挽回老婆：被再使用冷暴力对待你老婆了

jiaruzaiyiqihaiyaohaohaodizaiyiqi，liangrennengxiangfengxiangshienaibingxieshoubingjianyishengshiyijianhenbuyideshi。

 dangnijibushang，jiujinliangbuyaofuwuchengnuo;fuwuchengnuolejiuyidingyaobaozheng，tashizuoweinanrendezeren。- wanhuilaopo

zuoweinvxing，niyeyidingyaojilao，youshinanshengshuodehuatamenyejinjinjiangjiangbale，bubitaishuozhende。

挽留学生：低于

年纪：26

wanliunanduxishu：★★★☆☆

xueshengnanti：duobinanti jiatinglengbaoli meidangdan

 geweihao!，wodemingzijiaodiyu，2019nian26sui，gongxinzu。wohelaopoqingjingshizaipengyoujucanshanglejiede。qingjingjiaoweinengxiazheteng，henwanpikeshifeichangtaorenxihuan。

yinweiwopingchangyishizhuxingjiaoweimen，neimekailangdenvshengzhenshijiushiwodefuli。yincigangkaishizhuiqiuwanmeita。

yejianghuishiwodequedianzhenghaoshiqingjingsuobixudeba，tayuanyilezuowonvpengyou，renmenxuanbuzaiyiqile。

 yinweipingchangdahuoerdoushangxiabanyetingmangde，renmenyezhinengzailibaitiandeneishihounengyiqichuquyueyouhuikankanshipinnaxiede，shirijianjieminglekeshifengfu。

yikaishirenmenguishuyurelian，buguantazainaoyinweiwoganjuetaorenxihuan，huoxubuguanwozaimentayeganjuewohenchenwen。

 danshishijianjiuleyouyuxianghuyemeishenmegenggai，manmandeqingjingjiugangkaishiganjuewotaimenle，suihouhuayeburongyishuo，gangkaishikanbushangwo，ganjuewozheiyebutaihaoneiyebutaihao。

worenweiajingjiushishuozaiyouyitiaowoci。

 youyici，renmenshuoyaoquchiyangrou，neishihouzailushangdeneishihoulijingleyijiahuoguojiamengdian，woqueshuoleyiju：zhenxianga，henxiangchi。

jieguoajingjiufahuole，shuobenlaidayingdechiyangrou，weiheyouyaodianjizhequchimalatang?

 wojiangmeiyou，wojinjinbiaoshulewoyaochi，youbingbushiqueshiaichi。danshiqingjingjiufeiyingshuoxiaowuguishixianglaichimalatang。worenweiwuyuanwugu，renmenjiuchaolejia。bugaoerbie。

jieguoqingjingyizhoudoubuliwo。woyuanbenpingchangyebutaiaishuohuade，yinciyinweiwobuquzhaota。renmenjiuturanyizhoudoumeishuohua。

 zhujiansuizhishijiandebianhua，renmengangkaishijingchangzhengchao，shuochengzhengchao，shijishangshilengbaoli。youshishijitiandoujianbushangmian，yeshuobushangyijuhua。

 youshiqingjingjiuhuikaida，gaosuwowufagaibianjiutichufenshou。wohuoxubutaikenengheqingjingtichufenshoua，woyexianjiahuanbingzhijikongzhuta，shuowoyidinghuigai。

keshiyigerendeshengzhangxixingnaliyouneimafeichangrongyigenggai?

 renmenchengnuoyizhounianqulvxing，dangshidayingdedaitaqulvyoude。shijishangwohaihaijizhede，jinjinyouyuqiyequeshizoubukai，yinciduilexuduofuwuchengnuozaitaneibianmeifabaochi。

 womingbaitayebugaoxing，keshiwoyoubukeyichuli。yincimeiyicitayitijizheizhongwoyezhizibuti，qianyihuatitaolun。jiushiwocuowu。renmenyouyuyixiexianjieduanmeifabaochidekoutoushangfuwuchengnuonaolexuduofenqi。worenweidoushizijimeigaohaoba，rangtabushufule。

woyuanbenrenweizheijianshinenggoufuyanleshiyiwang，qiahaoyiniandeneishihou，renmenquchiwanfan，tameiyoutidaodujialvyoudeshi。

yizhoubangeyue，tadoumeishuodaodujialvyoudeshi。yuanyiweitazaoyiwangjile。

 shubuzhi，youyicirenmenyouyuyijianxiaoshichaolejia，qingjingjiuturanxiangdaoledujialvyoudeshi，lijitiguoqufanchushuo。yueshuoyueqi，suihouwohuanshitiaoxuanduobi，meiyouzaihuitaxinxile。

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我该怎么做?

老师：挽心

挽留時间：32天

guanjianzi：duobinanti jiatinglengbaoli meidangdan

躲避难题

liangrenzaiyiqizuiguanjiandejiushishuogoutongjiaoliu，yidanchuxianlenantihaiyaoqujiejueerbingbushiduobi。

jiezhegenggaihuatitaolunlaichulizhengduo，eryibuquruilidechupengchongtudian，huochangshiquyingduinantizhaodaochulimaodundejunhengdian。

 danneiyangyituozaituode"duobi"zhenshinanti，zongshirangzhuangkuangyulaiyuzao，naizhimeifazhengli，ernantiyeburongyiquanzidongxiaotuikanbudao。

shilizhong，diyuyouyudanxinhenvpengyouchaojia，jiugangkaishiletiaoxuanhushinanti。meiyouzhenzhenzhengzhengdezuodaobajiejuewentile。

