男子怎样挽留婚姻 男人挽留女人的歌

 jiaruhunyinshenghuofashenglefengxi，xifubingbushidaoyirenzairendechengdu，nanrenwanliunvrendege，tashibukenengsuibianmingquetichuliyide。tachangchangzainiyanqianmaiyuanbiaomingchuziyidebiequdeqingkuangxia，nanshengdabufenshiganjuezigexifuxutaobingmeifangzaixinli。

 zhidaojizandaoyidingdeshuiping，hunyinshenghuodefengxihuiyuelaiyueda，zhidaowajie。dabufenzhangfuquanshizhidaolaopoyaolihuncaizhidaoyaowanliuhunyin，zaixifuliquhounanyirongru，suihouyoubingluantouyidimangmugenfengwanhuilaopo，zuihouzhiyouyuelaiyueyuan。

最先，进到婚姻生活的宁静期 。

 yinciyuefazaizheigeshihouyuegailizhi，bubilikequzhiyixifuweihelihunle。neiyangzuozhinengrangbicizhijiandexintaigengxingfen。zheigeshihouyingdangrangnimendehunyinshenghuojindaopingdanqi，yaokongzhuzishendexintai，zhujianxiangbanfaruhewanliuhunyin。

随后，找寻婚姻生活中的分歧点并改进。

分歧点一：要求无法得到达到

 xifudeyaoqiuyaobubianshishenghuoshangdeshiyong，yaobubianshijingshenshizhishangdeshouhou。jinguanshuoxiandainvxingdanduzili，keshichuantongshiderichuerzuoguannianzaixifudenaozhongbukedongyao，suiranzhangfudeshouyiburuzishenduodeqingkuangxia，yehuiqidaizhangfuzaimouzhongyiyikeyidadaozishendejingjifazhanyaoqiu，xiangduiyingditayehuirangnishouyi。

 xifuyidanzaijiatingshenghuozhongtihuibushangaihewennuan，tahuixiangtaochu，taochudaoyigenengdangbinansuodediqu。yaoxiangwanliuhunyin，jiuxuyaogoujianyigeanquanxingwenxindejia。

解决方案：

 duolingtingxifupingchangpengdaodenandian，jijixiezhuxifuqujiejuewenti。suiranfeishiquanbushierdounengyizhaonideniantoufazhanqushi，keshinidexintaibianshijilaopozuidadeguishuganle。jibianjingjifazhanshangdeyaoqiuhaimeiyoudadao，dabufennvxingyidantiaoxuanlezhangfushibukenengsuibianliyide。

分歧点二：对婚姻生活抱有高的希望

 jiehunqiandechengnuoshuzaihunyinshenghuodekankankekezhongxiaotuideqingkuangxia，zhangfuzhujianweizijidexifushiya，qidailingyibannengfentanjialideyiwu。jiehunqianjiujixifuxushudeyifujianglaixingfuguanghuidemoyang，zhidaojiehunlecaifajuenisuoxushudexingfujiemianyagenbuhuiyou。

zaochengxifudefudanhuiyuelaiyueda，xifubianhuixiangyuqishuoliangrendoujianxin，haibibushangjinzaobaituo，jinzaoliyi。

解决方案：

 yuxifuhaohaokaizhanyouxiaogoutong，zuixianyaoduizishenyiqianxuguodechengnuojiyuzuizhenxinshiyidezhiqian，suihourangtazhangwojiazhongxiankuangdexianzhuangfenxijiqinidekunnan。

 yaogenggaixifuyikaishiguogaodexiwang，jianshaocuobaigan，suihouyaozhidingkexingxingfenxidezhengtiguihua，rangzishentishengzijidegongzuonengli，qidainengzaiyicirangnijiyuquwanliuhunyin。

分歧点三：丈夫的叛变

 wulunshichuziyushishenmeyuanyindepanbian，xifudoushihuijuedenimeixihuantale，niduitadesunhaizaoyiyinqile，yincitacaitiaoxuanliyidegezhongfangfaqubaocunzizunxin。

 henyoukenengnijinjinyishidebulizhi，daozuizhongcaifajuehouhuibuyi，zhidaoxifuliyideqingkuangxiacaizhidaoxifudehao。ruguoninhaizaihuxifuhaixuyaofeijinxinjiquwanhuilaopo，neidangshiwaiyudeqingkuangxiajiugaixiangyixiangxifudehao。

解决方案：

 deyongzuichengzhidezhiqianhezuinanwangdeziwofansi，rangxifulejiewaiyujinjinyigechuxianyiwai，zishendeneixinyiranshenaizhetade。jiaruxifumeifalizhiditingnidebiaoshu，neimejiujingjingditixifushouweihaozheiyijiazhong。yongjutidexingweigaozhixifu，nideaiyizhizaijiazhongshang，zhihouhuifanbeidirenzhenkandaita。

最终，或是要认真婚姻经营

 jiarunimendedaolequdechenggongdiwanliuhunyin，nanrenwanliunvrendege，nimenyaoyiqihaohaodifanganyixiajianglaiyingdangzenmegenggaixiangchumoshi，huoshiruhefentanjiazhongdejiawuhuo。bahunyinshenghuozhongdefenqidianyiyiqingchu，jixifuyigezaiaizhenidejiyu。