挽回老婆：应对第三者的5个措施，学起来

 zhenduizheizhouzuodeyigefenlichulaihunwaiqingrendegeli，wojuedeshifenbeitong——zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyuanbenchedihaiyoujihuizhengjiude，danlijinglaopoliangsanniandegujunzuozhan，fufulianggerenrujinbianchengchoudi，lianggerendeguanlianbizhongriguanxidoujiaolvbuan。genjuduifuqiangukexinxibaomidebiaozhun，wocuowutamendehunyinzhuangkuangkaizhanxushu，zhishijidahuoergongxiangxiatafandehaoduogecuo：- wanhuilaopo

 tajuedezhangfutongyilezhongguijiazhong，biankeyihaosiqieshuidoufuyiyang，yidaoxialailiangmianguang，zhangfuhehunwaiqingrenjiuzaiwunianlianle。tachixugengxinfufuliangrendemaodun，chixuposhizhangfu，zaochengzhangfudouhaipahuijiale。

 tazhenduiliangkouzizhongjiandegezhonggeyangmaodunfenqizhiruowangwen、chongerbuwen，yizhiyanerdaolingdijuedefufuliangrenguanlianhenhao，jinjinyoushitayoudianerjiaozongbale，danzhangfudoushishifenguanzheta，tameiyouganjuezheiyounaxie。

 tabawanhuihunyindeanjianjiaodaolezhangfuhehunwaiqingren，shuoyaoshizhangfuxiangyaozhongguijiazhongtajiunengjienazhangfu，yaoshihunwaiqingrenliquzhangfutajiunengyunyinghaohunyinshenghuo。takanguoxuduoshehuixintaixuecengmiandeshu，duibishubenshangdeneirongqumingquezishendexintaibing，yizhiganjuezishenyouxintaijiankangwenti，ermeiyouzhaozhengguiyiyuanquezhenzishen。

neimazenyangqiadangdihaijihunwaiqingrenni?

zuixianyaojianlizheiyifazhanzhanlve：

 hunwaiqingren，burongyimomingqimiaogandaonidehunyinshenghuoli，yincihunwaiqingrenyeburongyiqingsongziyou、shuosanjiusan，zuoweizhenggongdenibixuyouqiadangdehunyinshenghuorenzhinengli、dagongjianzhandechongfenzhunbeihejishuzhuanyedezhidao。

ranhouyaobawo：haijihunwaiqingrendewugexintaiguocheng。

(1)正宫求重归

 zhenggongfajuezhangfuchuguidediyifanyingquanshibenkui，huiyouhenbijiaoyanzhongdeshiluogan，juedetianditantale，hunwaiqingrenruheyaolaiwomenjiani?renmendehunyinshenghuojinguanyoudianerxiaofenqidanpingchanghenhaodea。

 diergefanyingshiliyi，zheishiriwufayiguo，zheiyixiangfayishanerguo，jimiaozhongyihoujiusheqile。disangefanyingshihunwaiqingrenshigehulijing，shitalaiyinyouwozhangfude，tajiushishuokanzhonglewomenjiadeqian(shijishangxuduodiaosinanrenyegaohunwaiqingrendee)。zuihoudexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiushi：yaoshizhangfuxiangyaozhongguijiazhong，wojiushikeyikuanrongzhangfude。

(2)丈夫重归

 nanshenggaohunwaiqingrendezhuguanyinsuyounaxie?wohaizaiqianbiandewenzhangneironglichanshuguo，zheieryibuxiangximiaoshu。jinjinjianlveshuojige：yishitianbuxifumouleizuoyongdequeshao，ershifamadehunyinshenghuoliyanzangdereqingbixubeiyinran，sanshiqifuderenshengdaoluzhaodaoxiaojiyu。neimachuguinanrenshiyibianliyima?ziliaoxianshigaohunwailiandenanshengzhongzuishaoyou70%meiyouxiangguolihunle，danqueshizaoyutiaoxuanshiyetongchanghuishuoxifubukeyidiu、hunwaiqingrenyebukeyiqi。

 zaimeiyoufangfadeneishihou，tamenyibanhuitiaoxuanzhongguijiazhong，zhishaozaikoukoushengshengnaizhishumianshangganlequebao。danjinguanzhongguilejiazhong，neixinhaihuidiannianhunwaiqingren，routishangyehuiweiwuqiongzhehunwaiqingren，haihuiyaoxiangqiaoqiaolianluoyixiahunwaiqingren。zhangfuyuhunwaiqingrendenianlianhuijiaoweishen，liangrendeenyuanqingchouhuibuduansichan，shaozeliangnian，shaozejigeyue。jiusuanqueshichedibuyuhunwaiqingrenlianluole，doushizaixinlimomodinanaozhe。

