挽回老婆：妻子闹离婚的3个原因，男人挽回时必须知道

 “womeitianqizaotanheihaibingbushiyibianzheiyijia?yaoburanbieyiweiwoneimepinsipinhuodizhengqianshiweishei?haibingbushiyibianrangnihexiaohaixingfudeshenghuo!”- wanhuilaopo

 ——“yaoburanniyeyaonaxie?jiniyishiwuyouchuan，shenghuowuyou，meitianzaijialidaizhe，xianggannaxiejiuganshenme，jigenvrenbiniguodehao?”

——“womeinuli?womeizhaoliaoni?rangniqianyongdedaodishishei?xiaohaihuishengdajiushiwojianxinzhengqianyangdadema?”

 xuduonanxingzhenduilaopotichulihundegerenxingweijuedezhenjingyihuo，wanhunhenduonian，tamenzijuedejiazhongnulixuduo，xiangbudaozaiwaibianjianxinchuangdanghuandedejuranshixifuyiduzidebaoyuanheyizhilihunxieyishu。nvxingjiujingruhexiangde?“woyixinyiyiweizheiyijia，zhongjiutahaiyijianshigezhonggeyangweiman，guaizijibujiefengqing、buguanzhuta、butiexinta。”“wobumingbai，naneimaduowenti?wanhunbujiushishuoguoshenghuo，jiangneimaduoxudeganshenme?”

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媳妇为何离婚了

 dangniyezhengchuzaizheileizhenjingheyihuozhong，dangniyeyijingbeixifunaoliyidegerenxingweikunhuo，neimagensuicangyunyongxintingjinridejingdiangushi，yexuninenggaoqingchudaodinilaoposhiruhexiangde?weiheyiduantafangzhehaohaodideshiridanshi，feidegenninaoliyini?

 nanshengzaoshouhunlianwenti，tongchangfeichangrongyixinjirongyishanghuo，yibianwanliuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，jianghuihuishiwanhuojidijizijibianboyitong，naizhijihongleyanhaihuiandilizeguaixifudebingbushi，wangtuyongdadaoliheluojixingshuodongxifububinaoliyi。danshi，neiyangdefangfatongchangjuebujianxiao，xifujiushishuosilexin，fufufenqimeiyouzhuanhaobuyongshuo，fandaonaodegenglebuqi。

 weishenmejiehunhenduonian，dajiadeqingganbingbushiyulaiyushen，fandaofanguoyuezao?jiushinibuyinggaimailigongzuozhong，shinibuyinggaizhuanqianyangjiahukou?huoxudoubingbushi，guigenjiedi，jiushinimeiyouxunzhaohunlianwentidewenti，zaipengdaofenqimaodunshi，meiyouyingyongqiadangdejiejuefangan。

 bubixiaoqiaorichangshenghuodemeiyicixiweideweiman，dabufenneishihou，yatahunyinshenghuode，bingbushizhengtiliyihejianjiechuxianlemaodun，zhenshifenliedajiazhongjianxinlaide，shizheixiehunyinshenghuozhongdefumianxinxitihui：wuqu、xinbuzaiyan、sangshizixinxin、quefaanquangan。tamencongyidunfan、yijuwananhaomeng、yijianyifu、yishengzaoshangzhonggangkaishizizhang，zaimouyicihenzhirugu、lianhongdizhengchaozhongbaofa，zuihoujiangnidehunyinshenghuoyinxianglepinweiliyidekunjing。

