挽回老婆：一段婚姻的遗憾

 “laopoguoshineiyitian，wopeizaitashenbian，songtazuizhongyicheng。tashizhonglikaile，wocishengdeganqingyegaoyiduanluo。shizhongshiqunagenenggoupeizhewozhengchaoyizhengyequezishizhizhongbupakunnandenvxing，leishuimohubuqingleshiye，wozaiyebuhuiyidianyuanhen。zheishijinianwokuijiutaguoduo，wozhilejiehaiaizheta，cihoushengdaoshizhong……”- wanhuilaopo

shangbianzheihuashiyigenanrendeweishu，tadehunyinshenghuorangrengantan，rerenliulei。

 ganqingyouleisidekaishi，quenengchanshengbuyiyangdequanguochenghemowei。zaiaiqinghunyindequanqiuzhong，meigerenyouzishendejingcai，yechangyoukeshizishencaikeyilejiedegezhonggeyangxinsuan。youshiluoleishiyizhongyuyue，youshiweixiaoqueyiweizhezheyoushang。

 xuduorenyimianzhiyuanjiuzhongjiuleyishengdexiangsui，xuduorenxiangsuilexianyinumadelicheng，zuizhongjiushuochule“wocongweiainineimeduo”。yeyouyixieren，zhizhixianghuyangyinlianggeshi，huozhudenageyouxiurencailejieyixieqinggandekuijiushicishengdequehan。

zaixuduokebeiketandehunyinshenghuozhong，“dadong”liangzitongchangbiganqingyeyaoguanjian。yinci，tongxinjiubianweileshizhongdeguzhi!

 bingbushiganqingbuguanjian，zhishicengjingdecengjingdouhuixuduorengaoqingchu，hunyinshenghuozhongchanshengdexuduodadongyutongxin，zishendoushiyizhongganqing。

jiaruxuduorenxunwenni，nixiangxinaiqingma，ninengruhehuiyingni?

一、填满诚挚感情的婚姻生活，最后一刻都会惹人流泪

jiangyaozaixiawenzhongjidahuoerjiangyigebiyoushangyeyaoyoushangdehunyingushi，jingdiangushizhongchukaixingmingyiwai，yiqiedoushiqueshi。

 zheigezhoumo，wosuoshudedachengshipiaoqilebaoyu，jingdiangushidezhurenwenghuanshiruqilaila，yinweiwozhiyoujiabanjiadian。wokandaoleneiweijiangshuzhe，hetaliaoleyigeduozhongtou。

 tayiqianyouguoyiduanhunyinshenghuo，zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozuimingxiandetexingshi：fufudelianqingguanlianshixiongmeilian，laopobitabianda10sui，zuizhongshibuxing!

zaiqingganzhong，nanshengzheiyibeizihaipapengdaonaxiedeshierni?

或许并不是兄妹恋。

 haipadeyingdangshishengsilibie，gaizuiaiderenmeiyouhaohaodiaixi，xiangaixideneishihouxianghuzaoyitianrenyongge。jiusuanyouyishendengtianzhili，quehennanzhaobuhuinagezhiaidenvxing。

 dazhangshiyiwei38suidenansheng，shiyechenggong，kaizhemingche，zhuzhedudongbieshu，quezaoyidanshennannv3nianle。xianrujindetajijiangburudierduanhunyinshenghuo，nvpengyouhenaita，henmeihenxianshu。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 zaierhunyiqian，suizhijiehunrizidelinjin，dazhangneixinshifendanxin。nagebenrenweizaoyiwangjidenvxingzaicichuxianlezailedazhangdejiyili，neijiushitajinshengjiaodadeneijiu。

 meimeixiangqizheiyinvxing，dazhangjiuhuibujingyijianliuxialaileishui，duitadeneijiushizhongyewufawanhuile。zheiyinvxingbingbushibieren，zhishidazhangdejiefalaopo，zaoyiguoshi3nianle。youyuyichangbing，3nianyiqiandazhangshizhongshiquneiweishandaizijirumingdenvxing。

zaidazhangdexinli，tarengrannishifouhaijidelaopoquyiyuanlizuizhongduitashuoguodehua。

