挽回老婆的正确打开方式，你做对了吗？

 goutongjiaoliushikaiqifufuliangrendamenkoudesuochi，renherenzhijianyeshiyouyugoutongjiaoliu，caikeyibaozhenghuxianglijie，jiejueyixiewujie，hunyinshenghuolingwaibixuliangrenqingoutongjiaoliu。- wanhuilaopo

 2gebenlaihuozaibuyiyangyishizhuxingliderenzoulaidaoyiqi，xuduoshiershangzaisuonanmianchuxianyixiemaodun，yinerzhengchaoshiwukebimiande。

 dantongchangxuduoneishihouyiduidonggoutongjiaoliudefufuheyiduibumingbaigoutongjiaoliudefufu，tamendehunyinshenghuoqingganqingkuangshijieranbutongde。

 fufuliangrenzhengzhiwukebimian，danzhengzhihouqianquexuyoudegoutongjiaoliu，tongchanghuicushiliangrendeqingganyuelaiyueyuan，wogebilinjudeneiduifuqijiuzheiyangdeyiduifuqi。

fufuqianquegoutongjiaoliu，zaochengliangdifenjuxiaodabannian

 jianjushangyicitamenliangzhengchaozaoyiguoquxiaodabannian，haijidezhiqianzhengzhiwanhou，tadelaogongshuaimenerzou，zhiliuyoumenhoudelaopodunzaitulitongkuliuti。

 qijinliangrenrengranchuziyuliangdifenjuqingkuang，yuanxianzaishangyicizhengchaoshiliangrenzaoyibuduanle1yuedelengbaoli，liangrensheiyemeilishei，zhizhixiayichangzhengchaobaofa，laogonghenzhirugushuaimenerzou。

zheiduifufudeqingganqingkuangbuyanjinwoyaran，woshuota：“dajiachaowanjiahou，meiyoushizheguogoutongjiaoliuma?”

 tingjianlewodeyihuo，tamiwangdikanwo，zhihou.wolejie，tamenfufuliangren，zhenshizuozheyiqihaohaodiliaoyiliaoxianghudexinlihua，zaoyishihenzaoyiqiandeshile。

 rujindetamen，jiusuanshizhengchaole，zhengchaozhihoudoushigezuogedeshi、geshuigedejue。queshiwufaxiangxiang，zheileihaosijiaoladeqinggan，tamenshizenyangkeyidaizaitongyigewuyande。

dajiazhongjiandeqinggan，weiheyoumingwushi

1.彼此之间的话题讨论越来越低

 bunankanchu，yiqianzaidajialianqingdeneishihou，liangrenzhongjianhaoxiangyizhiyongyouliaobuwandehua。shubuzhihunhoujiaowangdeshijianjiule，liangrenzhongjiandehuatitaolunyebiandegengjiashao，naizhixuduoneishihoudouganjueganqingdanle。

zhangjiuyiwang，neixinhuijinbuzhuyouyidingdeyihuo，lingyifangjiujinghaiyouduoaizishen?niwozhijiandeganqinghaiyaoma?

2.已不喜爱操劳家务事

 jiashiyaoliangrenxianghulaiweihubaoyangde，bukeyizhishuaijiyigerenlaiguan。doushuo“nvxingyizhiyoucaobuwandexin”，jiehunnianlingjiule，xuduojiazhongdeshibixuyounvxinglaicaolao，ernanshengquefeichangshaoquguan。

 zaiqizhongyigezuyuanyibuquguanzhujiazhonglibiandeshi，naizhijuedelaidaoyanjuan，neimazheiyineishihoulingyifangzaisuonanmianganjueyixiehanxin。

3.常常撒谎，夫妇难信赖

 zaiqingganzhong，yaoshiyouyigerenjiangguoyicihuang，neimawanghoumianfeichangrongyihuibeilingyifangbuxinlai。shubuzhihunyinshenghuozhongshibixuxianghuzunzhongde。

 jiaruochuxianlebuxinlaideyiner，liangrendoushiganjuelei，neimazheicihunyinshenghuoyeyoumingwushi，jiaowangshijiuhaosijiaola，meiyouyidiandiantianmeideweier。

shubuzhidaozhizheiyiqieyuangude，quanshidajiazhongjianquefaleguoduodegoutongjiaoliu。