媳妇为何离婚了

 nanshengzuiaizaiyingduinantishitantaolichangjianding，erxiayishidihushiguanjiandian。niyaohuiyiyixiazishendehunyinshenghuo，huiyiyixiazheixiexiweideyishizhuxingyishunjian：

 ruguonichuwaichuangdangdeneishihou，jiazhongdechicunshiwuguanlishifoudouyoulaopoyigerendaolaoliu?xiaohaibixuyangyu，babamamabixuzhaoliao，jiawuhuobixuqingxi，yigenvrenbixuweirenfuweirenmu，yiniandaotoujibenshang95%deshijianyebuguishuyuzishen，tanaizhiyaoquchuyibaiershifendehuolicaikeyibajiazhongqingxidejingranyouxu。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 xifujingjingdinulizhe，jixiaohaiduanshiduanniao，babamamabinglemangqianmanghouliangtoupao，meiyouhuodenidetiexinheguanzhuyejishile，yeyaobeinizhigaoqiyang，yeyaobeitashuo“nichiwode，woyongde，chuanwode，zhuwodeyoumeiyoushenmebufuhede?”zainikanlailisuoyingdangdeyiqie，shijishangshitazaimomodilaoliu、yongxinqingxi。bingbushizhinengzhuanqianyangjiahukoucaiyoushiyongjiazhi，bingbushiruguonizhuanqianyangjiahukoule，nvxinghaiyaomeiyouliyoukuanrongnidequanbuquexian。

为何呢?

jiupingtajiageleni，tasuonulidezheiyiqiejiunengbeinizuoweilisuodangran?

jiupingtajiageleni，tadechucuojiunenggoubeiniwuxianbianda?

jiupingtajiageleni，jiunenggouhulvetadetihui，hushitadeyaoqiu?

zaiyiduanhunyinshenghuoli，nvxingzuibixudeshibeikuanrong、beichongnihebeizhongshi。ziwen：

wanhunhenduonian，nichongzukuanrongtama?nichongzuchongnitama?nichongzuzhongshitama?

jiaruzuoyousandianniyitiaoyemeiyoubaozheng，niyouweihezaitatiliyideneishihou，zhuyaobiaoxiandezheibanzhenjingheweimanni?

 shide，liangrenzongsuanzourulehunyinshenghuodeshengdian，xianghuyunyingzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，yigerenzhunei，yigerenzhuwai，zheimeiyoucuo。cuomeiyouzhizefengong，cuozainidehulvehelengdan。shijishangxuduonvshengbuhaipashengxiaohai，buhaipadaiwa，buhaipapeihulaoren，buhaipajiawulaodong，leidianleidiandoubingbushinaxienanti。

 jiaodadenantishi，tadeku、tadelei、tadenuli、tadenanaozainideyanzhonglaikanquanshiyingdangde，chedibulejieyeyaozaiyipangshuofenglianghua，zheicaisuanshizuirangtaxinhande。bubidengnitaxinhanleyiciyouyicicairumengchuxing，zhuihuimoji。jiranwobubatadenulikanzaiyanzhong，tayouhekuyibianzheiyijiamangqianmanghou，zixunfannaoni?

 renquanshiyangzhangbiduande，jiranzheiyijiazhongmeiyoushenmehaolianlianbushedele，tayouhekudaizheilixuduguangyinni?haohaodixiangyixiang，nageyiqianshanjierenyidetashifoubeiniqinziyinxianglelingyigenansheng?huoxuwoxianzaizaoyiguannianlaidaozishendenanti，keshi，shierlaidaozheiyichengdu，xifujiyuliyi，nibenlaizaoyixiangfangshefa，ketarengranshierbujian，zuoweizhangfujiujinggaizenmebanni?

媳妇为何离婚了

renmenxianlaitingyigegushi!

 liuyunhelaopowanhun6nianle，qingganjinguansuanbushangfeichanghao，keshiyebulengbure，jielehunguoshenghuoma，taganjuejiuhuipingpingdandanyidian。liuyunzheiyirenjiaoweidatiao，bingbushihenmingbailanman，pingchangjieriyehuisongli，danmeiyoushenmeyiwaijingxikexun。

 youyujiehunhougongzuoyalijiaoweida，yincitajuedaduoshuhuolidoufangdaogongzuofangmianle，pingchangxiaohainaxiedequanshixifudai，jiawuhuodoushixifuzaiqingxi，tadabufenbutaicaolao，yixinzijintouruzaigongzuozhongshangbian。