 wohuoxupeibushangniduozhangshijianle，nengyunijiechengfufu，nengkannihuodegongzuodeweidachengjiu，wozaoyihenzhizuchanglele。womanshenteng，woneixinhendanxin，wobuyuanyiliquzheishijie，gengbuyuanliquaizhedeni。

wozhiyouyonghaipashiquniaizheni，zhixiangbaojinni，wobuyuanyirushui，niqingbierengxiawo。

weilaiwomeiyoule，nikeyiaihuzishen。wohaipanichiku，yepaniluolei，nikeyizhaogehaonvren，tidaiwotengniaizheni。

neiyitiandazhangliuleile，talaolaodihuaizhelaopo，duocichuoqi，jibenshangshuobuchulaihualai。

 zheiyibizishenbianda10suidenvxingpingchanglizuibianburaoren，changchangbazishenmaku，dazhangyizhikanbushangta。kezheishideta，weiyizaizishenhuaizhongjuranneimarouruo，neimarouruo。

二、女性无论多少年纪，都会希望烂漫

zhenduidazhangeryan，neiyitianlaopozuihouyikebaochiqingxingdejiemianshizhongyinjizailejiyili。

 kanjianlaoposhebudedemuguang，kanjiantaliuzheleimanmanjinruleshushui，dazhangcailejiejinshengzaoyicuoguoleta。talaolaodihuaizheta，shizhongshiquzailiaoyisheng“woxihuanni”dejiyu。

 tawozhongyumingbai，zheiyiyiqianbeizishenkanbushangleshiduoniandenvxingcaisuanshizishenzuiyingguanaiyishengdenvxing。shizishenhaileta，cuoguoleta。danshigaoqingchudeneishihouzaoyiwanle，gaoqingchuzaihaoyequanshiaitong。

dandanfanwanmeideaiqing，changchangzaixianzhemeishishilingrenzaicitihuidaoganqingdeyuandayudijian。

 yuanbenshangyiduanhunyinshenghuoheganqingzaojiugaoyiduanluo，xindexingfukuaileyezaixiangdazhanghuishou。danshisuizhijiehunriqilinjin，tadeluojisiweizaiyicishenxianleyiduantianmanyoushangdehunyinshenghuozhong。

 21suishi，yejiushishuo17nianyiqian，zhuankebiyededazhangbeidaxuefenpaijinlewujinchang，zaidagongzhuanqiandeneishihoutalejieleyiweinvxing。liangrenzaiyigeshengchanchejiangongzuozhong，changchangshuohua，zhujianliaoqilaiqilai。

 zhihouyiguoliandenvpengyouhedazhangfenshou，jiageletaren，fenshouhoudedazhanghentongchu，duineiweinvyouguimizaochenglezhiaizhiqing。tagangkaishizhuiqiuwanmeita，danshizishizhizhongzhuiqiuwanmeibushang。

huijueledazhangjihuiyihou，nvxingjiangchulehuijuetadeyuangu。

 wojiushilihunnvren，zaoyi31suile，nidenianjihenxiaole。renmenzuopenyoukeyi，chuduixiangbuhao，niwuxuxiangxiang。woxiangyaodanshennannvyibeizi，hennanbuyuantanlianaile，weilaijibabamamashanyangfumukeyile。nijiaruzaineiyangsichandehua，renmenlianpenyoudouzuobulai，wobuxiangzailini。

 dazhangganjuetahenchengxin，gengzuigaizishenrenzhenquai。tameirijitadaijinzao，changchangzhaojiyutouhuaisongbao，tabeishangdeneishihou，tajiuyaokuanwei。yongleqianqianhouhouzuzudabannianduodeshijian，dazhangzongsuanqianshangletadeshou。

 nvxingwulunduoshaonianji，yizhihuixiwanglanmande。jiusuantazuibianbuyongshuo，neixinyehuixiwangneileiqingjie。dazhangyongshentilixingdadongleta，rangtaganshoulaidaobeibierenguanzhudewennuan。jinguanxianghunianjichabiejida，kenvxingyidanbeidadong，tongchangburongyizaikaolvdaoneimaduo。

 zidaliangrenqianleshouyihou，qingganfeisufazhan。nvxingzhujianjienaledazhang，zhizhishenshenaidaoleta。erdazhangyetongyitabuzaiyitarendeguandian，shizhongaitayiren，dengzaidaliangniangongjiuhuixiangcunjiaxiangwanhun。

