妻子发展婚外情如何挽回？

 zenmewanhuiaiqingmiji？yibanzaichanshenghunhouchuguikunjingdefufuzhong，dangfuqiganqingbingweichediliekaishi，waiyudeyifangshiduoshaohuiyixiekuijiu。zheileikuijiubianshizhengjiufuqiganqingdedoudouhuohua，erlingyifangdebaorong，zeshirangzheihuohuakeyibianchengdianranderifeng。beijudeshi，henduorenyouyunaonu、tongchu，wufashihuai，jiangzheidoudouhuohuachuimie。zenmewanhuiaiqing？

yiner，xifufazhanqushihunwailiangaizenmewanhui?zuoweitadelaogonggaizenmezuo，caikeyiwanliuzishendelianren?

一、没人想活在“千古罪人”的黑影下

 yingduixifuchuguidepanbian，dajiahuiyouyizhongshehuidaodedeyoudiangan，ganjue“nizuobudui，nishanghailewo”，huibaquanbudeguoshidoutuixielingyifang，yehuibazijiquanbudetongchuranglingyifangquchengdan。yikaishilingyifanghuijuedekuijiu、kuijiu，yaoxiangpeichang。

 danruofushangdeyifangbuyuanyijiena，balingyifangshizuo“qianguzuiren”，yufazhigaoqiang，fufuhaosi“jingyuan”yu“qiezei”deguanlian，bianwufaxiufugongping。waiyuqishuyinzhujianmeifachengdanjidadejingshenyali，ertiaoxuantaochuhuojizijibianbolaishifangchulaizheileikuijiugan，dedaozizunxin。

 yiner，xianyaowanliuchuguidelaopo，zuixiannixuyaoshulizishendegousi，sikaozheiyiduanguanlianduizishendebiyaoxingjiqishijiyiyi，suihouzuochuqiadangdetiaoxuan，zaikuanronglaopodejibenshang，haiyaomingbaijiyuxifuyidingdeanweinengliang，yutaxianghuyingduicicidehunyinpolie。

二、出轨女人大量是为情而不是为性

 helanxintaixuezhuanjiaximengna·de·bofuwajuede，nvxingdehunhouchuguinanti，bingbuchedishixingdexiyinzhu，“jinguanyoudenvxingdequeshiyouyufufudexingshenghuo，jiqilelaopodeqiuzhiyu，ruowufakaolvta，tajiuhuiyouhenyoukenengzaitarendechuangbianjinxingtadexingqimengjiaoyu。”

 keshi，nanrenmenyingdanggaoqingchujuedabufendenvxingbingbingbushifanjinlianhuochatailaifuren，tamenyouxierenqipanhuodeyigelianren，jinjinchimiyutamenhuiduinvshuoxiaomimi，huoshihennaixinditingtamengaobai，tamenburongyixiangzishendelaogongneibanbafuqishenghuodangzuoshiyizhongjixieshebeidemeirirenwu，zheileixindeyinyoushitamentarumishi。

 yiner，yaoxiangwanliulaopodexin，jiuxuyaokandaolaopodeqingganxuqiuhenzhongyao，waiyutongchangganjuerentizangle，shijishanggengweiyanzhongshilaopodeganqingyibunidedeshenshangle，yinciwanliulaopozuixianshiyiganqingkaolv，caikeyiyouyidingdehuode。

三、反省过错，摆脱“受害人”心态状态

 meirenxiangyaofanshengzishendeguocuo。bahunyinshenghuobeijudeyiwutuijilingyifang，huishiwomenzishenjuedeqingqingsongsong，“bushiwodeguoshi，suozuobingbuxuyaogenggai”。

 xuduofufuduihunyinshenghuodoushiyougebuzhengquedelejie：renweijiehunlebianshijinlebaoxianju。jiehunhoujingchanghushiduiairenxuyoudeguanai，buzhongshibiciqinggandetuijinyusuzao，bulejiehunyinshenghuoyeshibixubuduanyinruxinshengliliangde，rutonghuapendezhujing，bixuchangchangjiaoguan、shangfei、shachong，naizhichaihuanpenjingtu，buranzhujingbianhuiyinyangfenbugou，kuifaqushi。

 xuduolaogongzailaopowaiyuhouquejianchibuxie：jibiantaqueshiyoucuxindayi，tadelaopoyebuyinggaineimeduita，yincitabutaikenengduitaxianzuofansheng。yizhiyuzaihoumianyouzhangdeshenghuoli，tazishizhizhongganjuelaopocaisuanshi“yuanxiong”，shizuixingdadeyifang，shilaopowei“canhaizhe”，bazijifangdao“shouhairen”buwei，wufazouchuqu。

怎么挽回爱情秘籍？假如老婆婚外恋产生后，老公可以立即了解到外遇的根本原因，采用全局性挽救的对策，提升婚姻情感的品质，就能挽回老婆，修复婚姻和情感的。