一次次让她失望的我该如何挽回妻子的心？

 ruhewanhuiqizi？nibenlaiyishidaozishendebuzhengque，yishidaoyiqianzhuduoxingweishangguoletadexin，ruherujincairumengchuxingni？ruhewanhuiqizidexin？

１．婚姻生活里下意识的束手无策

 zishenzaixiangxiangzhongwurennengdi，keshizaishijizhong，querenhedongxidouzuobulai。hunyinshenghuoyoufenqishiduanshixu，nilejiequemeiyouzuowei，xiangxiangzhefanfuyiwangdexingfu；mengpianzishenliangrendeguanlianmeineimazao，ruhewanhuiqizi？guoqulezheiduanshijianjiuhaole。naizhiweilegenghaodituixiezeren，zhujianweinimendeliefengzhaojiekou；buduananshizhezishenlaopohuilejiede；xiangxiangzheiyeshizuihouyici，lianggerenjiunengwendingguorizile。

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２．男生胆怯，不肯改变现状的日常生活方式

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二、你自己没处于婚姻生活情况，只是处于惯性力情况

 tanlianaiyousangehuanjie。diyigebianshirelian，diergejiaomoheshijian，zheiyidajiadouhenlejie。keshimoheqihaolayihou，bingbushishuoganqingjiuyidingwending，buhuizaiqibolangwenle。fandaoshixiongxingheermengfenhedanjianmiquxiangqinghuandeqingkuangxia，dajiacikebuhuizaifengkuangbuhuizaireqingruhuo。

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