挽回老婆：遇到这6种情况，说明还有挽回的机会

男士写信

林若为(笔名)囗述

guanjianzi：tichufenshou fuhexing

laoshinihao。worenweiwojiushilaizhaomade。youdianerjiejiebaba，qingdandai。

 wogenwoqianrennvyoushitongyigeqiyede，zaiyicizhutihuodongzhonglejie。suihouwoyegangkaishizhuita，tajianworenyefeichanghaojiujianjiandihaodaole。- wanhuilaopo

 danshiwoquexianjiaoweiduo，shuohuashengdong、zuoshierbingbushihenanwen、butaiaizhengjie，yingduiweijibulizhideng，zaijiaowangdequanguochengzhongtajingchangnanshouwoyixiequexian，qidaiwojiuzheng。yinweiwojianjiandigaileyixie，youshibuliuyihaihuifanyixiebuzhengque。liruyoushihuiwangjileguahuzi。

 tameiyicifahuowoyemeiyoufahuo，woyetingzaiyitade，patapaodiao。wojiushigebutaiaihongrenderen，woxiangyaopingchangyinweiwodequemeiyoudoutagaoxing。yiqiantayoujihuinaopiqiyaonaotichufenshou，zhihoudouhehaola。

 pingchangtaoqian，wosuiransuanbushangdaqi，yebingmeiyouxiaojiaziqi。zaiyiqideneishihou，guangjiegouwuyongcanmaixiezi，yinciqianquanshiwochu，yinweiwoganjuelisuodangran。guihaitamaiguoiphone7，xinniandeneishihoufeijipiaohuochepiaoquanshimailede，lingwaitayaowojita5000kuai

 guonianhuijia，yinweiwojile。woxiangyaowozuozheizhongdeneishihouquanshidianjizhezongzhijixifuhuameishier，tagaoxingjiuhao。bingqiekandechutatingzaiyisheifufeizheiyidian。youyicitaqunayaowomeijijifufei，tajiushengletingdadeqi。zhihoupatafahuowohaihenjiji。

renmendouhaimeichanshengneileiguanlian，youyuzaizheixiefangmianshijishangbingbushihenjiji，woxiangjiehunshizaineibanhuihaoyidian。

 keshiguolenianhuijiataxintaifashengbianhua，shuowoliangxingqingyouwenti，tazongshichizewodequedianrangtaganjueganjuehaolei。jiashangtamuqinyaotahuijia，jiuxianggenwotichufenshou，danmeiyouxuanbumingquetichulai。jinjinwoyoudianerbuxiangyaojianxin，youyutayiqianshuoguoyaoshitajianchibuxie。

 tamuqinburongyidizhide。wojiejueshierbuzulizhi，wojuedetayiqingbielianle，wojienabushang。jiashangneijiritamuqinyehuilaile，zaitamingquetichuxiangjialehouwoyeyoudianerleng，fandaomeiyouhaohaodifenpeitamenqulvyou。

 qianrennvyouyejiuyoudianerfahuo，shuojuecelibaitianqumoushengwan，piaozhimailaierzhang，wojiaruxianglaidehuazishenqumai。suihouwoneishidanaobulizhi，benyingdanghaohaodizhiqiande，quexiangfenshoule。jinguanmingquetichuwoyehouhuimojile，dantaxunsujiutongyile，meiyouhuiguotou。

 libaitianyiqianwohuanshihualexuduosixuhetagoutongjiaoliu，tashuobashoujishanghefeijipiaoqianjiqinei5000kuaiguihaiwo，yinweiwobubi。wojiangtashiwomenzaiyiqideneishihouchanshengde，buqianwode。

 hongleertianzhihou，jinguanmeifuhexing，danzaoyihaolaxuduo。suihoulibaitianwoshifenjijizhudongzhuyaobiaoxian，qidainengwanliu，jinjintagesanchawutishiworenmenzaoyimeiyouyiqiyaowoyoudianerfushang。yelihuijiashoujiweixinwozhuyaobiaoxiandeyoudianerleng，tajiufalegexinlangweiboshuo：dangniyuanyishijiaowodadong，weishenmewodadongle，niyouzhuyaobiaoxianchukaiyuanhen。renyaoxuehaoguanlizijidexintai，caikeyixiangqianjin。

 woyebuzhidaotashifoukenjienahuiguotou，danzhihouzhousandeneishihouwohuanshiguidingfuhexingle，tahuijuele。neiyitianwoyeshengleqi，shuolibaitianbupeizhenisongtamadaofeijichangle。tayelailaqile，jiubatichufenshoudeshierhetamajiangle。