 zhenghaoyiliangnianqianjinshengle，yishizhuxingyemanmanmaixianglezhenggui，keshijiaojibizhiqiandaliangle，meiriqizaotanheide，dabufenxifuhaimeiyouxinglaitajiuwaichule，dengtahuijialexifuzaoyishuile，liangrenyitianzhongjiujiangbushangyijuhua。

 jinqiyiduanshijianliangkouzijiulaoyouyuyixiewuguanjinyaodeshierzhengchao，xifubingbushimaiyuanliuyunmeiriyinjiu，jiushitadoubuguanzhuxiaohai，xiaohaibingledoubuqingchu。yici2cirenleyejishile，rujinjichushiyitianyixiaochao，ertianyidachao。yuanbengongzuozhongjiuzaoyigounaoxindele，zhiqianbuquanshineimeguodema，doubuqingchutajinqizaijiaoqingnaxie，liuyunananbiequ!

 “youyici，woyigedaxinxiangmutanwanchulai，sunhaileshangbaiwandeyingli，”liuyunshuo，“fanhuijiazhong，tayougenwonajiehunjiniandeshierchao，shuowowusuoweitale，rujinlianjieriquanshisuiyiyingduiyican。woyuanbenjiufandehen，jiuhouletayiliangju，jiangguohenbuhaotingdehua。

 taneishihouyebuqingchuzenmela，huranquanburenjiubenkuile，gangkaishimawo，shuowobuhuilejieta，buzaiyita，shuowokanbujiantaweijiazhongdenuli，shuowoyebuzhidaodaiwayouduojianxin。neishihoujiudachaodanaoleyijia，diertianyelihuijiataqueshuoyaogenwoliyi，woshuotaweihetayebuyongshuo，haishuodengxiaohainianshudeshiermangwanhoujiubanchulai。shuozhenhua，wohuanshihenzaiyitade，neiyitianduitafaneimadaxingziyeyouyuxinqingyumen，yinweiwohetabiaoshuguo，keshitaruanyingbuchi，wonaizhicaiyitashifouwaiyule。”

meimanhunyinyoumuyouqiaomen?

cankaodaanhuoxushiyoude。

 keshi，yaoxianghunyinshenghuoxingfukuaileguangpojuhaowuyiwenshibuzude，zuizhongyaodeshiyaojiejuehaopingshisuosuidexingfukuailedu。youyu，gengshizheizhongbuzhiyitidesuosui，zuchenglenihunyinshenghuozhongjiaodadebupingwenyaosu。

 yidingyouxuduonanxingxiangliuyunyiyang，gaobudongweihehaohaodidehunyinshenghuohuranjiupinweifensuile，gaobudongweihehaohaodidelaopohuranjiubianweilelingyigeren。quanbuhunyinpolie，daduoshudoubingbushiyouyudashierzaochengde，ganghaoshihunhoushenghuozhongxiweifenqidejishaochengduosuozaochengde。

 zailiuyunderenzhinenglili，tahuiganjuewohaizaoyidaoguoqianle，bingqiezheigenbenshijianwuguanjinyaodeshier，xubuxuyaogaoshangliyidechengduni?

媳妇为何离婚了

quebuzhidao，zaizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，tafanle3gezuipubiandebuzhengque：

第一：不懂女人心，婚姻生活投入率极低

 aimoshengcengshuo，nanshengbixuzhongshi，ernvxingbixuai。youcikejian，zailiuyunjinshengyiqian，tamendefuqixingshenghuohuanshishifenhexiede。keshizidaliuyunjinshengzhijin，fuqixingshenghuojiugangkaishifenqicengchubuqiongle。yifangmianyouyuliuyunjinshengzhihou，jibenshangbaquanbudehuolidoufangdaogongzuozhonglile，zaihunyinshenghuozhongdezijintourudafudujianshao，zaochenglaopojuedebushangliuyuntadeai，guishuganjianshao，yincicaihuijingchangdiyouyuwuguanjinyaodesuoshiyuliuyunzhengzhi。

