婚后的生活很不快乐，怎样挽回老婆？

 zenyangwanhuilaopo？jiehunhouderichangshenghuohenbukaixin，nvxingzenyangjiejuerenshengdigu?youxierenshuo：doushuonanshengyourenshengdigu，shijishang，nvxingderenshengdigucaisuanshizuikongbude。zenmewanhuilaopo？

 nianqingdeshihou，tingxinnansheng“woyangnia”zheijuhua，baquanbudeshijianhehuolidoutoushenjiazhong，danshilaidaozhonglaonian，nanshengyongyouhunwailian，zheishinvxinghuranfaxian，zishenzhishen“simianchuge”zhong。

 renshengdaoluzhong，zishenqinfenlecongqiandejia，turanzhijianyiwenbuming，xinliyipianhuangkong：jiujingwoxiangyaoshenme?chukainansheng、xiaohai、babamama，zijigaiguonaxiederichangshenghuo?

nvrenyaoxiangguoxiangyaodeshenghuo，bianchengxiangyaochengweidezishen，yidingyaobaituo2geshufu：

一、为自己的人生道路做加减法

 youdenvxingzhenshishigequannengxingchaoren2，tayaozuozaocan、yaozhenglijiawuhuo、yaoyundongjianshenxuexipeixun、yaoyingjijiejueqiyedeshiqing、yeyaozhangfuyoushencengcidegoutongjiaoliu、hexiaohaiyouxingfudehudongjiaoliu、helaonianrenchuangjianyouliangdeguanlianzheixie。

nineimelei，bianshiyouyunichangshibianchengyigequannengxingdenvxing，quandouyaoxiang，jieguoquandouwufadedao。

zhonglaoniandenvxingrichangshenghuoyouguoduodelingsui，womenbunengbangzuojiajianfa，zhiyouzuojiajianfa。

zuojiajianfajiushiyinizuodeshierzhongxunzhaoduinieryanzuiguanjiandeshiqing。

zenmewanhuilaopo？womenbunengfenshenshu，zhiyoucongzishendegongzuonenglifanchouneibaguanjiandeshierbaozheng。

二、更改逻辑思维的旧方式

 nvxingdeshenshangdierzuogaoshanbianshi“nvxingdeziqingzijian”：gugenvshouxizongcaisangdebogeshuoguoyigegushi，tawenganglaidejianxishengnanxi，zhongdiandaxueshehuixintaixueshuoshiyanjiusheng，zhihouxiangganshenme，tadehuiyingshi：zhaoyifenqingsongdegongzuo，zongzhizhihouyaoshenghaizi。

xiangjindeniantouyeyou，dajiazhishenyige“duinvshibuyoushan”denanquanshehui，yinci ，dajiapinboshimeiyouyongde。

 nvxingzaizhangqixingdewenhuayishutaoyexia，zaoyibeixunhuaweiwenlianggongjianrangdexiaochongwu，queshileshiqi，yejiumeifazaishichangjingzhengdeshehuifazhanzhongzhengdezishendejianglai。

 yinci ，nvrenyaodiuqitarenrangnidebiaoshi，genggailuojisiweidejiufangshi，bubijuedenvxingbenshenbianshitianshengjiuyibiannansheng，yibianshengxiaohai，nvxinghaikeyiyouzhezishenderenshengdaoluhelixianghua。

yinci nvrenyaoxuehao“zenyangyazhidehudui”，zenyang“xionghan”dibaoweizishendequanyi。

 zenyangwanhuilaopo？dangnvxingyouzhelezishendegongzuoyihou，tamenyibushiduozainanshengbeihoude“jingshenjituo”，tamennenggouqingxindishuoyishengzaijian，haikeyitanrandishuodajiacongtoukaishi。