如何对待出轨后的老婆？挽回老婆自己要怎么做？

 doushuonanshenghenrongyiwaiyu，kezaidangxiashehuifazhan，nvxingyefeichangrongyiwaiyu，tebieshizaidangjinnvxingyingxiangligengjiabeiguanzhudeshidaixia，nvxingsuozuodeshierzaoyibuhuibixunvrenxihuannanrendemiansele。zaiyigejiazhongli，nanshengchulaijiaojiduole，bulijiexifudeyaoqiu，huoshiduixifubutaiguanxindehuayu，doufeichangrongyiyinqiqizichuguidekunjing。yingduirucideqingxingshi，zuoweijiazhongdenanshenggaizenyangrangchuguidelaopoxinwendingzaiziyideshenshangyujiatinglibian？ruheduidaichuguihoudelaopo?yaohaijide，shieryidanfashengleqiewuzhengzhi，zuixianyidingyaojingxialai，haohaodigoutongjiaoliu，gaoqingchutadexinliniantou，neiyangnenggouhenqieshijiejuenanti。

一，如何判断媳妇是不是外遇

 chuguinvrenqianxinxianwaiyu，suihoucaiyouxinshendewaiyu。wulunshinayizhongzhongleidewaiyu，zuichudanglaopohuijialehouyidinghuiduilaogongyouyizhongkuijiugan，yincitahuixiangcongqitadiqupeichang，huiduinihuranwuyuanwugudehao，yinci，laogongzhixuxixidiguanchaheganshou，jiuyidingnengxunsubawoqiwaiyuhoudexindongtai。

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 jiaolvbuantongxungongju。chuguinvrendianhuahaowuyiwenshenbeiren，youqishizishendeairenhexiaohai，duanxiaoxichixu，mimashezhi，jinyouziyinengjiandao，tachangchangshoudaowuyuanwugudedianhua，gaopindishouquhefasongduanxiaoxi，bingqiehailiniyuanyuandide，huoshijianghuayikouqihenshenzhong，hendanxinbeibierentingjianfayanneirong。

 fuqishenghuopinzhijiangdi，liangxingzhishigenggai。meiyigenvbeinanrenyanfadeshuipinghefangfaquanshibuyiyangde，renyaosahuangdanrentiquehenlaoshibajiao。chuguinanren，zaijiali，hennannengkeguihezishendelaopohaiyouneiyigexingyu。ernvshengquebuyiyang，jibianchuguinvrenhou，laogonghaimingquetichuxingfang，dabufennvxingweilegenghaodiyangai，yibanshibukenenghuijuelaogongdexingxuyaode。ziran，yeyeyouyibufennvxinghuijue，neiquanshijishaoshu。dangtazhenduizheixiefangmiantixiandebuhuineiyangjiqinghuozhebuhuizaineimazijintouru，guohouyemeishenmefumohuonuanxinqinghua，yiqiedoukanqilaineimamanzusuiyi，neimanijiuxuyaozaochengzhuyile。

二，怎么会外遇

 yingduixifudewaiyu，zuoweilaogongdabufendoushihuihuomaosanzhang，danshi，zailaogongqifenzhiwaishibushixuyaosisuoxiaxifuzenmehuiwaiyu？yuanguzainaer？rutongqingganzixunshikangnalaoxianshengshuode，“congyuantoushangeryan，qingganlianxizhongchanshengdeyiqienanti，quanshinanshengdaozhide，youyutameiyoujinhaolingzhehaoyigenvrendeyiwu，caizhishitazoupianzouwai，meifazuodaoyitongxinyoulingxi。”ruhewanhuilaopo？xiankanyixiaqizichuguideyixieyuanguba！

 xingqubuhe。youdefufuzaiaiqingshangyuanbenfeichanghao，danshijianzhangdanshifajuebicizhijianmeiyouyitongdexingqu，lirulaopoxiaiwudao，laogongquezhixiaiwanpai；laogongaihaowenxuezaoxingyishu，laopoqueduichaoliuqushishifenpianaideng。zheizhongxingquaihao，xihao，lixiangshangdebutongshilianggerenyulaiyumeiyougongtonghuati，bufayemingxiandebuyizhi。jiaruzheishihouzaiwaimianpengdao“zhiyi”，jiufeichangrongyirangrenshenxianwaiyuzhongqu。

 xinhanbufuhe。jiarujiehunhoudeshenghuolingrenjuedexinhanhebufuhe，henduorenbianhuizhaoxunbiededefangfahuozhecijixinglairangzishendexinlizhuangtaidedaodadaohejunheng。liruhunhoushenghuolingrenjuedegudu，wuqu，fufubiciquefaqinmigan，bunenggoujitarenchanshengshenghuoqingqu，zheishihou，disanzhe，hunwailianjiuchenxuerrule。youqishineileizhangqixingliangdifenjuyididefufu，jiandaotarendeliangkouzidoushuangshuangduidui，xiangaitianmei，neixinzaisuonanmianzaochengshiwanghebupinghengdejuede，yinerfeichangrongyixunzhaoqita“xingganbushisao”。

 aimuxurong。youxierenshishifenwufapandingde，tebieshizaizaiqingganwentishang，feichangrongyijianyigeaiyige，daozuizhongyebuzhidaozishenaidedaodishishei。jiaruzheixiezhuangkuangchuxianzaijiehunqian，huoxuwukefeiyi，danshiyidanjiehunle，jiuxuyaoduilianrenyujiatingchengdanzeren。zheileiaimuxurongdesiweizaizaijiashangjiehunhoudeshenghuodebushihenchengxin，jibianhezishenjiehunduixiangshi“shenaideren”，yehuichanshengbianhua。

 fuqishenghuobuhexie。ruheduidaichuguihoudelaopo?zheiyeshizaochengwaiyuzaochengdeshouyaoyuanyouzhiyi。jiaruhunyinshenghuomeiyouhemudefuqishenghuo，shihenwufaweichide。jibianbiciqingganzaihao，youyoujigerenkeyiyibeiziguo“bolatu”shideaiqingshini?zheishihouchanshengwaiyuzheijianshiqinghaoxiangzaoyinanyifangzhile。