(3)正宫接受丈夫重归

 dangzhangfuqueshitiaoxuanzhongguijiazhongyihou，zuoweizhenggongdezheigeneishihouyingdangqidongdiergetizhi：zaicisikaozheiyiduanhunyinshenghuohezheiyinansheng。zheiyinanshengqueshiburongyizaiquzhaohunwaiqingrenma?zheiyinanshengqueshizuigaizaicima?zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyeyoushijiyiyima?zheiyineishihounineixinyidinghaiyaochixugongyingzhangfuhehunwaiqingrenchoubuyaoliandejiemian，haiyaodixue，haiyaoxinjingdanzhan。zheiyihuanjiedangnimeiyouqiadangdefangshi ，neimaquanbudeqinfenjiuyouyaoguilingle。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 eryidanzhenggongzhenduizhangfudeyixiegerenxingweicunyoutichuzhiyi，naizhizhuyaobiaoxianchuxintaiqifudeneishihou，zhangfujingchangyaoshuo：bushiwozaoyihuijialema，niyeyaoworuhea!nvxingyehuiduiyujuedeyihuonaizhilijibenkui，ganjueneixinzheidaokanjiushishuowufachaoyue。zhongshi、yuanliang、jieshou、xianghuyingdui、yiqiduguo，meiyouhaoduogezhenggongkeyidulibaozhengzheizhong。

(4)婚姻生活修补

 dengnidajiafufuchuangyiguosanguan，shibushinijiurenweiwanshiruyileni?xianeryijian，dabufenfufudoushiganjuezhangfuhuijiale，zishenkuanronglezhangfu，zhangfuyeyiqiezhengchangle，juedehunyinshenghuojiuzaoyihaiyuanle，benzhiwuxukaolvdaohunyinshenghuoxiubuhehunyinshenghuogongtongmingyunzhongsu。

 yincizhonghouqizongjuedefufudeqingganbushufu，gaolaigaoquhuanshiganjuehunyinshenghuocuowumenlu，yinerercuoguojiaojialiaoyuqi。hunyinshenghuoxiubushiyigedaxitongruanjian，shejifufumaodungenbenyuanyinfajue，fufuhunyinpipeijiaqiang，qingshangyuliao，hunwailianpifuguominzheixieliucheng。shijiruhezuo，wobugaozhidahuoerle，youxingquaihaodenenggougenwoxuexipeixun。

(5)重塑婚姻生活共同命运。

 ruguonijinxinglehunyinshenghuoxiubu，chixubaochiyuanlaidehunyinshenghuo，neijiushibushijide，yinciwoquangaozhuweizhenggongbubisheqiufufuliangrendeqingganhuihuidaocongqian。meiyiduiqinglvhuolianrenbixulejie：zairenshengdaoludebuyiyanghuanjie，suoyourenzhenduiaihuiyoubuyiyangdelejie、ganshouhebixu。zhenzhengdeaiqinghunyinshenghuodiyuedejiben(hunyinfashangyaoqiude，wobuhuichedizancheng)，keshihunyinshenghuodelaoguzhangqikaodeshihunyinshenghuogongtongmingyun。

 zheidoushiyigedaxitai，bixufufulianggerenyiqiyongxindujiaobenzhizuo、yanchu、ronghuiguantong。hunyinshenghuogongtongmingyunbaokuodeneirongfanchouhenguang，liruxindegerenaihao、xindexingshenghuozhuanyejineng、xindeernv、xindeyibenshudeng，zongeryanzhi，shidajialiangrenxinkaichuangdeguishuyudajialiangrendeneirong。dajianhunyinshenghuogongtongmingyun，shijiruhezuo，youxingquaihaodepenyounenggouguanxinwo，jianjiandixuexipeixun，bingzhujianguancheluoshi。