ruhewanhuilaopohuixinzhuanyidesandajuezhao,zaihunyinshenghuodelvxingzhong,youshihouhuimianlinbaofengyu,ruguoduifangguoduanlihun,danniquebuyuanfangqizheiduanganqingshi,gaizenmewanhuini?yixiashiyixieshijikezhixingdefangshi,xiwangnengweichuzaikunjingzhongdenitigongyixiebangzhu。#hunyinshenghuo#
一、理智思考,找到问题的根源

ruguoduifangtilihunshi,shouxianyaozuodeshibaochilixing。qianwanbuyaozaiqingxujidongdeqingkuangxiaheduifangzhengzhihuokukuwanliu,zheifanerhuirangzhuangkuangbiandegengzao。jizijiyixieshijianyukongjian,pingjingxialaihou,kaishifansihunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidewenti。
回望婚姻生活过程
zixihuixiangcongxiangshi、lianaijiehunlingzhengdezhenggeguocheng。sisuozaizheiguochengzhong,shuangfangdeguanxishizenyangbiandongde?shiheshikaishichuwentide?
biru,kenengzaiyoulehaiziyihou,richangshenghuoyaliyuelaiyueda,bicidejiaoliujiangdi,fenqiriyizengduo。huozheyinweigongzuodeyuanyin,yifangzhangqixinghushilelingyifangdetihui。
剖析问题的根源
congrichanggongchu、jiaoliufangshi、jiazhongzerenhuafen、jinqianwentidengfangmianjinxing,pouxizaochenglingyifangxianglihunjutiyuanyin。
liru,nandaoshiyinweizishenzaigoutongzhongyizhiguoyuqiangshi,bingmeiyoujibicichongzudezunzhongyulijie?huoshizaijiatingjingjizhuangkuangcengmian,bingmeiyouhelianpai,nengrangduifangjuedeyalifeichangda?
自我反思
zhenduizhaodaowenti,yaoganyukaizhanziwofansi。tanyanzijizaihunyinlidewentihebuzhengque,biebazerendoutuijianjilingyifang。

yaozheiyangxiang:“wohaizaizheiduanganqingzhongdequeyouzuodebugouhaodequyu,wogaiweizijidexingweifuze。”
二、坦诚交流,表述内心想法
ruhewanhuilaopohuixinzhuanyidesandajuezhao,zailizhisikaoyihou,zhaoyigeheshideshijianheduifangkaizhanzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliu。
xuanzeshihezijideshijiandidian
xuanzeyigelingyifangqingxuxiangduixingningjing、meiyoubiedeshiwuguanliyingxiangdeshijianye。dizhiyekeyizaiyigeanjing、lianghaodehuanjing,lirushengtaigongyuan、kafeitingdeng。
biru:“qinaida,womingbaijinqiliangrendeguanxitebiejinzhang,woyeyizhizaisikao。woxiangzhaogeshizhangyunihaohaoditanyitan,nikanzheilibaitiandajiaqugongyuanwanzouyizouruhe?neibianbijiaoanjing,womennengliaoyiliao。”
zhenxinshiyibiaodazijideganshou
zaigoutongzhong,zhenxinchengyibiaodaduihunyinshenghuobushezhiqing、duibicideaijiqiduiweilaideqiwang。bubiyanshizijiqingxu,nengrangduifangkanjiannidezhenxinshiyi。

“qinaida,womingbaiwozuijindegerenxingweishinifeichangshiwang,danshiwozhendebunenglihun。wohaiaizheni,woshebudenidejiating。womingbaibicizhijianchuxianlexuduonanti,danshiwoxiangxinzhixuwomenyiqinuli,yidingkeyijiejuede。”
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