lihunhouzenyangwanhuilaoponi?suhuashuo“nanparucuoxing,nvpajiacuolang。”zaiyiduanhunyinzhong,tebieshizaidangjinshehui,henduorenshanhun,zaiyixieqingkuangxiazuihoujuezelihun,duiyuqingganwanhuiaiqing,neime zenyangwanhuilaopo ?wanhuilaopofangfayounaxieni?
1、首先要做的是考虑,为何是考虑呢
youyurujindewaiyuchanshengdeyinsushizaishitaiduole,shilaopobuzaiaizijilema?rengshilaopomeiyoujingdezhuyinyoueryishideguocuoni?laopochuguiruhewanhui?suoyishouxianyaozuodejishizhendingdekaolvzheigeyiwen,yaoxiancongzijishenshangzhaoyiwen,shibushizijimeiyoushikepeilaopohuoshizijiduilaopoyoushabuduidedangdima?
2、仔细思考,分析原因
fanshiyouguobiyouyin,ruguofuqixiangchuhexie,taturanchuguidekenengxingjihumeiyou。rujinshiqingjiyifasheng,neimeshichubiranyouyin。ruhewanhuilaopodexin?laopochugui,guranshiqiancuowancuo。danshizijizaisikaoyuanyindeshihou,xudexianjiangtadecuowufangdaoyibian,zixixiangxiangzijimenguoqudexiangchu。zijishifouzhangqipeibanzaitashenbian,duitagoubugouhao,aitagoubugouduo。haiyouzijidemeilishifouyijiu,zijiaitadefangshi,shibushitaxiangyaode。laopolihunruhewanhui?yibanlaishuo,zijimencongxiangzhixiangliandaojiehun,ruguozijiyidianwentidoubuchu,tayeyinggaibuhuihaowudaolidechugui。dangran,zijiyebunengwanquanpaichuzheizhongkeneng,bijingrenxinshigaibiande,nvrenyouqishanzhangbijiao。zheishijiemeiyouzuiyouxiuzhiyougengyouxiu。danshi,buguanshishenmeyuanyin,zijidoudejinkuaizhaochuyuanyin。yinweiweiyouruci,cainengfangbianzijijiexialaidejuedinghexingdong。
3、接受事实,冷静面对,不宣扬不报复
laopochuguizheizhongzijiyiqianhuoxucongweixiangguodeshiqing,fashengzaizijishenshang。zaizijiquedingzhichu,nanyizhixinshikendingde。danshiyouxieshiqing,fashenglejiushifashengle,buhuiyigerendeyizhierzhuanyi。xiangxinyehao,buxinyeba,zheijianshiqingdouyijingfasheng。laopolihunruhewanhui?zaizijiquerenlaopoyijingchuguizheijianshishizhihou,zijizuixiannengzuode,jiushijieshouzheigeshishi,chenzhelengjingmiandui。suhuashuodehao,jiachoubukewaiyang。laopochuguizheizhongshiqing,duizijihetaeryan,doushijiweibuguangcaideshiqing。shiqingnaodahuozhejiangxiaoxixuanyangchuqu,taguranshishenbaiminglie,zijizijidedaishang‘lvmaozi’deshiqing,yehuibianderenjinjiezhi。erqieyidanzheiyang,zijidejiayejiuchediwandan,zaiwufuhekeneng。xiangxinzheizhongjieguo,juebushizijixiangyaode。
4、反思自己身上存在那些毛病或错误:
ruhewanhuilaopodexin?zuoweiyigelaogong,beilaopodailelvmaozi,shangxinfennuzaisuonanmian。keshi,zijibunengquanbuzeguailaopoyigeren,zijiyeshidangshirenzhiyi,yeyaofansizijishenshangcunzainaxiemaobinghuocuowu。
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