三、一段终究没办法幸福快乐的兄妹恋，在婚姻生活中渐渐地填满了忧伤

youguanxiongmeilian，gangkaishishitongchangkanqilaiwuxianxingfu，danshixuduoxiongmeiliandehunyinshenghuoquedoutianmanzheqinggandejiannankunku。

 zailianqingdeneishihou，dazhanghenvpengyoumeikaolvdaoneimaduo。tamenrenweiyaoshiaidezhenxinshiyi，jiunenggouwuxuzaiyitarendekanmuguang。tamenrenweiyaoshiyouganqing，hunyinshenghuoyidinghuixingfukuaile。

 23suineiyinian，dazhangzongsuanruyuanyichangqulaidaoneiweibiandata10suidenvxing。yikaishi“xiongmeilian”henxingfu，danshihunyinshenghuobuyidinglianqing。lianqingzhongdeganqingguishuyudanchunxingdeqinggan，erhunyinshenghuozhongdeganqingzeshiwuqiongdesuosuizaijiashubujindexiaochuxianyiwai。

 zhenduidazhangeryan，“xiongmeilian”hunyinshenghuohexiangxiangzhongchedifanguolai。hunyinshenghuozhongsihubingmeiyoutaiwanmeideaiqing，yizhisuosuilianpian，fanguoyueganjueganqingdanle。

 wanhundi4niandeneishihou，dazhangdelaoporengranmeiyouchanxiaxiaohai。neishihoudetazaoyi36suile，erdazhangcai26sui。qingganzhongzishizhizhongyouyigeguilvxing，nvxingzuixingfudeneiliangnianqingchunnianshaosuiyueyidanguoqu，nanshengjianghuiyiqingbielian。

tebieshizaishizainianjichabiejidadexiongmeilianhunyinshenghuozhong，suizhinvxinglaoqu，nanrenbianxindejilvshimanmantigaode。

 youyumeiyoushengxiaohai，dazhangjuedelaopopianlezishen。tajuede，yexulaopodiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiushishuoyouyubukeyishengxiaohaicailihunle。

 zaidazhangdezhiyixia，laoporenkehuoxuzishenbuyishengxiaohai。shangyiduanhunyinshenghuodequeyouyuwanhun6nianmeiyouxiaohai，yincicailihunle，beijueqingdezhangfupaoxiale。keshitajianxinyaoshiqinfendouhuiyouxiaohaide，yinciyizhimeishuo，padazhangdanyou。

 dazhangjuedezishenbeishuale，suizhitanianjidekuoda，zishenyibeizihuoxuhuimeiyouxiaohai。tahouhuimojiqulelaopo，houhuimojizhaoleneimedadenvxing。

 dazhangneixinhennaohuo，kezheiyangdeshiqingyoubukeyichediguailaopo，dazhangzhiyouxiwangchuxianqijisf。jinguantameiyoumingquetichuliyi，danshiduilaopozaochenglemaiyuan，ganjuezishenbeidangele。

 zhihou，yejiushishuowanhundi5niandejinnianchu，zaifufuqinfenxiaguozhenchuxianleqijisf，laopoduliyongyouxiaohai。keshiqijisfdehoubianshiyoushang，youyubuweicuowu，xiaohaimeiwanjiu，laopoyechadianermeiwanjiu。

四、有了钱以后，他忘了和结发老婆的情感

laopodexingziyeshiyinageneishihougangkaishijianjiandikuangzaole，tachangchangchizedazhang，yizhihedazhangzhengchao。

 neishilaopojiazhongbiaozhunbidazhanghaoxuduo，dazhangzhujiandanxinlaopole。tazhidaolaopodepiqida，hennanhaipayongshengxiaohaideshierjifengtale。zailaopodegongzuoyalixia，dazhangzhiyoubaquanbuhuoliyongyuchuangdanggongzuo。

dazhangcongkugonghuozuo，daoleshigonggongdi。

 congxuetugongdazagonggangkaishi，xuezhejirentiedizhuan，daozhihouzishendairenjiedanzi，zaidaozhihoukaiguozhuangshigongsi。dazhangjinyongle5nianshijian，jiucongyiweiyibandedagongzubianweileshuobailedechenggongzhe。