情感好似嚼蜡，只由于缺乏沟通交流

 zaiwomenderichangshenghuoshihuipengdaoguoxuduolaonianfuqi，jinguanbiaocengshangkanshangqushifenhemu，keshishishangliangrenzhongjianzaoyizaoyimeileqinggan。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 bicizhijianweilebaobaoermianmianqiangqiangdiguozheshiri，yuqishuoshituocishiweilebaobaoerzaiciyishizhuxingxialai，daoburushuoshiyouyuzishenbuganmaikaineiyibu、zishencunyoudegujihaiguoduo。

liangrenfanhuijiashidaliangdeshigegangedeshi，jiuliangoutongjiaoliudouzaoyixiquedekeling，gengbieshuoshihusuxinchang。

 doushuofufumeiyouguoyechou，keshijiaruoneiyangdefufuchanshenglezhengchao，queshiwufaxiangxiangliangrenhuibuduanduozhangshijiandelengbaoli，gengwufaxiangxiang，zheileijiatinghuanjingyoushizaitailingrenxinzui。

萨提亚沟通模式，正毁了大家的婚姻生活

 qinggandejibenjiushishuogoutongjiaoliu，yigemeiyougoutongjiaoliudeqinggan，feichangrongyishuosanjiusan，shubuzhidajiazhongjianquefagoutongjiaoliu，bidingshiguoqudegoutongjiaoliufangfacuowu，huiledajiazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliu。

cuihuidajiazhongjiangoutongjiaoliude，zuipubiandefangfajiushishuosatiyagoutongmoshi

1.取悦型的沟通交流，忽视自身

renmenjugelizi，zaishenghuozhong，laopoxingqingruanruo，liangrenjiaowangyizhichuzaidanfangquyuelaogong、guanzhelaogongdeqingkuang。

 jinguanbiaocengshangjiatinghuanjingkanshangqushifenhemu，danxixinkanzhegaoqingchu，laogongchedibalaopodangzuoayi、nupulaidahuxiaojiao，laopojinguanbiaocengshangmeiyoumaiyuan，danneixinzaoyijiyuanguoduo。

 biaocengshangkanshangqujiatinghuanjingshifenhexie，danbicizhijianfeichangshaobiaoluzishendexinlihuaheduilingyifangdeweiman。zheileijiazhongmeibanfayoucunyouzhenqing。

2.斥责型的沟通交流，催毁情感

 zairichangshenghuozhong，laopoyiweidichizelaogong，buguanlaogongzuobuduinaxie，doumianbulelaopodechize，zhangciyiwanglaogongbidingshiyulaiyuyanfanzheicihunyinshenghuo。

yibanxiguanchizexinggoutongjiaoliuderen，tadeyanlimeiyoufenhaozishendeguoshi，yizhixiaibaguoshituituojitaren。

 zheileizhengchaobuxiudeqingkuang，zaihunyinshenghuozhongshishicuihuiqinggandegerenxingwei，xuduoshieryemeiyouhuodefeichanghaodechuli，zuihouyaoyihuxiangbaoyuanzhongmeiyouxiawen。

shijianjiule，liangrenyelanyuzaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，yiner，liangrendegoutongjiaoliujiubianchengnanti，naizhishiyizhongshehua。

3.他说得话，一直被打岔

 ruguonishuodeyijingshengxingdeneishihou，huranbeinidelaogongqieduan，tuokuandaociwaiyigenihaipaxingquaihaodehuatitaolunshang。huoshidajiazaizhengzhidequanguochengzhong，nidouhaimeijiangwan，laogongjiugangkaishifaxiezishendeguannian。

meiyiciquanshinidouhaimeibahuajiangwan，lingyifangjiujiangnixiangshuodehuaqieduan。

 zheileigoutongjiaoliufangfashishifenleide，nixinlideniantoudouhaimeishuochuquranglingyifangzhangwo，lingyifangjiuqieduanlenideyuju，burangnixuanxiedejiyu。

fenqidangranyewufadedaochuli，yemeilechulideqingxu，jiushizheiyangliangrenchaodejiameiyouxiawen。

rangqinggangengweiqinmiwujiandegoutongjiaoliu，yingdangshineiyangde

1.直接了当地讲出自身的要求

renmenjianjieminglejuyigeshili：

 jiehunjinianzheiyitian，laopogaozhilaogong：“jintianjierihendute，haijideyaozaodianhuilai。”laogongtinghouyitouwushui，haikeyichaxunleyixiarilibiao，bingmeiyoufajuejintianshishenmejie。