 lingyifangmianyouyuliuyunbumingbailaopodexin，chushijiaoweidaishadatiao，laopobuyongshuo，tayemeiquxiang，congbuhuiweilaopotiqianzhunbeiyixielanmandeyiwaijingxi。zheijiuzaochenglefuqixingshenghuoyizhijinjinbulengbure，taiguodupingpingdandan。

 shizhishang，laopobuyongshuo，liuyunzuoweilaogongjiuqueshichedimeiyouguanniandaolaopoyeyouqitayaoqiuma?shijishangtashiyoujuedede。zhibuguoshi，youyugongzuozhongdefanmangjiatinggongzuoyishizhuxingdepingpingdandantahuibuyouzizhuduobizheileijuede，xinlihuaizhexincunjiaoxing：“zongzhiquanshizijiaren，wodelaopohuilejiewode!”quebuzhidao，zhangqidehulvelingxifuyicicixinhan，zuizhongzaochengweijibaofa。

第二：与老婆欠缺沟通交流，彼此路轨偏移

 liuyunzidajinshengzhijin，jiuhelaopodeyishizhuxingluguibianweilelianggenjuebuxiangjiaodepingxingxian。qizaotanhei，jiaojiyinjiu，rangliuyunyitiangongzuozhongchulaimeibanfahelaoposhuoshangjijuhua，zhangciyiwang，laopoyufawufatihuidaolaogongdeaiheguanai。

 youyigewangluoliuxingyuchengweihunyinbuxingfu，shijizhongxuduoshiyechenggongdenanshengshenhoudenvxingdouhuimomodichengshouzheileihunyinshenghuochanshengdetongchu。shouhoucaisuanshizuishenqingdegaobai。

 liangrenzaiyiqi，jiarulianjichudejiaoliuyugoutongdoubianweilesheqiu，neigenyigerenshenghuoyoushenmebutongni?meiyougoutongjiaoliu，bicidexiaojiqingxudoubushangfaxieheshifangchulai，tebieshizaishinvxing，yigerenyigerendaihaizi，neixindekuheleidouwufadedaokuanwei，fumianxinxidexintaiyulaiyuduo，yidanchaochulinjiedian，jiuhuixiangdingshizhadanyiyangwanquanbaokai，pohuailikuangbao。

第三：爱面子，忽略妻子的付出

 liuyunyizhiganjue，liangrenjielehun，jiuyingdangnanzhujiaowai，nvzhunei。nannvshuangfangchuwaichuangdang，buzhujiatingzhuang;nvxingyineiqingxi，tongqingdali。keshitacongmeiyoulizailaopodeshijiaoshangkaolvdaoguo，balaoposuozuodeyiqiedouzhuguanyiduan。duibiyuchuwaichuangdanggongzuo，laoliujiazhongchicunshiwuguanlijihudoubingbushiyijianqingqingsongsongdeshier。

 danzailiuyunderenzhinenglili，tahuiganjuechuwaichuangdangbichengjiawuhuoqingqingsongsongdeduo，yincizaiqianyishizhonglitahuiganjue：zishencaisuanshizuijianxindenage，laopoweiquanbujiazhongsuozuodexunzhihenuliquanshilisuoyingdang、bufeiliqide。yaolejie，lianrenshizhongshizuizuigainikuazandeneiren，erliuyunqueganghaohulvelezheiyidian。

 zaizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，laopotihuidaodeshibingliang、gudanhemeiyouanquangan，tabeizheizhongfumianxinxidexintaiyidiandiandifushi，lingwaiyeyaoyingduiliuyundebulejie、buqianjiu。zaineiyangcaogaodehunyinshenghuoqingkuangli，liangrenyouqianquegoutongjiaoliu，dangranhuizaochengfuqiguanxideliekai，yizhilaopomingquetichuliyi。