妻子婚内出轨怎样有效挽回？

 zenmewanhuilaopo？jianxinmeiyigerendouqidaizishendejiazhong，shihehemeimeihemeimanxingfude，danshizheiyiquanshijiedeshier，zenmekenengshishunxinshunyideni?dangyingduizishenxifuchuguideqingkuangxia，yaoxiangwanliulaopodeqingkuangxia，nanrenmenyinggaizenmezuoni?jinriwojiulaijidahuoershuliheliwanliulaopodeduice。ruhewanhuilaopo？

1、要理性和理智

 zishendelaopoyouwaiyu，nanrenyaozuodebianshiyaojinkenengrangzishenlixing、pingjingxialai。xifudewaiyuhuirangnanshenggandaonaonu、beitong、quru，naizhixinlihuidianrannuqi，zheigeshihoubianhuibaolixingweishibaolaopo，jiqiduifudisanzhe，zheileizuofabushiduide，yilibudaowanliubushangzishendexifu，zishenhaihenyoukenenghuiweifafanzui。

 zheishi，nixuyaolizhihelixingdexiangyixiangxifuchuguideyuangu，caihaoquwanliu。zhaodaoyuanguyihouchuliqilaijiuburongyihenfanza，bicibixuzhenghejijidiquchulizheiyihunlianwenti，jiejuehaola，xianghuzhihouzaijiaowangquanguochengheshishengwuburongyiganjueyouyidingdebushufu。

2、全面提高自身

 zairichangshenghuozhongbubiyiyudaoshenmeshiqingjiubazijiderichangshenghuo，gongzuozhonggaodehencaogao，richangshenghuohuanshiyaozaici。jiaruyigenanrendanfubulejiatingzerenyushenghuodeyiwu，yenanguainvxinghuitiaoxuanquwaiyu。

 yaoxiangqudechenggongwanliulaopodexin，yigenanrenjinyouchixudetishengzijidezongtimubiao，zhuiqiuwanmeipinzhiderichangshenghuo，rangxifuganjuenishiyigeyouyiwu，youjinquxinde，keyixinlaidenansheng，caihuirangzishendelaopoganjuezishendenanshengyouguishugan，jinerfanhuikexinlaihejiezhuderenshenpang。

3、考虑到小孩权益

 xuduoqingkuangxia，rendoushuoxiaohaishikunfuyigejiazhongdeqiaoliang。nanshengyoushizaitiaoxuanwanliudeqingkuangxia，xiaohaiyeshiyigefeichanghaowanliudeqiaoliang。

 nanrenyaogaozhilaopo，liyifushangdezongshishixiaohai。ertiandimamazongshixihuanxiaohaide，jianxinchuguidelaopokanzaixiaohaidebiaomian，yehuiduizishenkaizhansikaode。

4、求助有关机构

 laopochuxianhunhouchuguibenbushishenmefengcaideshier，nenggou buyaozailaopoyanqianguoduodetizheiyijianshier，nenggou rangqinqipengyouquanjie。

 zenmewanhuilaopo？nanshengnenggou qidongqinpenghaoyouduixifukaizhanshudao，rangtalejiewaiyuzheijianshiqingjinyoubiduanmeiyouhaochu，zhidaoduonianyihouhouhuimojidezongshishizishen。nixuyaolejieshiduoshaolaorendoushiyihunyinshenghuozhongzouhuilaide，haowuyiwenyelejiewaiyuduihunyinshenghuodesunhai，tamenbinigengmingbairuhequguiquanyigeren。