你删了男友他没挽回，想挽回自己做出改变才最重要

 ruhewanhuinanyoudeqingganni？dangyiduanganqingdewanbijiuyuzhaozheniyexuhuihouhuimoji，danshiyouxierenyeshibuhuihouhuide，keshiyoudeguochengzhonghaihuijixuchenjinzaishangyiduanganqingzhong。zheigeshihoujiuxiangwanliulingyifangdeqinggan，nishanlenanyoutameiwanhuicikeyinggaizenmezuoni？xiamianjiuyiqilailejieyixiaba。

如何挽回男友的情感

 xuanbudeduidaizishensuihoujiejuekunnan，gaibianziwo，yaomingbailingtingnanpengyoudexin，youshiyebixujiji。ruguoniyunidenanyoudeqingganzaoyijijiangkailiedeqingkuangxia，zheigeqingkuangxiajiupobudeyizuochuyixiexingweilaiwanhuinanyoudeqinggan，youyuzhongjiuzishenyeshishenshendideaizhetade。yincizheigeshihoujiubixuxuanbudeduidaizishen，zairichangshenghuozhongyouhenduorendoubuyuanyizhimianzishen，youyuzishenyoudeqingkuangxiadeshenshanghenyoukenenghuichuxianxuduodequexian，shizishensuojienabushangde。suihouwoyouyixiequexianbushiyijienade，keshiyouderenshihuitanhuzishenfanxiadebuzhengque，suihourangziyiquwangquezheiduancuowu。jiaruniqueshixiangwanhuinanyoudeqinggan，cikeniyejiuwubidexuanbudeduidaizishen，suihoujiejuekunnan，zheierdexuanbudeyingduilejiejiushiniwubiyingduizishensuozuochudebuzhengque，suihouyingduizishenshiyouyushishenmeyuanyinzaochengnanpengyouzaoyibuhaohaoaizijile。yincizheigeshihouyidingyaoxiancongziyideshenshangzhaoyuangu，suihoucaikeyicongbierendeshenshangzhaoyuangu。yingduizishendewenticaikeyijiejuekunnan。

改变自我

 ruguonilejienidenanpengyouzaoyibuhaohaoaizijizaoyiduizishenshiquzheiyifenqinggandeqingkuangxia。nicikebubiguoduodeyoushang，nixuyaozuodeshigaibianziwo。nijinyouqugaibianziwole，caikeyilaigenggaizheiyifenganqing，rangzishenbubi。guoduodediluo，youyugangkaishinimenzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，kendingshihuoshiyoujiqingsishede。yincidangnimenfenliledeqingkuangxia，nixuyaogaibianziwo，rangziyiyuelaiyuebiyiqianhaigengqiang，suihoushinidenanpengyoujiandaoniweitazuochudegenggai。tayehuihendadongde，suihounibiankeyisuiyidewanliunimendeganqingle。yinciyoushibubiyizhidianjizhelingyifangjinizuochugenggai，youdeguochengzhongyebixuzishenweilingyifangzuochugenggai，neiyangdeganqingcaisuanshihuxiangzunzhongde。suihouzuodaoyizhongliangrendouaixitarendejuede。suoyishuoruguonixiangwanhuinanyoudeqinggandeqingkuangxia，jiubixugaibianziwo。

要明白聆听男朋友的心

 zheigeshihouyoukenengshiyouyunipingchangtaibuzaihunidenanpengyoule，suihouzaochengnidenanpengyouduinihenxinhan，pingchanggennishuoyixiexiaogushideqingkuangxianiyagenjiubuzaihu。suihoudangzheigeshihouniyejiuwubiqurenkezishendebuzhengque，daozhihounidenanyougennishuozishendeshenshangdeshierzhihouyejiuwubiyaoxixindequlingtingninanpengyoushuodehua。yincinixuyaomingbailingtingninanyoudexin，caihuibawozhuninanpengyouduinideqinggan。

有时也需要积极

 zaiyiduanganqingzhongjuedaduoshujijidequanshinanhaizi，zheigeshihouniyeyaojijidequxunzhaozijidenanpengyoubingbingbushiyiweiderangtarenqujiji。ninengchangchangdejijixunzhaozijidenanpengyou，shuoshuozishenshenghuoshangdeshier。nishanlenanyoutameiwanhui，suihoumeitianshuoyixieshenghuoshangdeshier，neiyangnimendeqinggancaihuitigao，yehuiwanliuniduixiangduinideqinggan。