怎么样挽回我的老婆

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nanmianhuiyinweizhongzhongyuanyinzaochengganqingchuxianwenti。zenmeyangwanhuiwodelaopo？youshihou，womenhuiyinweiyixiexiaomaodunhuoshigoutongbuchangeryubanlvchanshenggehe。dangganqingchuxianliehenshi，womengairuhewanhuilaopodexinni?

　　一、找到问题所在

　　yaozhidaoganqingchuxianwentideyuanyin。shiyouyurichangsuoshi、jiatingzeren、goutongbuchanghaishiqitayuanyin?zhiyouzhaodaowentidegenyuan，cainengyouzhenduixingdijinxingchuli。yuqizikaizhanshenrugoutong，lingtingtaxiangfaheganshou，lejietalichangheguandian。

　　二、认错并道歉

　　zaizhaodaowentisuozaihou，yaoyongyuchengrenzijidecuowu，bingxiangqizidaoqian。daoqianbudandanshiyiju“duibuqi”，ershiyaozhenchengdirenshidaozijidecuowu，bingchuandachugaizhengdejuexin。tongshi，yaobimianbazerenquanbutuijiduifang，yeyaochengrenzijideguocuo。

　　三、改变自己

　　weilewanhuilaopodexin，budanyaorencuo，yeyaojinxingziwogaibian。gaibianzijidetaiduhexingwei，rangqizikandaonidenulihechengzhang。gaibianzijixuyaocongxijierushou，liruduoguanxinqizideshenghuo、fendanjiawu、duoheqizigoutongdeng。

　　四、重建信任

　　zaiganqingchuxianwentihou，xinrenwangwanghuibeipohuai。weilewanhuilaopodexin，xuyaozhongjianxinrenguanxi。tongguoshijixingdongzhengmingzijidechengyihejuexin，biruyuqizichengnuobuzaifantongyangdecuo，duoguanxintashenghuodeng。zhongjianxinrenxuyaoshijianhenaixin，danzhiyaojianchixiaqu，xinrenguanxijiuhuizhujianhuifu。

　　五、保持耐心和毅力

　　zenmeyangwanhuiwodelaopo？wanhuilaopodexinxuyaoshijianhenaixin。buyaoqiwangyicuerjiudijiejuewenti，yaobaochihengxinheyili。zaigaibianzijideguochengzhong，huipengdaocuozhehekunnan，danzhiyaojiandingxinnian，chizhiyihengdinuli，zuihouyidingnenggoushunliwanhuilaopodexin。tongshi，yeyaoxuehuiweichijijidexintai，jianxinzijikeyizhanshengkunnanbinghuodechenggong。