老婆要离婚怎么挽回 媳妇要离婚怎么挽回？

 xifuyaolihunzenmewanhui？dangzhangfushiyigebushanyuyanci、burezhongyubiaodaduizijideaiderenshi，tamenchangchanghuichanshengyizhongcuojue，renweizhangfugenbenbuguanxinziji，yebuaiziji。jintianxiaobianjiaoni7gejiqiaolaizhengjiunideqizi，zheikenenghuibangzhuni。

1.列出问题清单

 xingshishangyinggaidouyounidezhengchao，ruguoninenggouzaimianduizheixiewentishizhaodaochengshudejiejuefangfa，zaimianduixindewentishinenggougongyingdejiejuewenti，neimenijiudadaolemude。

2.需要注意自己

 nulirangzijidepeiouxiexiafangbei，querdaizhideshi，dangduifangzuolenitaoyandeshi，niyaoyongzijidehuoliqufaxianzijigaibugaigaibianziji，rangaijixuxiaqu。zhuanzhuziji，zuozuihaodeziji。

3.少说废话

 lingyifangdefumianlajibingmeiyoushizhixingdexiezhu，zhiyouweihaizhengmiandeguanlian。yinciwanhuilaopodejiqiaoshi，bubigengduodefeiyi、maiyuan、zhize、naonu、wajuehuoshiweizao。bubirangnaonushengji。zaizhengzhiyiqianbaochilengjinghechechu。jiaruqifengangkaishijinzhang，qingxianpingjingxialai。

4.表达对建设性的担忧

dangshejidaominganhuatishi，jianchiyixiasanzhongjuxing，zheishiyigejiandandefangfa：worenwei…wozaihu…worenwei……

5.解决方案需要沟通

 womenchengzhiweihuaerzigongying，zaiwanhuihunyindewentishang，huaerzigongyingdemudeshixunzhaoyizhongnenggouquyueshuangfangdejumian。dangran，zaiyijianbuyizhideshihou，biaodazijidedanyou，renzhenlingtingpeioudedanyou，zaixunzhaoshuangfangmanyidejiejuefangan。

6.消除破坏婚姻的三个大头

hunyinchuxianwentideyuanyinshihunwaiqing、wanwusangzhi、guodufannao。zheixiedouyinggaipaichuzaihunyinjiankangzhiwai。

7.将积极的能量传递给对方

 xifuyaolihunzenmewanhui，duoweixiao，duoyongbao，duoxinshangduifang，duohuashijianzuozijixihuandeshiqing，duobangzhuduifang，duoxinshangduifang，duoweixiao，duorentong，lianggerenyiqizuoyixieyouqudeshiqing。shenghuozhongzuihaodedongxishimianfeide。niyuejiji，nijiuhuidedaoyueduo。