婚姻咨询：挽回老婆怎么挽回

　　wanhuilaopozenmewanhui，zhuweizhengzaiweihunlianwentifanchou，xiangwanhuiqizixinpengyoumen，woshinimendelaopengyouqinggandaoshilaoli。jinrizanmenjiudakaileliaoyiliao，ruhebalaopozheikeyijingyoudian“chuzou”deneixinjilashanglai。hunyinshenghuoa，jiuxiangyichangmanzhangdelvcheng，lushangnanmianyoudiediezhuangzhuang，youshiyigebuxiaoxin，xifuhenyoukenengjiuhuiduinichedishiwang，shenzhiyouleliqudexiangfa。cike，zankebunengzuozuoxialai，dekaishixingdong，zhaoduifangfajiangtawanliulai。

　　第一步：理智思考，找问题的根源

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　　liru，nizongjiabanjiadian，huilaijiuleidaodaotoudashui，meishijianpeilaopoxianliao、guangjiegouwu。shijianjiule，tabianzhihuijuedebuzaiyita，xinliyouyuanhen。youhuozheshi，nipiqibaozao，yiyudaoyidianshiqingjiuchongtafapiqi，rangtazaizheiduanganqinglichangjinlebiequ。zheizhongkansibuqiyandexiaomaobing，jileiqilaijiuhuichengweidafenqi，ranglaopoduizijideshiwangtouding。

　　woyouyigepengyou，yiqianzhiyinweigongzuomang，hushilexifudetiyan。laoposhengrishi，tajingranyouyuyigezhongyaodexiangmuhuiyiwangdeyiganerjing。denghuidaojiali，jiandaokongdangdangjiazhong，xifuliuxialaideyizhangheranxiezhe“wozhendeleile，xiangyigerenjingjing”dexiaozhitiao，zheicaihuangleshoujiao。zhihoutahewoliaoqizheigeshiqing，wocaimanmanbangzhutapanduanchu，qingkuangjiuyouzaitaduiyuxifudeguanhuaiguoshao，changchangbagongzuozhongfangzaidiyiwei，hushileqizidejingshenxuqiu。

　　suoyiya，pengyoumen，zanxianyaoxunzhaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei。ruguolianwentichuzainalihaibuzhidao，jiumangmudequwanliu，kendingshitulaowugong。

　　第二步：真诚道歉，表述愧疚

　　zhaodaowentiyihou，xiamianjiuyaozhenxinchengyixianglaopodaoqianle。zhiqianbingbushiyijujiandande“zhendeduibuqi”jiuwanshile，niyaorangtaganshoudaonikuijiuhechengxin。niyaokanzhetadeshuangyan，renzhendishuochuzijixinlidehua。

　　wanhuilaopozenmewanhui，ninenghetashuo：“xifu，womingbaizheiyiduanshijianworangnishouweiqule。wosikaolehaojiu，faxianzijizaihenduodifangzuodebudui。wobugaiyizhihushinideqingxu，buyinggaiyinweiyidianxiaoshijiuheninaopiqi。jiushiwomeiyoujindaoyigezhangfudezeren，shinizaizheiduanganqingliguodebukaixin。wozhendechaojihouhuimoji，xiwangninenggouzaijiwoyicijihui，woyidinghuigaidongde。”

　　rencuodeqingkuangxia，yudiaoyidingyaochengzhi，xintaiyidingyaoduanzheng。qianwanbuyaojuedezhiqianshiyijiandiurendeshier，qishizheiyeshiniwanjiuhunyindediyibu，yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu。nixuyaorangtazhidao，nijiuyijingrenshidaolezijidecuowu，erqieyouxinxinqujiuzheng。

　　woyouyigexuesheng，yiqianheqiziyinweiyixieshenghuosuoshizongshichaojia，zhihouxifushizairenbuzhule，tichulihun。talaizhaowoyihou，wojiaotalimajixifuxieleyifengxixizhangzhangzhiqianxin，zhihouzaiheshideshijian，dangzhonggenlaopodaoqian。taanzhaowoshuodezuole，yikaishixifuhaifeichanglengdan，genbenbutingtashuodao。tameiyousheqi，yiciyouyicidibiaodazijikuijiu，jianjiandi，xifudexintaijianjianyoulebianhua。