老公长期不归家，该怎么挽救婚姻？

 xuduorendaoyingduizishendelaogongzhangqixingbuhuijia，zaiwaimianliusushi，doushihuicaiyilingyifangpanbianlezishen，shijishangcaiyishihenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang。zaicaiyilaogongyiqianyingdanggaoqingchukeguanshishi，shifouqueshi。ruguoshiqueshi，jiubixulikewanliulingyifang。gaizenmewanjiuhunyin？xiamianlaigaosunizaiwanhuinanrendexinzuijiashijianruhexiewanhuiyigenanrendexinduanxin。

一、搞清楚缘故

 jiarulaogongzaiwaimianchangchanghenwanhuijiahuoshiyebugui，zheigeshihouyidingyaonongqingchulingyifangshiyouyujiaojihuoshiyouyugenqitanvrenzaiyiqi。zheiyouerzhongbuyiyangdezhuangkuang，yaoxuehaoyijubuyiyangdezhuangkuanglaitiaoxuanweirenchushifangshi。

二、维持平静的心态

 gaizenmewanjiuhunyinzhongdianzaiyuci。nanrenjiaruyoushiyouyugongzuoyaliguodachulaixunhuanzuole，zheigeshihounvrenyidingyaomingbaiweichipingjingdexintai，buyaobaoyuan，jiaruchangchanggenlaogongmaiyuanzheizhong，lingyifanghuishifenyanjuande，zhihoujiugengbuyuanyihuijia。yinciweilegenghaodibuxushierfashengebian，nvrenyidingyaomingbaiyongwenwanhezishendefengcaiqubawozhunanrendexin，rangnanrenxiangyaohuijiale。

三、多一些了解，不必猜忌另一方

 jiarunanrenchangchangyebugui，shiweilegenghaodichulaijiaoji，tashiyouqingkeyuande，yidingyaojiyunanrenyixielejie，zuolingyifangshenhoudezhuxingu。weilegenghaodiliangrenkeyigengqiangdexiangzhixiangxi，yidingyaolejielaogong，zailingyifanghuidaojiadeqingkuangxiayidingyaojilingyifangyixiewennuan。

 zongjie：wanhuiyigenanrendexinduanxinyidingyaofazaiwanhuinanrendexinzuijiashijianli。zhishangbianshilaogongzhangqixingbuhuijia，zenmewanhuidefangshi。tangruomeiyouchanshengjiuzuihaoshi，danyaoxuehaofangzhi，buransangshiyihoujiuwufawanliule。