觉察妻子出轨时，男人要怎样挽回女人才有效

 xifuchuguile，bianhuiduizishenlaogongyuelaiyuehenlengmo。danshinvrenshiyushengjulaidezhimingyanyuan，henhuiyangaizishen，jiarulaogongmeiyouzixizhuyi，guanchaqiziderichangshenghuoguanjiandian，neimeshinanyifajueqizichuguide。zhenduiqizichuguile，jiarunanrenhaixiangyaowanhuita，neimeyaozenmezuoni？

1、要梳理自身的思路。

 zaihuozhiqizichuguile，zishenzaoshouzhepanbianzishen、weizijidailvmaodenaonuzhiwai，ganwanyaoxuehaopingjingxialaijieshouxianshi，yaoxuehaoshulizishendesilu，suihoucaikeyilixingpouxishier。yaoshenshizijishibushihaishenaizhezishendeqizi，jiaruzishenhaishenaizheta，neimejiuxuyaohaohaodishulixintai，gaohaowanhuifangan，rangzishenhelidiwanhuita。

2、要和妻子好好地沟通交流沟通交流。

 chuguinvrendejuedaduoshuyuanguyeshiyouyuhezishendenanrenmeiyoulianghaodegoutonggoutongjiaoliufangfa。laogongwufachedijindaozhangfudezeren。nanrenyaoxiangwanhuiqizi，jiuxuyaohaohaohetagoutongjiaoliuyixia，wenyiwentawaiyudeyuangu，ruguoshinidecuo，neimeniyejiuwohainengshuoshenmejiuzheng。niyutajiangtafuyuanyouyuxiaohai，jihaiziyigeyouliangdefazhanziranhuanjingma？jiarutahaixiangyao，duiniyeyoujuede，neimejiubixulianggerengongtongfendoule。

3、要掌握妻子出轨的缘故。

 shieryouyinyouguo，qizichuguile，kendingshiyouyuangude。neimenijiuxuyaozhaodaoyuangu，neiyangcaikeyijiejuekunnan，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao。nenggouwenyiwenqizidaodishinayifangmianxiyinzhudaotale，yexutamenjinjinniqingwoyuan。zongeryanzhi，nanrenyaozhangwoqizichuguideyuangu，caikeyixiezhuninenggougenghaodizuowanhui，neiyangcaikeyiduizhengzhiliao。

4、要反省自己，对于自身的不够要多方面纠正。

 qizichuguile，panbianlezishen，weizijidailedailvmao，nanrenhendouquanshishifennaonude。keshi，zishenyeshiyouyibandeyiwu，yaoxiangxiangzishendeshenshangshibushiyoubugou，buzuxiyinzhuzishendeqizi，yaoduiyulaijiuzheng。pingchangyaoduoguanzhu、tiexin、tengxizishendeqizi，shuobaileyirifufubairien。gujinideqiziyidinghuihuodadadu，huiyaoxiangyunicongtoukaishide，yaojianxindajiadeqingganhuiyuebianyuehao。