 zheizaiqizhongdequanguochenghenjianxin，qudechenggongjinguanhedazhangdeqinfenxiangguan，danshiyehelaopodemuguang、gongzuoyalijiqilaozhangrendeshiyongxiangguan。dazhangwangwangnengnizhuanrenshengdaolu，laopodegongxiaoyoumugongdu。ruomeiyoudangshilaopoquniangjiarendisanxiasiyicicinalaiqian，jiumeiyoudazhangzhihoudeqianchengyuanda。

 gongzuodequdechenggong，rangdazhangdezixinyezhujianzuleqilai。jinguanlaopohuanshijitamengongzuoyali，danshitazhujianbuzaiyineiweijiefalaopole。meiyicifuqichaojia，dazhangdoushijifengtabukeyishengxiaohai。yaobushinianjiqinggan，zaoyihetalilehun。

 danshijiusuanbuliyi，dazhangdoubuailaopole，haidaletajihui。congwanhun10zhounianjinianyihou，dazhangjiufeichangshaohuijia，tazaiwaibianyongyounvxing，taxiangyaozheileifangfabizhelaopojijiliyi

 zaidazhangxinlilaopotainianjidale，doubuhaokanle。zishencai33sui，tadou43suile。shengxiaohaidejiyuyulaiyumimang，tadequebuyuanhelaopoyiguo。

 dazhangmingquetichuguojihuiliyi，danshilaopoyebuyuanyi。dazhanghenwukenaihe，zhiyouyitiandaowancheyebuhuijiale，balaopoliangzaijiazhong，rangtazishenxianggaoqingchu。

 zhihoude2nian，laopoyigerenshenjujianchu，youshihouyoushangguoduojiuzouniangjiazhuhaoduogeyue，suihouzaihuijiadengzhangfuhehaoruchu。zhuzhehaofangzi，quemeiyouhezishentongzhouderen。

2nianduodeshijian，dazhangyoushihouhuijialeyici，meiyicijiudachaoyijia。

 dazhangshuolaopochou，bupeizishen。shuolaopolao，bukeyishengxiaohai。shuolaopodangelezishen，yingdangyouzhirenzhimingjijichechu。zongeryanzhizaidazhangneixin，duilaopozaiyebuhuiganqing，kandaojiufan。

五、直至无法弥补时，才了解了最深遂的感情

 zaizheiyizhinengzishenheshenyingxiangsuidequanqiuli，dazhangdelaopoduguole800haojigeyueyueyeye。tayexiangsheqi，danshibugan。renquanshiyiyangde，bazishendejiazhongzuoyixiangrangbixujidadexinxin。

 tachaosimuxiang，panwangxinaiderenkeyihehaoruchu。jiusuantazaiwaibianyongyouxiaohai，zishenhaikeyizhuangbuqingchu，danshizhangfuhaoxiangsilexinbuyuanhetayiguo。zaizheileihunyinshenghuoziranhuanjingzhong，tazhujiandijianleqilai，changchangyigerenzaijialijiejiujiaochou。

zhizhiwanhun12nianling1yueneishihou，zaoyinianguo45suidelaopozongsuanyuanyileliyi，xiangyaomanzudazhangdexingfukuaile。

 dazhangfeichanggaoxing，haikeyicongyidigandao，jitamailaiyibuiphone。jinguantahenguaiyilaopoweiheneimaxueshou，danshidoumeiyouzhixiang。

fufubicichengnuoleliyideshiri，qiyeqiefenwanjiunenggoulilehun。danshizailiyideshirilailinyiqian，laoposhengbingle。

 daozheishihoudazhangcailejie，tazaoyishengbinglehaozhangshijianle，liangxingzhongliu。congganbugangkaishi，zaozaoyiqianyilaidaomanshen，laidaomoqi。

dazhangzhizelaopoweihebuzaoshuo，shentibushiweihemeiqujinzaocha!