 yelihuijialehou，laoposhifenjingya，youyulaogongsongshenmeliwuyemeiyouweizijidai，jiulianyijubiaodayemeiyou，yincilaopojiugangkaishifahuo。

 zheiranglaogongganjuewuyuanwugu，buqingchuzishenjiujingyouyunaxieerrelaopofahuo，liangrenjiuchanshenglezhengzhi。zhihoucailejie，zheiyitianshitamendejiehunjinian，laogongyimangjiuwangdaonaohoule。

dengliangrenchaowanjia，laopozaozaoyitiqianzhunbeihaodefanshizaoyiliangle。

 shijishangxuduoneishihou，nvxingdoushimorenshezhiganjue，laogongmingbaizishendeniantou，tashuodehua，laogongyidingnengtingdedong。danshishishang，youshihourenmenbuzhijieledangjiangchuzishendeniantouheyaoqiu，nanshengshiqueshitingbujinqu。

 yiner，ruoneiminglaopoduilaogongshuo：“jintianjiehunjinian，yeliyaodailipinhuijia。”huoxulaogongyelihuijiashidezuofa，jiuqueshiburongyiranglaopoxinhan。

yunanshengshuohua，nengzhijieledang，jiujinkenengzhijieledang。

2.不必以便争执而争执

 xuduoneishihouwomenwuhuilezhengchaodeshijiyiyi，xuduorendanxinzhengchao，ganjuezhengchaoshiyijianshifensunhaiqinggandeshier。shubuzhizhihoufajue，meiyicizhengchaozhihou，dajiazhongjiandeqingganjiuhuiyuelaiyuegengqiang。

 shijishangzaizhengchaodequanguochengzhong，dajiaxianghudoujiangyayiganzaizishenneixinlidemaiyuanxuanxielechuqu，lingyifangtingjianhou，jinguanbuxiangyaozuitoudingrenke，danneixinzaoyiguanniandaozishenpingchangzuodeyixieshi，zaoyilinglingyifangweiman。

 keguanshishijiuzheiyang，bulingrenmanyilingyifangzuodeyixieshishi，haiyaoyingyongdiqiangdiaolaigaozhilingyifang，zheijiuhuifuqijianxuyoudegoutongjiaoliu。

 bubijileiyuanhen，lingyifanglingnibugaoxinglehaiyaolikeshuochuqu，liangrenzuozheyiqixixingoutongjiaoliuyixia，genjugoutongjiaoliurangxianghudougaoqingchu，ruhefangzhiranglingyifangbugaoxing。

3.塑造彼此之间的共同话题

 jianxinmeiyigerenchangyouzishendexihao，lirumeishuhuihua、zhonghua、nianshu、jianshenyundong，dangnidenvrenxiaizuomouyijianxihaodeneishihou，hebunihaikeyicanjiazaiqizhong。

zaizheiyiquanguochengzhong，dajiazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuyemeiyouxianyucunlicunwaizheileibijiaoyouxiandehuatitaolundangzhong。

 jiusuannidenvrenbingmeiyouzheizhonghenqingyadexihao，danaimeilishimeiyinvrendemeixing，nihaikeyikexueyanjiuyixiafushidapei，jingchangyulaopoliaoyixiepeidafushidefangshi。

 lingwairuguonidelaogongxiaijianshenyundong，hebunihaikeyicanjiazaiqizhong，duosuzaoliangrendegongtonghuati，bicizhijiandehuatitaolunyejiuyulaiyuduo。

沟通交流是情感的公路桥梁

 liangrenjiehunnianlingjiule，jiaowangzhongzaisuonanmianjindao“moran”fangshi，zheizaiqizhongdeyuanguyouxuduo，lirudajiazhongjianquefahuatitaolun，zailiruyouyigerenxiaichize、dacha，niyouxiaiquyue，rangdajiazhongjianmeifagoutongjiaoliuxialai。

 zheizhongquanshidajiayaomianduidenanti，bubitiaoxuanduobi，yingyongdigenlingyifangshuochuqu，jibianhuichanshengzhengzhi，haiyaochulidiaozheizhongzulandajiaqinggandeebiangoutongjiaoliu。