伤了妻子的心，如何挽回妻子？

 jiarushuozhenzhengdeaiqinghanbaoyufangdehua，neimahunyinshenghuobianshihuabaihoufazhandeguozi，nengfoushenxinjiankangchengzhang，zhizhiguoshiwanshan。zheiqineibixulijingxuduodefengchuiyuda，nengfouchengzhang，jiukanchengshounenglizenyangle。ruhewanhuiqizidexin？jiuruhunyinshenghuoyiyang，yigeyibuxiaoxin，bulizhizuoshibianhuicuihuizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。ruhewanhuiqizi？

 jiezuorigenwosukudao：“woheqianliyi３geyuele，dajiayouyigesisuideguinv，liyishixieyishu，xiaobaobaoguiwoyangyu，danqiziyizhiwangbudiaoguinv，jinqiyigeyuedoubaguinvdaizaishenbian。dajiasuandeshangbulizhiliyi，woxianzaixiangyaowanliudajiayiqiandeqinggan，ruhewanhuiqizi？kelaopoduiyuwojianghuashifendeshili，haoxiangmeiyouyaoxiangfuhexingdehanyi。

 laozhangrenhezhangmuniangdouqidaidajiakeyihehao，yinweiwoxiangbudaodajiazhengchaohou，lengbaolileyiduanshijian，wohuidaojia，tajiugenwomingquetichuleliyi，woneishihouyezaieyuxiangxiangjiuyunxule。zhiyouguaiwotaibulizhi，kerujintabuyuangenwofuhexing，dianhua、shoujiweixin、ｑｑdoubawojiaruheimingdanle，wogaiyaozenmezuocaikeyiwanliuwomenzheiduanqingganni？”

 hunyinshenghuojiuhaoxiangyitiaochuan，fufubianshilizaichuanliangbianderen，jiaruliangrenbumingbaizenyangxianghupeihe，zheiyitiaochuanjiuyaoshuofanjiufan，erluorushuizhongderen，youzenmekenengbunongshiyifukuzini？jiarumingbaixianghupeihe，jiunenganquanxingdidazhian。erzaixianghupeihedequanguochengzhong，sheiyebukeyizheji，bukeyibulizhi，buranchuanbohuizaihuzhongjianzhuanquan，bujinhuibarenzhuandeyuntouyunnao，haihuijixuhaofeijingli，lingrenjujuchuoxinlijing，jiurujieliangfufuyiyang，bulizhizhinengzhishangshangji。

 zhangqiyiwang，liangrendemanzuganshunlichengzhangbianhuiwailiudiao，danghunyinshenghuozhongdeliangren，zaiqizhongmouyifangmanzuganxiaotuihou，bianhuitiaoxuanchechu。sheiyebuyuangenyigezhinengrangzishenjuedeleiderenjiaowangyibeizi，neimazaihunyinshenghuozhongranglingyifangshanglexin，gairuhewanhuini？

一、处变不惊，知彼知己

 ruguonimingquetichuyaoxiangfuhexingshi，laopoduiniyoukuyounao，naizhishigaoshengmanma，nidouxuyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，zhongjiujiushiniyouwuzaixian，zheigeshihouninaopiqi，zhinengrangtasilexindefangqini。

 yigenvrenzainiyanqianhaixiangyaomaiyuanni，mani，zhengshiniyizhizaitaneixinhuoshiyouyidingdebuweide，jinjintarujinduinidegerenxingweishifendexinhanhefahuo，douhaimeidaoxinhandechengdu，buran，yidinglianhuabuxiangyunijiang。

xixintansuotadezhenzhengyaoqiu，jiuzhengzishendequedian，rangtajiandaoyigequanxindeni，yingdeniyizhizaitaxinlideyouhaodu。

二、“精英团队”战斗，取得成功挽留

 haohaodiyaoqiutazuixinlaiderenbangniyizhizaitayanqianshuohaotingdehua，zaishidudejihuizaitayanqiantidaoni，danzheijianshiqingjuebuyaorangtalejie，neiyangtabianhuixiangqinidehao，zaixinlijianjiandizhuiyinimenzaiyiqideyidianyidi。

 biru：jiedeyuefumudouqidaitamenfuhexing，neizheigeshihou，tajiuyidingyaohaohaodiyunyongzheiyijiyu，rangyuefumuyeyouhaizibangtazaiqiziyanqianshuohaotingdehua，dangyouhenduorenchangchangzaitashenpangtijini，neizheigeshihoutaxiangwangleni，bianbingbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshier。

三、异地而处，重新点燃热情

 dangwanliuqudechenggonghou，yebubiyutameitiannizaiyiqi，nenggoushiyonggongchudengshieryidierchu，zheishihouniyidingyaoduoguanzhuta，faxiaoxiwenhaota，duojiangyixienuanxinqinghuajitating。quebubixunsuhuilaizhaota，diaoyidiaotadeshiyu，rangtazhujiansinianni，rangtaduiniyouyizhongpanwangdejuede，neiyangbianhuiyoujiubieshengxinhundejuede，zhongxindianranreqing。

 fufuzaiyiqishijianguozhang，quefareqing，ruhewanhuiqizidexin？bicidexiongxingheermengbugoubianhuizaochengbicidexingzishouhuanying，zhengchaojiuwukebimian，yinci，zhixuzaishidudeqingkuangxiayinranreqing，zhongfantanlianaishidejuede，jiazhongbianhuigengweihemuxingfu。