家庭冷暴力

 jiatinglengbaolishibaolideyizhong，biaodaxingshiduojianlengmo、hushi、zongrong、shengshuhebuwenbuwen，daozhibierenjingshenshizhishanghexintaizhuangtaishangzaoshouqinhaihesunhai。

 zaishilizhong，diyuyongzishenbuhuiliaotiandangtuoci，laiduiqingjingshijiayali。yaoshiwobuyaowowoyejueduiburongyiyueni。danshizaiyiduanlianqingguanlianzhong，nanhaizijiji，yaoburanjiuhuiyouxuduofenqizaocheng。

没当担

dangdanjiushishuojienabingfuzeren。

 shilizhong，youyudanxinqingjingwenqizishenweihebudaitaqulvxing，jiugangkaishiqianyihuatitaolun，yongjiatinglengbaolilaiwanbihuatitaolun。

renyingdangyouxingqing，zishendeshierjiuyingdangzishenjiejue，yibeizisheidoushiyougezhonggeyangjianxin。

 danyaoshitingguoquzhenshidejiannankunkujiuhuichaoguociwaiderenshengjingjie。erchaoguoxingejudefangshi jiushishuobuduandezuocuoshi，suihoujiqujiaoxun。

1. 断联

断开联络，消除分歧。

 laoshixianrangdiyujienaletichufenshoudekeguanshishi。weilefangzhitaqingjingjiaruheimingdandiyu，renmenbangdiyuxianchengzhijiena，jiexiaquzaizuojinyibuzhunbei。

2.本质基本建设

yibianzhangjiukaolvdao，xiaojunwubixunzhaozishenchuxiandenanti，suihouquchuli，gaizhengbenshendebugou。

 wulunshiqingshangzhishanghuanshizhiliquanshibixuxuexipeixunde，yincilaoshihuanshiqianglietuijianle《goutongdeyishu》 《suzaoqingshangzhishang》 《hafoqingshangkedaquan》dengshujie。

zhenshishijiyiyishangdewanshanziwo，caihuichaoguofudichouxindeshijixiaoguo。

3.外在基本建设

diyupingchangbutaizaiyizishendewaixingrongyan，pingchangzaiyizhedabanshangchedimeiyouyishumeikexun。

 yinci，renmendeshouxishejishizhuanyeweidiyushejifanganleyigeheshitadehanfengtouxing，yejitamenkanguoxuduozazhiqikanshangdenanshenggairuhechuanyidaban。

gangkaishiduidiyukaizhanwaizaijibenjianshederenyichouyangjianchajiance，jiancequdechenggonghou，renmenjilixiaowanduochulaizouyizou。

duopaixiemeimeidadexiangpianweixinfapengyouquanrangqingjingjiandao，lingfubixuwenben

weixiayijieduanzuotiqianzhunbei。

1.修复联络

 yinweidiyuqingjingdeshejiaoquanzimeiyiyuedoushikaizhanyicidatuanduituozhan，renmenjiezhezheiyijiyu，rangdiyuyidingyaozaituanduituozhandeneishihouzhuyaobiaoxianchuqiangjingdeqizhi。

 zaijuhuihuodongzhong，diyumeiyoutaiguoqinmijiechuqingjing，jinjinhenshenshidezuoyixienanshenggaizuodeshi。lirutiqingjingjiqidaochangdenvhainabao、kaiguanmen、ladengzideng。

yeliwenminglimaolejieqingjingxubuxuyaozishenjiachesonghuijiale。yinweishijianjiaoweichile，yinciqingjingyuanyile。

daoshangdiyugangkaishigenqingjingxianliao，huatitaolunlaoshizheilitidiyuxianghaola。

zhongjiudiyuzhiqiandoubutaishuohua，jiandaozhuanbianneimedadediyuqingjinghuanshihenchayide。

2. 展现面基本建设

 lianggerenrujinzaoyiyongyoujichuhudongjiaoliu，renmenbianrangdiyujianchibuxiemeiriheqingjingfayan。qingjingyuanbenjiushishuogexianbuzhuderen。

diyuyikaiqihuaxia，lianggerenjiunenghuobaoxianliaole。

3. 不断看看

lianggerenbujingyixianliao，bushejidaoqinggan，diyujinyongbazishenxianxiadeshenghuo heqingkuangchengxianjiqingjing。

yizhaolaoshijidehuatitaolunliao，congqiandaoshen。erqieshizhezheiyueqingjingchuquyongcanwandeng。

1. 模糊不清邀请

renmenrangdiyuzaiweixinpengyouquanfaleyizhangdujialvyoudediqu，suihoulianggerenyongyouyixiehudongjiaoliu。

2. 表白邀请

qiahaorenmenpengdaolediyushengchen，yincirenmenyaoyueleqingjinglaibaomingcanjiadiyudeshengriyan。

qingjinglailayihou，renmenxianheyiqiezhengchangdezaijuxingkuanghuanpaidui。

zaiqiyuandeneishihou，renmenfanglezhuanyeweidiyuheqingjingzuodeshipin，quanshitamenzhiqiandediandiandidi。

zuizhongdiyuqiyuan，qidaiqingjingnengkuanrongzishen，zaiduzuohaozijidenvyou。

diyuyuanyi，wanliuqudechenggong。

guannianshixingdongdezhudao，dangdanshixingdongdeshijifanying。

 yigeyouguannianderen，biranshiyigeyongyudandangderen，yigeyongyudandangderen，yidingbingbushiyigeconglaiburongyidezuirendelaoshiren。