequ。zheizhongkansibuqiyandexiaomaobing,jileiqilaijiuhuichengweidafenqi,ranglaopoduizijideshiwangtouding。
woyouyigepengyou,yiqianzhiyinweigongzuomang,hushilexifudetiyan。laoposhengrishi,tajingranyouyuyigezhongyaodexiangmuhuiyiwangdeyiganerjing。denghuidaojiali,jiandaokongdangdangjiazhong,xifuliuxialaideyizhangheranxiezhe“wozhendeleile,xiangyigerenjingjing”dexiaozhitiao,zheicaihuangleshoujiao。zhihoutahewoliaoqizheigeshiqing,wocaimanmanbangzhutapanduanchu,qingkuangjiuyouzaitaduiyuxifudeguanhuaiguoshao,changchangbagongzuozhongfangzaidiyiwei,hushileqizidejingshenxuqiu。
suoyiya,pengyoumen,zanxianyaoxunzhaowentidebenzhi,cainengshibangongbei。ruguolianwentichuzainalihaibuzhidao,jiumangmudequwanliu,kendingshitulaowugong。
第二步:真诚道歉,表述愧疚
zhaodaowentiyihou,xiamianjiuyaozhenxinchengyixianglaopodaoqianle。zhiqianbingbushiyijujiandande“zhendeduibuqi”jiuwanshile,niyaorangtaganshoudaonikuijiuhechengxin。niyaokanzhetadeshuangyan,renzhendishuochuzijixinlidehua。
wanhuilaopozenmewanhui,ninenghetashuo:“xifu,womingbaizheiyiduanshijianworangnishouweiqule。wosikaolehaojiu,faxianzijizaihenduodifangzuodebudui。wobugaiyizhihushinideqingxu,buyinggaiyinweiyidianxiaoshijiuheninaopiqi。jiushiwomeiyoujindaoyigezhangfudezeren,shinizaizheiduanganqingliguodebukaixin。wozhendechaojihouhuimoji,xiwangninenggouzaijiwoyicijihui,woyidinghuigaidongde。”
rencuodeqingkuangxia,yudiaoyidingyaochengzhi,xintaiyidingyaoduanzheng。qianwanbuyaojuedezhiqianshiyijiandiurendeshier,qishizheiyeshiniwanjiuhunyindediyibu,yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu。nixuyaorangtazhidao,nijiuyijingrenshidaolezijidecuowu,erqieyouxinxinqujiuzheng。
woyouyigexuesheng,yiqianheqiziyinweiyixieshenghuosuoshizongshichaojia,zhihouxifushizairenbuzhule,tichulihun。talaizhaowoyihou,wojiaotalimajixifuxieleyifengxixizhangzhangzhiqianxin,zhihouzaiheshideshijian,dangzhonggenlaopodaoqian。taanzhaowoshuodezuole,yikaishixifuhaifeichanglengdan,genbenbutingtashuodao。tameiyousheqi,yiciyouyicidibiaodazijikuijiu,jianjiandi,xifudexintaijianjianyoulebianhua。
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