怎么挽回离婚老公？

 danghunyinshenghuochuxianledisanzhe，shuomingnimenzhijianguanxikendingshiwentide。zheishihoujiubuyaojizhequzhizeduifangdeguocuo，ershizijidehaohaoxiangqingchu。xiamianjiangjiexiazenmewanhuilihunlaogong、laogonglihunzenmewanhui、laopozenmewanhuilaogongdeba！

 qishiyoudisanzhechuxian，yebingbuquanshiyijianhuaishi。neigerendechuxianbingfeishiourandeshiqing，henduoshihouhaishiyinweinibulejiezijidepeiou，tadexuqiunimeiyouzhaogudao，erneigerenquekeyizuodaozheiyidian，nijiudexuyaohaohaofanshengxiazijiyoushenmedifangranhouxuyaojinxinggaibianle。yiqiyongshidehuazhihuirangzheijianshiqingyueyanyuezaogaoeryi。xiamianjiulaishuoxialaopozenmewanhuilaogongzheiqingkuangyinggaizenmechuli。

一、不要“自动”让位。

 dabufenrenyudaolezheiyangdewenti，douhuifennuerqiejidu，jieryuanhenyouxiangyaobaofu。zheizhongyouzhihaihenguojixingwei，huanlaidehuishiduifangdetaoli。benlaijiushiduinibumanyicaihuichudegui，zheixiagengkeyizhengminglenishiyigekongbudeqingren，zheibushizhudongderangchuchuzhengshideweizhima?suoyiguojixingweishibukequ，xianyaowenguhaozijidediwei。renshigeyouganqingdedongwu，xiangxinnimenzhijianganqingdejichu，zhengshidediweishibuhuijiangciqingyijiubeidongyao，lengjingxialairanhoubazhuyilifangzaiwentishang。

二、分清敌我优势。

 lengjingshihennanzuodao，danrenzhiyouzailengjingdeshihoucainengqujiejuewenti。laogonglihunzenmewanhui，nideyaoxuehuifenxiduifangdeyouquedian，zhengshizhijizhibicainengbaizhanbaisheng。yibandisanzhedeyoushishizaiyuduifangshixinrencaihuiyouxinxiangan，erqierelianqiyehuibijiaohuiguanxinduifang。ranernideyoushiqueshinimenzhijianyouzaiyiqidexiguan。yaoweichibicizhangqiguanxidehua，chengweiduifangxiguanshiyigehenzhongyaodedian。xuehuiliyongzijiyoushiquwanhui，huanxingduifangduinideaiyicaishizhenzhengyinggaiquzuodeshiqing。

三、了解爱人的内在。

 zenmewanhuilihunlaogong，lejieairendeneizai。zheiyidianruguonikeyizaozaojiunenglejiedao，kenengjiubuhuifashengzheiyangyudisanzhedeshiqingle。niyouchangshiguoqulejieduifangxinlizhenzhengdeshijiema?yourencengzhichu：“nanrenzuishenrudeneizaishibeilijiezunzhonghebeixuyaobeichongbai，ernvrendeneixinshijieshixuyaoyigeguanxinaihuheyounenglidailingtadenanren”。erzheixiedongxinidouyouzuodaoma?ruguohaimeiyouneijiugankuaiquxuexiyixiaqinggandezhishi。

四、忍过去就是胜利。

 zaitamenhaishirelianqideshihou，waijiefanduideshengyinjiuhuigengjiarangtamendenifanxintaijiaqiang，gengjianchiyaojixuzaiyiqi，zheigeshihouyidongburuyijing。rennaibuyidanzheibingbushirongrentamendechugui，ershishuoruguonijuedingwanhuiduifangjixuzaiyiqishenghuo，xiangyaoweihunimendeganqingdeqingkuangxia，nizuihouyibujiushideyaoxuehuirennai。rennaibingbushiyaoniweiquqiuquan，ershiniyaozaitamendemianqiananzhiruosu。buyaoquguantamendekanfayuyanguang，zhixuyaoquzhaochuwentiguanjiangaizhengbingqienulitishengziji。