当得知丈夫有外遇后妻子该怎么做，挽回背叛的他妻子应该怎么做

 dangtahuozhizhangfuyouhunwaiqingshi，wulunyigenvrenyouduowanqiang，tayidinghuijuedejiqidetongchu。zhangfuwubidezuidadeshouhairenshitadeairenhexiaohai，youyiduanshijianshitongchuhewunaide，shouzuwucuo。zaihuozhizhangfuwubihou，tayinggaizenmeban？wanhuibeipandetaqiziyinggaizenmezuo？

理智思索

 nanshichuguixingweiyijingxunzhaocijixing，zheibiaominglechangshichajuezijiyiranhenyouyouhuoli。wulunnirujinyouduoqifen，rujinduinieryanzuizhongyaodeshi：zaiqiadangdexuanxiehoubaochilianghaodelizhi。jinyoubaochilixingdedanao，dajianenggouzhujiansisuogeshigeyangdewenti。

你想要救他吗

 zheigewentidehuidachediqujueyuniziji。wulunnihaopengyouzenmejiang，huoshinidebabamamaruhetiyini，tiaoxuanbingbushitaren，fanershini。ruguoniganjueniwufarongrenlingyifang。

 nixinzhongdejingshenshizhiqingliduinishuo，yigemengpianderenbushandaiziji，buzhijilao，sheqita，bubibipozishen；ruguoninanyisheqihunyin，juedetajinjinyishichongdong。ruguonibatanahuijiashi，ninyouchongfendezixinxinshitabuhuizaiyoumengpianheqipiandeniantouma？wanhuibeipandetaqiziyinggaizenmezuo？

他非常值得挽留吗

 zheigewentiguanjianzaiyunidezhangfu。tadexintailijiyingxiangletashibushifeichangzhidenizaiduai。ruguonidezhangfuqueshiyishidaozishenbudui，tahuitixianchurencuodeyouliangxintai，bingcaiyongfangfancuoshi，zheiyeshikeyiwanliude。

 jiarutajuedezheiwuguantongyang，jishizainijiehunyiqian，niyeyougezhonggeyangchuguixingwei，genjumengpianheyaoqiuraoshuyiciyouyicidiweihaini，neimanirenweiyounaxiebixuhuifuni？

找一个适合的时长商谈

什么是合适的时长？

shihedeshizhangjiushinipingjingxialai，dangnimenliangdulizaiyiqishi，nimenxiangyaolingjuli，changkaixinfei，ningjingdigoutongjiaoliu。

丈夫的心态很重要

 ranglingyifangchanshutashibushinengjianchixiaqu，biciyingdangzuoxienaxieqinfenrangzheifenaifanhuizhenggui；ruguowomenbunengtongyi，womenkeyikaolvdaoliyi。shishihouwanbiyiduanmeifabaocundedonglexin。

 jiarutajuecefanhuijiazhong，niyejuedetajiushiyizhongbulizhi，keyibeiraoshu，yincinijueceyuanliangta，danraoshudeqiantitiaojianshitafuwuchengnuobuhuizaizuocuoshi，bingtianbuzishen，jiaruzaicifashengbuzhengque，yehuichuxianchufa。

tuoshanchuzhitayudisanfangdeguanlian。

 wanhuibeipandetaqiziyinggaizenmezuo？rangaifanhuiqiadangdeguidaoshangbingbuneimafeichangrongyi。biewangji，yeyoulingyigedisanfangwentihaimeichuli。shijishang，niwuxuhetadajiadouou。ruguonidezhangfutiaoxuanyunidiaojie，tadangranhuijuecesheqita。