老公出轨怎么办？老公总是出轨怎么办呢？

 yingduizhangfuchugui，xuduonvrenxuanzewanliu，keshiquexinyouyuerlibuzu，shijixiaoguoweihuqiwei，laogongzongshichuguizenmeban？weishenme？youyushijishangxuduozhengshiquanshidaozaizikongnenglishang，xintaikongzhibuzhu，jiujiqiexiashou。ruguolaogongzonghuaiyiwochuguizenmeban？weishenmelaogonghuihuaiyiwochuguini？ruguoshilaogongchuguileyougairuhezuoni？zenmezuocaishiduizijidehunyinbijiaohaode？laogongzaicichuguizenmeban？

jieguosuichushiloudong，suichubeidisanzhechiding，yichangyuanbenyouqidaidezuozhanjiushizheiyangzizhubengkuile。

yaolejie，juedaduoshuzhuangkuangxia，niyizhizaiming，disanzhetazaian。

shijianshizhongshizhengshidepenyou。

huodeleshijian，jiuhuiyoujiyuhuodeqinggan。

zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban，conghuidelaoporuhezuo，caikeyiruyuanyichangwanjiuhunyin？

一、情绪处理：发觉丈夫出轨不要着急戳破

 laogongzongshichuguizenmeban？ruguonifajuelingyifangwaiyudekeguanshishibaifangzainiyanxiadeqingkuangxia，nidediyixintaikendingshinaonu，nimeilejietaweihezheiyangpanbianni。

 suihoushizaodongbuan、yilv、haipazheixiegezhonggeyangxintaichongjixingzhenidelixing，zaireqinggaozhangdeqingkuangxiatiaoxuanchuopozhinengjiakuainidefuqiganqingpolie。

nixuyaozuodeshixianbaxintaipingjingxialai，haohaosikaoweihelingyifanghuiwaiyu，congzishendeshenshanggaizheng。

 xuehaojunhenghaozishendexintai，qingchujiduanhuadexintai，zaiquebaolianggerenmeiyouqingxubuwendingdeqingkuangkaizhangoutongjiaoliu，caikeyixunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyinsuoshu，erbushibeibiandahuadexintaimihuolenantideshizhi。

二、攘外必先安内：解决事儿与此同时提高自己

meiyigenanshengtiaoxuandelaopodoushihuiqidaitanenggoubajiazhongqingxidejingranyouxu，yexuyaodaiqichulairangzishenyoulianmian。

 xuduonanshengjinjinyishijingbuzhuyinyou，taxinlihuoshibuyuansangshiyigehaodejiade，yincinixuyaozijizuodegengqiang，chudeketingrudecantingchufang，meiyounanrenshihuidongdesangshihenhaodenvxingde。

 tigaozijibaohan，rangzishenyoudandudejingjifazhan，rangzishenyouzongtimubiaoyouzhuiqiuwanmei，rangzishenyougengfengfudezhuanyezhishi，rangzishenyougengqiangdewaizaizheixie。

ruguonibazhuanzhulifangdaowanshanziwodeshenshangdeqingkuangxia，nidegenggaitayehuijiandao，zheicaisuanshicongmingdenvrengaizuodeshi。

三、终止埋怨：没去太过苛求提升丈夫负罪感

 liangrenhaowuyiwenyaohaohaodidetanyixiajiangjiejuewenti，keshijiranzaoyishikeguanshishiniyejiuqianwanbiejiuzhelingyifangzheiyidianmeifang，zhishizhengqueyindaotaweijiazhongkaolvdao。

binggaozhilingyifangnilejietawaiyudeyuangu，zuoyigetongqingdalidelaopo。

neiyanglingyifangfandaobudandingcongrongle，nijiaruyuelaiyuechongzuhao，tahuifansizijineimezuoshifoubudui。

shijishangtaneixinyelejieneiyangbushiduide，shitazishentishengtadefuzuigan，erbushiyounituizhetaquzaochengfuzuigan。

rangtayongtazijidenengliangshitahehaoruchu，fanyingchutaduizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodewanliudezijintouru。

四、道不同不相为谋：不必一直积极联络丈夫

 rendoushiyouyizhongqueshaogandecunyou，jiaruninengzaizheilizhongyaodelianjiedianshang，jitamenlaiyigezhangjulideyouyu，erbushijinjudejiuchanbuqing，tafandaohuijuedemomingqimiaodeshiwang，haoxiangxinlifangfoqueshaoleshenme。ruguolaogongzonghuaiyiwochuguizenmeban？weishenmelaogonghuihuaiyiwochuguini？ruguoshilaogongchuguileyougairuhezuoni？zenmezuocaishiduizijidehunyinbijiaohaode？laogongzaicichuguizenmeban？

zhongjiuhunyinshenghuoguoderen，zongshihuiyoulianluodeqiaoliang，yidanhuranpolie，bianhuishenganzaodongbuan。

 zheiduanshijian，jiaruniyizhidadianhuajita，yizhinianzheta，huiranglingyifangganjuenihaofan，meishierdoushizaizhaota，huishinideshiyongjiazhidihui，zaitaxinlininengyulaiyububeigaoduzhongshi。

 jinkenenghetalakaijuli，naizhiyaolengtayiduanshijian，daobutongbuxiangweimou，neiyangfandaokeyijifataduinidesinian，wangxihunyinshenghuoderuchujianxingfu。

 laogongzongshichuguizenmeban？hunhoujiarulaogongyouwaiyu，laopoyaoxiangwanliu，jiudeyoujimindejiejueduice，erbushimangmugenfengdihengchongzhichuang。