老婆要离婚我该如何挽回？当你的妻子想要离婚时，如何挽救你的婚姻？

 zaiyigewennuandeqiujidexiawu，lidelaopozourujiamenkou，zuozhecanzhuopang。laopoyaolihunzenmewanhui？shenqinghenbudangran，likandechulai，tahaoxiangxiangshuoshenme。tamentiqianzhunbeiwufanshi，zaichufanglilailaiququwangqianzou，dansheiyemeijianghua。laopoyaolihunwogairuhewanhui？buguanshigangjiehunhaishiyijingjiehunduoniande，shenzhishihuailehaizidelaopoyaohezijilihungaizenmewanhuini？laopoyaolihunruhewanjiu？

 dangtamenzuozhecantingchufangdecanzhuopangshi，lilaoposuikoushuochu：“woduini，duiwomendehunyinjuedexiaochen，woyizhizaixunzhaoyigehunyinlvshidexiezhu。”

 neiyike，lichiwanyijing。tabingbulejietamenzhongjianyounaxiebutaidui。lipingxi，yanleichongmanletadeshuangyan，licikexiangdejinyouyijianshi：zenyangzhengjiutamendehunyinshenghuo。

 laopoyaolihunzenmewanhui？zaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiaruyiqianshifenenaideliangren，lirulifufu，weiheguanlianhuiebiandaolaopoguidingliyidechengdu，zheikenengshimouyishikehuomouleishijideyuangu，liru：

●ganqinghuorentishangdeshier

●yizhibanzuihefashengzhengzhi

●yinweigongzuozhong、debingdebabamamahuobenrentiaoxuanerliangdifenju

●jingshenshizhihuogerenxingweiyoushenmewenti

●嗜酒或乱用冰毒

 dangyiduifuqidehunyinshenghuoyaoyaoyuzhuishi，tamenyibanhuixiangpenyou、qinrenhuohunyinshenghuozixunguwenxunzhaotiyi。zhongjiu，chukaizixunquanweizhuanjia，youmeiyoushenmegengqiangdefangfalaizhengjiuyigejiangyaohunyinpolieni？

 shishishang，henduoren，baohanqingganzhuanjiazhenduihunlianwentidetiyiquanshibuzhengquede。youyixietiyijinjintingqilaibucuo，haoxianghenyouxiedaoli，danshishishangyibanshiling。xieshangpoliedehunyinshishifenfanzade，zheiyiquanguochengbingbingbushixingxianghuayoucikejiande，youyixietiyizaoyibeizhengshishishifencaogaode。

 liru，zuicaogaodetiyizhiyi，jiushiduinishuodelaogonghuolaoponizhenzhengdetihui。youyuyoushihoubiaoshuzishendetihuihuiduilingyifangzhujiuchengfeichangdadesunhai。

neima，wobuhuiyingdangjiangchuwodezhenzhengtihuima？

 jiaruchengxindibiaoshuzishendetihuihuisunhailingyifang，neimejiubiezheiyangzuo。tashiyumeide、yumeiwuzhide，tazhinengrangnimendeguanlianshiliaobuji。

 xiubuliekaihunyinshenghuodechuantongshifangshi，liruhunyinzixun，changchangyeshishixiaode，youyutamenyizhizhuzhonglingting，erbushijijizhudongdezuoyixieshi，zhaoyixiexingzhiyouxiaodeduicelaiwanhuihunyin。lingtingzhenduifuqibiciquanshiyixianghenzhongyaodeshier，danxiubufensuidehunyinshenghuogengbixuxingdong。hunyinshenghuodegenggaibingbushiyouyudajiajianglenaxiehuoshitamentingleshiduoshao，zhishiyouyudajiaganlenaxie。

单独行动。

 dabufenrenjuede，woxuyaoyuwodelingyibanyiqiquxiubuwomendehunyin。dan“tangewubuyongliangren”。yigerendeqinfennenggougenggaihunyinshenghuodequshi，bingqieyibanzhuangkuangxia，qiahaoshizheileiqinfencujinzhizhedelingyibantianjiadaowanhuihunyindequanguochengzhong。

千万别问你自己不正确的难题了。

 henduorenxiangyaozhidao，“wojiaduirenhuilemeiyou？”shigebuzhengquedenanti。hunyinshenghuoqudechenggongdezhongyaobingbushixunzhaoshihederen，zhishixuehaoaizhenisuoxunzhaoderen。ganqingbingbushiyigemi。rutongyuzhoukongjiandewulixueguilvyiyang——xiangcaozonghangxingdezuoyongli——yeshiyoufuqiguanxiguilv，nidegerenxingweijuecelenihunyinshenghuodejieguo。nibuyong“haoyundetanlianai”。zheibushiyunshi，zhishitiaoxuan。

独自一人离去并不会让内心觉得舒服。

 ruguonihuoshizhongxueshengshi，ninengyigerenqudujia。danzaihunyinshenghuozhong，tebieshizaipoliedehunyinzhong，duziyirenliqubingbukeyigaibianshenme，youyutazaojiulefenlichulai，erzheiyudajiachangshiwanchengdezongtimubiaoqiahaofanguolai，neibianshiqinmiwujian。

bubitaolunhunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidebuzu。

 taolunhunyinshenghuozhongdenantibingbukeyijiejuekunnan，fandaohuishihunyinshenghuoyuelaiyuegengzaogao。tazaochengzhengzhiheguyijingong。chucizhiwai，nishizhongbuyaoshuozishenyincisuotourushiduoshaoqinfen，hunyinshenghuozerendegenggaiergenggai。duoshuo；duozuo。ninengyongnidexingdonglaijianghua。jiaruniyaozaihunyinshenghuozhongxunzhaoshihedejiejuefangfa，neimaniyejiunenggoutiaoxuanxindefangfalaichulihunlianwenti，dantantaobingbukeyijiejuekunnan。laopoyaolihunwogairuhewanhui？buguanshigangjiehunhaishiyijingjiehunduoniande，shenzhishihuailehaizidelaopoyaohezijilihungaizenmewanhuini？laopoyaolihunruhewanjiu？

别觉得婚姻咨询就能解决困难。

 hunyinzixunzaidabufenzhuangkuangxiadoushiling。tongguolvhendi。jumeiguo《meiriyoubao》baodao，dabufenfuqizaihunyinzixunhoudexianshizhuangkuangdouyouyidingdeebian。wokaishitijideneiduifuqimaiyuanshuo，tamenhualehaoduogeyuedeshijiankaizhanhunyinzixun，danyiwusuohuo。tamenbuduandigoutongjiaoliu，danconglaimeiyouhuodeguoshijide、bianyulejiehekeshixingdejutitiyi。

别跟亲人或盆友讨论你的境遇。

 laopoyaolihunzenmewanhui？hunyinshenghuozhongzuizhongyaodejiazhiguannianzhiyishigerenyinsi；yiner，yuqinrenhuopenyoutaolunnidehunyinshenghuohuolingyibanshibuzhengquede。tashiduilingyibangerenyinsideqinhai，shibuzhengquedezuofa，genghekuang，tamenyebingbukeyirangniyiqieshijixingdexiezhu。