 laopodehuiyingtaqijinnishifouhaijide：niyinianbuhuijihuijia，yizhipeizhetaren，wokeyijiweishenmeshuoa?nixianwolao，wobukeyidangenini。nizaoyiqianchengyuandale，wodemeirirenwuyejinxingle，ganxienisongwodeweixin……

zheiduifufuzhongjiuyiqianaizheguo，dazhanglijichexiaoleliyidefangan，hewaibiandenvxinglijifenleshou。

 tadeliangzhigangkaishibeihuanqi，kanjianlaopocanbaidemianse，tahentongxin，zishendazishenzuichunzi。keshizuihouhuanshiwanle，haojinleyiqiebanfa，rengranmeiyoujiejiuzheiyikelingdenvxing。

 laopozhuyuanzhiliaonei2yue，dazhangshoule20jinzhong，tazishizhizhongpeizailaoposhenpang。zhihoulaoposhizhongzoule，zaitahuaizhong，henanxiang。

yuanbendazhangyizhimaiyuanlaopobuhezishenliyi，maiyuantabukeyishengxiaohai，maiyuantamengpianlezishen。

danshilaopozuihouyicibaochiqingxingshichangshuodezheixiehua，tahuizaiyebuhuiyisimaiyuan，qudaitadedeshiwuqiongdeneijiuhehuihen。

womanshenteng，hendanxin，buyuanliquzheishijie，gengbuyuanfangqini。

wozhixiangbaojinni，wobuyuanyirushui，niqingbierengxiawo。

weilaiwomeiyoule，nikeyiaihuzishen，zhaogehaonvren，bangwotengniaizheni……

dazhangdongle，nanshengyouzaihaodeqianyouzenyang，zheiyishandaizijiruxingmingdenvxingzaoyimeiyoule。

六、情感不能容忍一丝一毫的内疚，一些内疚是一辈子的缺憾

 qingganzhongmeiyouneimaduoweihe，gengmeiyouneimaduo“jiaru”。wulunzenyang，meigerenyingdangzhongshizuizhongdexiachang。chanshengle，yejiumeifagenggaile。

 renshengzhilushang，youderenzhongjiubuyitongxingye。youderenjiusuanlinshifenlile，diediezhuangzhuangyihourengranhainengzaicilaidaoyiqi。haiyouderen，yisideneijiujiushishuoyishengdequehan。

 dazhanghailiuzhedangshihelaopodehunshalifuyingji，laopoyeyiqianhaokanguo，hentaorenxihuan，duizishenhenqingshen。laopoliquhou，tazaiyebuhuidakaiguohunshalifuyingji。tazhenzangleqilai，zhunbeishouhuyisheng，naiheqiaozuogeyinzheng。

 hedazhanggoutongjiaoliuzhongwozhujianfajue，tadejingshenshizhichulenanti，youshiziwodiaokanyoukuyouxiao，dayueshixiangdongleyiduanganqing。

 zhizhilaopoguoshi，tacaizhidaoganqingdejingzhong。benrenweinenggouwangdiao，danshi3nianzhihouzaiyicigaoqingchu，aidenanrenrengranhuanshijiefalaopo。

 tabuxiaodexubuxuyaohenvpengyouwanhun，buqingchuruheyingduijianglai，buqingchuruhehenvyoushuochurukou。tahaishuo，jiarugaofalaopohaiyao，zishenzuoqitaozheyexiangyao。

 huiyingta：ganqingmeiyouruguoheweihe，erhunzishenzuozhu，keshitiyiniyizhizaixianggaoqingchuaiqingyuhunyindechabieyiqian，bubijizhewanhun，yebubisunhaiaiainideren。

dazhangdehunyingushijiutidaozheierba，haiyixieneirongjiubuyizaiduole。

七、感情就算没有了，也藏在所有人心里

zaidufanhuiwenzhangneirongkaishidenanti，jiaruxuduorenwennixiangxinaiqingma，ninengruhehuiyingni?

 dazhangdeqinshenjinglilingrengantan，yongtadeshijiaolaihuiyingdehua，yingdangshineiyangde：jiarujinshengmeilepeizishenzhengchaoderen，cishengzaihaodeganqingyounengzenyang?jianxinyubuganxiangxin，zishenzhongguidoucuoguoleyigebuyinggaicuoguodehaolaopo。

 enaidefufuyaoshouweixianghu，bubidaozuizhongjinshenglequehan。haofufuyaoxianghulijie，xianghuzhichi，erbingbushidaozhihouzaochengyanfanyukanbushang，neibibushangbuxiangjiehun。