老婆出轨要和我离婚，怎么挽回老婆？

 zenmewanhuilaopo？aiqingjiushineiyang，dangtabianweiyikuaikeyoukewushi，hanzaizuiliruheyandounanyanqu;danshi，dangzheifangmiankeyoukewuyouxierenyaolaiqiangshi，youqianbanbushedetuchu。waiyuerlibukaihunjiushizheileizhuangkuang。zenmewanhuilaopodexin？

 xuduonanrenzaihunyinshenghuolibudongdezhenxixifu，zhidaoqizichuguilihunledeqingkuangxia，caihouhuimojiyaoxiangwanhuilaopo。zhiyoukubalabadiwendaoyiju：qizichuguiyaoyuwolihunzenmeban?zenyanggaoaozidawanliuta?

一、没人想活在“千古罪人”的黑影下

 yingduilianrenwaiyusunhaizishen，dajiahuichuxianshehuidaodeshangdeyizhongyoudiangan，ganjue“nizuobudui，nishanghailewo”，bianhuibuyouzizhudijiangquanbudenantidoutuixielingyifang，zaochengdequanbudetongchuranglingyifangquchengdan。zuichu，lingyifangganjueneijiudoushiduinikaizhantianbu。waiyuqishuyouyuzhujianchengdanbushangjidadejingshenyali，zhishitiaoxuanduobihuoshizhengdangfangweilaishifangchulaizheileiyanegan，zizunxingan。

 zuoweitadezhangfu，nixuyaobaituo“jichuguiyinyubuzhengque”，lizaixifudeqingjingzhongquduidaiqizichuguizheigewenti，bubilizaishehuidaodedeshenhou，yiweidichizexifushuixingyanghuahuoshibiedecengmianderengetezhijingong。

二、出轨女人大量是为情而不是为性

 nantongbaoyingdanggengweigaoqingchudajiajuedaduoshudabufendenvxingbingbingbushifanjinlian，tamenyouxierenqipankeyihuodefazhanqushiyigekeyikaolvzishendelianren，jinjinyouyuchimiyuhunwaiqingrenhuiduizheiyinvshuoxiaomimi，huoshihennaixinditingtamengaobai，budanburongyixiangzishendelaogongneibanbafuqishenghuodangzuoshichanshengyizhongjixieshebeimeirirenwu，hunneichuguinanshengzhenduifuqishenghuodexindeyinyoushitamentarumishi。

 doushuonvxingjubeimaoxing，nanrenduinvrendelengdanshizhimingxingdemanxingduyao，duitayuefabuguanzhu，yuefalengmo，tadexinbianhuibianleng，tabianhuigaozhizishenbuyongnanshengdewennuan，bipozishenbuzaiyizheiyiqie。dangtaxinhuiyilengle，erzheishi，ganghaoyouyigenanshengkeyijiyutayaoxiangdewennuan，tadexinjiugangkaishijianjiandiaijinlingyifangle。

 qizichuguilihunlewogairuhewanhui?nanshengyingdangmingbaicongaichufaquwanhuilaopo，dahaozishenyuxifudetaojinhu，neiyangcaisuanshishangshangce。

三、反省过错，摆脱“受害人”心态状态

 xuduochuguinvrendeyuanguqujueyu：laogongduizishendeguanhuaitaishao、taicuxindayi。xifuyuanbenbianshixianggenjunuliai，laihuodeyigelaogonghuodedaliangdeai，danqueweihuode，xinlimianbulecunyoubupingheng。jiaruyouxierenshanyuhuayanqiaoyu，tachangchangjiangaidebiaoda，dangrandipumanletadeganqingguishugandequekou。

 jiaruhunwailianchanshenghou，fuqiganqingbicinenglijizhangwolejiedaowaiyudegenbenyuanyin，caiyongyixiequanjuxingwanjiudeduice，hunlianwentihuanshiyouwanliudeqidai。

 zenmewanhuilaopodexin？xuduonanshengjibiandongletaqueshiyoucuxindayi，keshitarengranweichixifubuyinggaineimeduita，tabutaikenengduitaxianzuofanshengdexintai;yizhiyuzaihoumianyouzhangdeshenghuoli，nanshengzishizhizhongganjuelaopocaisuanshi“yuanxiong”，shizuixingdadeyifang，shixifuwei“canhaizhe”，bazijifangdao“shouhairen”buwei，wufazouchuqu。

 zenmewanhuilaopo？laopochuguileyaogenwoliyiruhewanhuilaopo?conghuidenanshenggenjuhunyinpoliekeyijingtizishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdecunzaidebuzu，jiaruoyiranshenaizhelaopoyexiangyaonulixingdongquwanliuchuguiqizi。chuguinvrenhechuguinanrenbuyiyang，nanshengdaduoshushiyibianxinghecijixing，ernvxinghuoduohuoshaohuizijintouruzhenqinggan，yaoxiangwanliu，bidingshiyaoxiagongfude。zhidaoxifuchuguideyuangu，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao。