如何能挽回老婆的心

　　ruhenengwanhuilaopodexin，zheishihouniyaocaiquyiqieduicelaizuzhizheiyiebianfashengdejilv，nitexiangweihuzheiduanganqing，suoyinihuimashanghuiying“wobuxianglihun”。zaineigeshunjian，nimenyegandaokongju、wunai，yaodaizhefangyulidetaidujianghua。danzhenghaoxiangfandajiazheishihouyingdangpingjingxialai，dengdaiyigeheshideshijianqianquliaoyiliao。cikemingzhidezuofashihuafeishijianshendusikao，sisuodajiashizenyangjianjiandizoudaozheiyibude。

　　youshi，zaiduidaiganqingguanxizhongchuxianwenti，danfangkaizhangaishanxiaoguohenyoukenengbingbushihenhao，“wobuxianglihun”bingbunengjiejuejiongjing。yibanlaishuo，bulunshirangguanlianbuduanhuoshizaochengliekai，douxuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendou。

　　erzaizheigeshihou，nichuyuruoshiyingxiangli。niyaodakaixinfeigenduifangqingxingdetanyitan。dangnibuyuanlihundeshihou，duifangkenengyebingbuquedingshibushizhendexiangyaolihun，zheigeshihounidanyidebiaodazijixintaishitulaowuyi，nikeyicankaoxialiezuofa：

　　1.nengrangduifangkanjiannidejijizhudonghezixin。ninengkaizhanjijizhudongdegenggai，renzhengongzuo、yuelaiyueshenxinjiankang，baneishizuobenrenqudedechengjiu，shiniweilenengzishengaijinsuozuochudegenggai。

　　nisuozhanxiandezixinyuzizunxinzugouxiyinzhuairen。buguanduifangshibushitilihun，zuizhongyaodeshiniyaoxianzhuiqiuzijidexingfukuaile，bashenghuoxintaizhanxianjilingyifangkan。

　　2.jiduifangbiaoshuhunyinshenghuocunzaidewenti。ruguonishuo“wobuxianglihun”，jiubixuyaoshinidelingyibanlejieniyaojiejinquanlidelaiwanjiuzheiduanganqing。

　　womenxuyaojingdeqilingyifangzhiyibingnaixinjiedawenti。niyedejijiqingting，yibiaomingnitingdaoleduifangdeyisi，erqieduiyucishihenzaihu。

　　3.buyaotaiguoyuqingxubuwending。danglingyibanduinishuotamenxianglihundexiaoxishi，niqianwanbiebenkui、naonuhuoqingxubengkui，zheiyanghenrongyirangnimenzhijiandeguanxijinyibuehua。

　　ruguoniganjuezijibunenghuifushi，zuihaoshixianliquyixia，zhidaozijidiaozhenghaoxintaizailaigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。

　　zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，ninengzhanxianzijichengshudemeili，tiaolifenmingbiaomingweihedajiajuedehunyinshenghuohainenggouzhengjiu，jiqinizhunbeiruheshixiannidefangan。airenshicongnidexintaizhonghuodeshujuxinhao，yexuhuikaolvdaodengyiduanshijianzaijuedingyaobuyaoliyi，tongchangshixiangkannishibushizhendejijiweihunyinshenghuozuochulejijizhudongdegenggai。

　　4.zunzhongduifang。zaiairentilihundannibuyuanlishi，dajiadouyouzijidexiangfa，douyougezidedadaoli。yinciniyedezunzhongtazheishibiaodachulaidezheijuhua。nixihuanlingyifang，bingyimingquegaosutamen“wobuxianglihun”，suoyirenhebaochouhuocubaodexingweiheyuyanbiaodadoushibuduide。yidingyaobaochitimiandiheduizishendezhongshi。danzheibingbudaibiaolingyifangwanquanmeiwenti，nibuguoshineiyigebuyuanqingyanfangqideren。

　　5.fangzhizhengzhi。ruguoniganjuefenweicuowu，dajiajixuliaoxiaqukenengzhengchao，neimeniyidingyaojishihanting，jiduifangyixiekongjianlengjingyixia。zhiyaoduifangzhizeniduobihuatitaolun，niyaonaixindemiaoshu“wobuyuanyiwomenliangzhengchao，doulengjingyixia，dengdaowomenqingkuangdoudiaozhenghaole，womenkeyiyiqizailiaoyiliaogezhongwenti。”

　　6.jiduifangliushineikongjian。yidandajiadaoyaoliaoliyidehuatishi，zairichangshenghuozhongjilingyibanyixiekongjian。bubidongzezhiyi，liru，tamenruguohuijiachilequnaerle。takenengzhengzaiyuguimiliaotian，changshishulizijideguandian，huoxutayaoweinimenzhijiandeguanxizuochunuli。jibiciyidiandaliangkongjianheshijian。yucitongshi，jizijiyuliuyixieshijianyukongjianrenzhensikaozenyangjinxingwanliu。

　　7.rangzijiderenshengchongshiqilai。buyaoyingxiangzishendezhengchangshenghuo，shidangdiaozhengyixiehuodongheaihaolairangzijidetounaoheshentidouyongbaohuoli。neiniyekeyichangshiyaoyueairencanyuyixiehuodong，liru，yundongjianshen、dengshan、lvyoudeng。neiruguobeiju，bubiliulufumianqingxu，keyizhaohaopengyoujixugan，rangzijiderenshengchongshiqilai。

　　8.jixuganzishen。“wobuxianglihun”，zheizhongguanniankenenghuizhishiniyiyuzhenghuozizunxinjuedebugao。ruhenengwanhuilaopodexin，biebazijizishifangdetaidi。baochigerenweishengheganjingzhengqibiaomianshiziwoguanhuaisuzaobukehuoquedeyibufen，yexiangdangyujiankangdegainianqingkuang。meitianxizao、baochiwendinghuanjingweisheng，huirangniganjuedaojingliwangsheng，weizheishijiechongfenzhunbei，buguanhunyinshenghuodejieguozenmeyang。

　　9.tishengzijichengjiugan。duojinxingziwoguanhuai。jibiannimendehunyinbujili，keshikaixinjijizhudongdeshenghuoshizijide。shishishang，nideqingxuyidinghuiyoubodong，danniyederangairenkanjiannizijimeibeiyingxiang，rengranguoshangzishendemeihaoshenghuo。

　　10.xunqiuzhuanyeshiyong。ruguonigaosutamen“wobuxianglihun”shi，jiukeyixiangtamenmingquetichukaizhanhunyinzixun，huozhequzhaozhuanyehunyinzhiliaoshidezhichiquwanhuihunyinhejiating。hunyinzixunshiyizhonglidezhenshishenfenlaijidajiapoliedeguanlianxunzhaoshoushufenghedefangfa，weidajiajiyujijizhudongnengliangshiyong，rangtamenhuodeshenxinjiankangrongqiademeimanhunyin。