挽回男人的心最佳时间：降低矛盾，选择原谅

 yiqieshierdoushiyouchulidefangshi，qingganliyeshizheiban。wanhuilaogongzuixianjiuxuyaojiangbicizhongjiandemaodunjiangzhizuishao，erqielajinjianju，zuizhongtiaoxuankuanronglingyifang，neiyangzaiwanliuyihou，caikeyiyulingyifangzhongguiyuhao。gaizenmewanjiuhunyin？xiamianlaigaosunizaiwanhuinanrendexinzuijiashijianruhexiewanhuiyigenanrendexinduanxin。

一、矛盾降至最少

 danghunyinfashengnantideqingkuangxia，yaozuodediyijianshishifengsuoxiaoxi。bubibadajiadeshisichuchuanyang，yebubisichuqingrenfalaosao，gengbubisichushuozhangfudeshuoxianhua。tarenzhidao，duidajiahunyinqibushangyiqiegongxiao，zhiyoubianchengtamenfanhouchayudexianyansuiyu。nanrenshiaimianzide，lejiederenyueshao，tahuishoudegailvjiuyueda。changshiduitahao，shitajianjiandijuedejinjiadebiyaoxing，jiukeyiwanliuzheiyiduanqinggan。

二、拉进彼此之间间距

 gaizenmewanjiuhunyinzhongdianzaiyuci。zhenzhenzhengzhengaiyigeren，yaomingbaiyuqinguzong，yirouzhigang，wenheweirenchushi。fufuyaoxiangzhangqidezouxialai，bixuxunzhaoheshidajiadexiangchumoshi。huxiangkuanrong、huxianglijie、huxiangzhaogu，hunyinbixuyunying，bixubicizhijianyongwomendeaiguangaizheiyiduanqinggan。

三、接受犯错的人

 hunyinzhengjiudequanguochengzhong，jinguanbujieshoutafancuodegerenxingwei，danjiarutayouchengrencuowudeguannian，neimenenggouhebuchangshiqulejiehejieshoutafancuodeyuangu，neiyangnenggouwanliuhunyin。

 zongjie：wanhuiyigenanrendexinduanxinyidingyaofazaiwanhuinanrendexinzuijiashijianli。zhishangbianshiyouguanwanhuilaogongdefangshi，qidaiduininyouxiezhu。sheidoubuyi，younicaixingfu！