和男友分手后想他了，要挽回男友怎么办?

 henanpengyoushuofenshou，zaizheiliduanqingganzhongnishitifenkaideyifang，ranglingyifangshenshendixinhanle。danshiruguonizaihenanpengyoushuofenshouhou，xiangdaonanpengyouzhuduodehao，jiuyaoxiangquwanhuinanyou。ganqingkailiehou，buqingchuzenmewanhui？yaowanhuinanyouzenmeban？

 ruojiushinimeiyouzizundiwanhuita，yizhibururenyi，zaochengtayunigengweipolie。quanshiruojiushiniwangbudiaolianmianquwanhuidehua，neiyangbianhuicuoguolewanhuinanyoudekenenghecuoguolezheiyiduanqinggan，yinerhenanpengyoushuofenshouhouxiangtale，gaizenmewanhuinanyouni？

一、了解分手的原因

 meiyiduiqinglvdefenkaiquanshiyouyidingdeyuangude，duiyufenshoudeyuanyin，tongchangshinimen2gebeigaofangcaihuilejiede，kenengzaizheizhongyuanguzhong，shiyouyuzishentaibulizhileyouhuoshikanbushangrichangshenghuotaiguodupingfanle，zheizhongdoushihuibianchengfenkaideliyou。

 yinciruguonizaihenanpengyoushuofenshouhouxiangtale，gaizenmewanhuinanyouni？nixuyaolejienimenzhidaoshiyouyunaxiemaodunle，zuizhongzaochengfenshou。

 haiyounixiangyaonihaijideyidianneibianshidangzaichulinimenzhongjiandefenqideyucitongshi，xuehaoshoulianxingzishendexingzi，qianwanbiequyongyiqiandebulizhidexingziquhenanpengyoutan，yebubixiangqishazibianquganshenme。

二、积极和男友联络

 henanpengyoufenshouhou，keyiqugoutongyixiananpengyou。dangnanyourenishengqile，youyuneiyangdezhuyaobiaoxianzaiduinishuo，shijishangnanpengyouzaifenshouzhihouhuoshimeiyouwangdiaoni，neiyangduinidewanjiushiyouhendadexiezhude。

 ninengxiangyixia，ruguoniyaoxiangceshinanpengyouqinggan，ruoshinanpengyourangnidefanyingshijiweilengmode，neiyangyejiudaibiaozhe，nanpengyouduinishimeiyouganqingle，zhenduizheiyiduanqinggan，nanpengyouyeshibuyuanzaizaicile。yincihenanpengyoushuofenshouhouxiangtale，gaizenmewanhuinanyouni？

 ruguoniyaoxiangwanhuinanyoudehua，neimenikeyizaihenanpengyoushuofenshouhou，zhaoyigeshijianhenanyoujianlilianxi，kanyixiataxianzaishiruhedeqingkuang。neiyangduinidewanliuyeshiyouyidingdexiezhude。

三、承诺男友

 dannihenanyoujianlilianxihou，congnanpengyoudezhuyaobiaoxiandedao，nanpengyouduinihuoshiyouqinggande，neimaninengxiangnanyouzhiqian，suihouquebaozishenzaiqingganzhongfandecuozhihouyidinghuijiuzheng。dangran，zainihenanpengyouzhiqiandeqingkuangxia，yidingyaoyongchengzhidexintai，yeyoushiyaoyongshijixingdonglaizhengshizishendegenggai。

 jianxinzheigeshihoudeni，nanpengyouhuigenganxinde。yaowanhuinanyouzenmeban？shide，nidequebaoshishinidenanyouduiyiduanqingganbiandegengweizixin。