媳妇要离婚我该怎么办?我不想离一直拖着怎么办

 yigenvrensuibiankendingshiburongyimingquetichulailiyide，jiarutagennimingquetichulailiyierqiehenguoduandehua，haowuyiwenyouyuninayouzuodecuowudediqu，bingqietazaoyijinizuocuowudezheigedifangtishiguoni，laopotielexinyaolihunzenmeban？erqierenshoulehaozhangshijiancaihuitiqilai，zheigeshihounibuyaoyiweidequbaoyuan，yaoshanyuchajuezijidenanti，erqieganyuchulita，bubimingzhidao，xifuyaolihunwogaizenmeban?shiyouyuzheigeshierzaochengxifuheziyiliyi。

媳妇要离婚我该怎么办

 xifujianchibuxieliyi，zuixianyidingyaolizhi。yigenvrenzaijiatingshenghuolitourushizuidade，taqueshiyexiangyaozheiyijiazhongshixingfumeimandehemude，keshishenghuoshanghuichuxianxuduodenanti，zaochenghunyinjiatingbingbushineiyangdexingfukuaile，richangshenghuoyehuichanshengxuduodenanti，mingquetichuliyihaowuyiwenyeshiganlehaozhangshijiandeyigejuece，jueduibuhuishiyishichongdongjiuquedingzhihoude，yincishitagennimingquetichuliyidediyiyishunjian，niyidingyaogentabaochilizhilizhi，bubiquyiweidejiuchanbuqingta，henyoukenengneiyanghuirangtatiyandaohaofan，bibushangliangrendoushifangyaliyiduanshijian，qukaolvyixiazheigewenti。

积极去沟通交流

 xuduonanrenzailejiezishenxifuyaogenzishenxieyilihundediyiyishunjian，quanshihuiganjuenvrenshizaiwanxiao，meiyouyiqieyigenvrennenggourucijiandandequxuehuifangxiazheimeduoniandehunyinshenghuo，yibanneiyangxiangqizuizhongjibendoushihuiliyide。yincidangnvxinggennimingquetichuliyidediyiyishunjian，nibuyaoguoyuxingfen，huoshiyaoquhetahaohaodidegoutongjiaoliuyixia，shiqinggannaerchulenanti，caihuirangtaneimehaobuyouyu，bubibubatajiangdehuafangzaixinli，niyuefazhanxianyizhongbuzaihudexintai，tayehuiduiniyulaiyubuzaihu。

寻找根本原因并处理

 xuduonvhaizizaimingquetichuliyidediyiyishunjian，nanshengbingmeiyoutaiduodefangzaixinli，zheiyijianshieryejiuzhinengyituozaituo，keshishijishangtuodeshijianyuezhang，taxinzhongmianderougedabianhuiyueda，bingmeiyouxiangnanhaizisuozhichude，tuodeshijianyuezhang，henyoukenengzheigeshierjiutoutoudiguoqu，yincidanghunyinshenghuofashengqingkuangdeqingkuangxia，diyishijianyidingyaoquhetajijidequgoutongjiaoliu，kanjiujingshinalichulenanti，zhidaonantidegenbenyuanyin，zhihouyidingyaoqujijidequchulita。

说明自身的心态

 zaiqutiaoxuanhetagoutongjiaoliu，xiangyouxiaochulideqingkuangxia，yidingyaoshuomingzishenbuyuanliyidexintai，buyaozaitayanqianyouyubujue，rangtaganjuenibuxianghetaliyijiujinjinzaifuyanleshita，yeyouyisisidebuqingyuan，yincinidegongzuotaidushihenzhongyaode，jiarunidexintaizhashidehua，taqueshiduininizheileihaowuyiwendexintaixianranyeshihuizuochuquyixiechiyide，laopotielexinyaolihunzenmeban？burongyixiangneishihouneimabulizhi。