挽回老婆的过程中除了要道歉，还要做到这3件事

 xuduorenyouyuzhengchao、fancuowuertichufenshou，zaipingjingxialaihou，guanniandaozishencuowu，biangangkaishihelingyifangzhiqian。danpianyaolingyifangbangbushangmang，ganjuemeiyouchengxin。- wanhuilaopo

 shixiongzheilimeiridoushijiedaoxiangjindeqingjiao：“wobenlaizaoyijiangguobaoqian，wozheibandijiandeqiqiuta，weihetahuanshibuqingyuanliangwo，nandaoshuotajiuduilema?wojiujingzenyangzhiqian，tacaikenhuiguotou?”

 renmenbazhiqianxiangxiangdetaijianjiemingle，shijishang，dabufenrenbingburongyizhiqian，dourenweijiangguobaoqianshierjiugaoyiduanluo。yincijinrirenmenjiulaitaolunyixia，zenyangzhiqian。

什么叫致歉四步曲

1. 抱歉

diyibushifendesutao，keshidoushibixudeyibu，renmenbixuzhenxinshiyideshuobaoqian。

 nenggoudangzhongjiangshi，lingyifangnengjiandaonideweixiao，tihuidaonidezhenxinshiyi。jiarugedetaiyuan，huoshilingyifangbuyuanjianrenmen，neirenmennenggouzuogebiaoqingtu。

yincibaoqianbingbushiwanbi，zhishizhiqiandegangkaishi。

dabufenren，qidaijiandaodejiushinizhiqianhezhuihuidexintai，xiaobiaoqingbujishidebaoqian，meiyouyongtu。

2. 谈了解

zaibaoqianyihou，yidingyaogaozhilingyifang，zishenduizheijianshidelejie。

nikeyituijijirendelizailingyifangdeshijiaoqusisuo，lingyifangweihefahuole，zheiyiyuanguyueruanyuegao。

 youyurelingyifangfahuoderenshibumennizishen，neima，keyiqiadangdexushuzishendegerenxingweihebuzhengque，caikeyiyingdelingyifangdehaogandu。

xuduoxueshengzaicihuifancuowu，jianruo、duobizishendebuzhengque，zheizaizhiqianlibianquanshicuowude。

 “duibuqi，wozhihouhennanbuxiongnini，yinweiwoxiangbudaozheiyishierjinizheibanfahuo”，tashihendianxingxingdebuzhengquemoban。jiaruzheijuhuabianwei“duibuqi，wozhihouhennanbuxiongnini，woyetaiguodexintai，dangzhongneimahenduorendemianjiniganga，niyidingfeichangdebushufu，wokanzhenizuowanneimawanhaiyaoweixinfapengyouquan，yidingshishifenqinaocaineiyangde。”

 youxierenjianghuihuijiaoweidanyou，bawozishendebuzhengqueshuodeneimebijiaoyanzhong，lingyifangshifouhuitandewuyan?zheijianshidahuoernenggouanxin，yigerenjishijuebufangguoni，yehuishihuai。

nineiyangdebiaotaifayan，lingyifangzaoyihuitihuidaonidezhenxinshiyile。。

3. 给赔偿

 nidebuzhengque，jiyoukenengjilingyifangdaozhilehuaxuewuzhihuojingshenshizhishangdeweihai，neimajiyulingyifanghuaxuewuzhipeichang，shizhiqianyizhongshifenyoushandebiaoda：

 zheijianshizhenduijuedaduoshureneryannanduxishudoubingbuda，keshijinji，huaxuewuzhipeichangshichuangjianzainikegumingxinkeguanxinglejiedaozishenbuzhengquedejibenshangde。

 erzhenduizhuweieryan，huaxuewuzhishangdepeichangzaifeichangrongyidanshi：“xifubuyaoshengqile，womenyongcanqu。xifubuyaoshengqile，worangnimailaizuixihuanlehaozhangshijiandepinpaibao。”

 huoxu，toudengdashishi，huaxuewuzhipeichangyaozainidegongzuonenglifanweinei，zheiyishierniqueshinengbandedao。yaoburannikuaxiahaikouquebuduifu，zuixingyouduoleyitiaoe。

 dangran，lejiedaozishendebuzhengque，gengguanjiandeshi，renmenruhezuocainenggoutianbuzheiyibuzhengque，renmenjianglainengbunengjiuzhengzishendebuzhengque，renmenyaozenyangjiuzhengzishendebuzhengque。

4. 提恳求

 cengjingdecengjing，caisuanshininengtikenqiudeneishihou。zheiyikenqiubingfeishuo，qiunikuanrongneiyangdehua。kenqiuyiranyaoyouzhiqiandexintai：

qidainibubizaihuwodebuzhengque，zaicihewozaiyiqi。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

zhiqiansibuqu，yaoyankedezunzhaocixu。

 youxierentaizaodejiyupeichang，neimajiubianweilezhiyongdaoqiancaishougou;xuduorennaizhilijiqiuqukuanrong，jibujiangkeguanshishi，doubujipeifu，neimabuzhi，tiandiweishenmehuiyouneimeshiqing。

 yeyouxieren，lijikazailediyiceng，youyulingyifangjuedetabuzuzhenxinshiyi。zheiyeshifenjianghui，youyunidezhenxinshiyizhidadonglenizishen，lingyifangmeiyoujuededao。lingyifangmeiyoujuededaodeyuangushi，nimeiyouhelingyifangyiyangdefahuohetongchu。zheiyishiershizhuangbuchuqude，shehuixintaixueshangguanzheiyijiaogongqingnengli，xuduorendequeqianquezheiyigongzuonengli，haibixuquxunlian。

 yeyouyidianshixiongbujiuyetijiguo，ruguonibiaoshupeichangdeneishihou，yidingrujinjiunengnachuqu，qianwanbieyounaxiezhongzhangqidepiaomiaodeyinyou，dahuoerdoubingbushierlengzi，lejiezheixie“kaobing”meibanfaduifu。

 youxieren，wanhunbixufang，keshiwoxianzaimeiyou，dangnigaozhita：womenershinianyihougenjuzishendeqinfen，huiyoufangde，neimatayidingbukeyijiena。keshidangnijiang：womenjianghuilinshimeifang，keshiwoshoutoushangyoudianerqian，renmennenggouxiannongyiliangche，cheyeshixuduoyichuzheixie。

 zhiqiandezuihoumudi，shiweilefangzhizaidumaodun。yaoshimeiyouchaoguozheiyimudi，jiubingbushijigedezhiqian。zuizhongzuizhong，renmenyidingyaojilao，liangrendemaodunbuyaokuoda，jiaruyangjidisanren，jiunanyibeikuanrong。

 yinci，tashuo，renmenxubuxuyaoba“woweihejiangguobaoqian，niyaomanhengwuli”huanwei“wodounengzuoxienaxie，nicainenggoujieqi”ni?