 jinjindiertianwobuzhidaonaerlailaqi，gusuanshiganjuezishenbeipianba，jiuguidingtaba5000kuaiguihaiwo。tayiqizhixiajiubashoujishangyeyiqiguihaiwole。shijishanghuayichurukouwoyehouhuimojile，jinjintaqueshifahuole。wobuhuixiangyao，xiangjihuilai，shuoneizaoyishitadewupinle，danbierenbujienale。shijishangdoushi，bierenyebutaihaoyao。

 yihoujiri，tajiangwoqq、xinlangweibo、shoujiweixin、meigerendoushandiao。rujinzaoyiyiwang4tianle，rujinlianpenyoudoumeiyouganle，tayaowoqingbielianluota。youyushoujishangzaoyibeijiaruheimingdan，bingqieyongbiededianhuada，yitingjiushiwoxiangshengjiuguadiao。woxielechengrencuowuxinjita，danshigusuantayebuxiangkan，youyutazhishiduofenzhongjiuhuiyingwole，jiushishuo“guoqu，zhuxingfukuaile”。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 shijishangwobuzhidaowojiujingzaiguidingnaxie，jinguanganjueshijizhongzaoyibutaikenengle，danwohuanshihensinianhensinian，jianghuixinlilibianbingbuyuansheqiba。zuixianwozaoyizuobudui，songqudewupinshibukeyiyaohuijiade，buguanzenyangyebuyingdangyao。bingqiewojuede

 yiwangzheiyiduanshijianwochedishizhituzishen，buguanbugutadetihui。yingdangshuowobingbushizhendeaita。rujindengyincigaozhita，wozuodezheiyiqiedoujinjinyaoxiangzhanjuni。ciciweijiwojiejuedeshifenbutaihao，worenweizishenhaocuo，neixinmiantailuan。woyizhixiangqitagaoxingneishihoudemoyang。

jiarutanengpengdaoyigekenzhenshiduitahaode，yinweiwozhinengrenle。jinjinwanyiyubushangni，wofeichangdanyou。

 gujiniyidinghuimawode，heihei。wohenxiangbenrenzha。nianjidehuawo85nian3yuede，tabiwoxiaoyisuiban。wojiushizuowulixuede，tashiwenbenwendangleide。

教师回应：

 doushuolianaizhongdenvrenshierlengzi，fenshouhoudenvxingshishenjingbing，shijishangnanshengweihebuzheibanni?ganqingzhongdeshangbafangdaonanshenghuonvxingdeshenshangdoushiyiyangtong，zhibuguoshinanshengyouyuqibenshenxingbietexing，biaocengshangjianghuimeineimashengsilijie，yezaijinkenengjianguanzishendexintai，danxinliquebaoshounanao：taweihexuanzelikai?

她还爱我吗?

woduitaneimehao，taruhenenggouneimejueqing?

taburongyineimekuaijiuxundexinnvyouleba?

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 shide，zheizhongquanshiyaoxiangwanhuinvyoudeni，zaixinlipanghuangqianwancidenanti，niyibianmandiwenyixiaziji，yizhenzhenzhuaxinnaoganbantongchu，danshinizishenquemeiyoucankaodaan。lingwainiyehenxiangyaozhidaodajiazhongjianjiujingcunyoushenmeburongyifajuedenanti，yizhidajiadeqingganlaidaoxianrujinrucinongtian。dan，sheihuiduinishuoni?

 xuduoxiangwanliuderenjiushishuoyizhibuduanzuoyiduishixiangwanliu，danzhongjiushijishangdouhuimeiyigegerenxingweidangzhonggaozhilingyifang“wobenzhibuzaiyinijiujingkuaibukaixin，xiankaolvwoxiangyaozaiyiqideqingxuzailiao”。huoxujileixiajiuhuiyulaiyumingquezishenfenshou。

 yinciwojiangwanliudeluojixinghendiaogui，dangniyaoxiangchengxiao，bingbushizhixiangchuantoukanqilaihelidewanliudezuoweilaichulizishendexintaidehua，neimenijiudexuehuifangxia。

 ruguoniqueshixuehuifangxiale，ruguoniqueshigangkaishixunzhaozishendebudiaoyizhi，ruguoniqueshiyaoxianggenggai，jiuburongyiwenjiujingyaoruhefuhexing。youyunicikehuixuehaozhongshilingyifangyaoxiangtichufenshoudeqingkuanggenqingxu，youyunicikeyehuigangkaishimingbaizhongshizishen，dangniqueshiyouxiangshourensheng、youxiangyougenggaidequanguocheng、youxiangyouzishendebudiaoyizhi，“fuhexing”yu“bufuhexing”dexuanzexianghuibianweigongpingde。

 zhinengdangfuhexingyibushimudi，neixinqueshaodeyibufen，caiyoubeimibudejianghui。neishi，dangfuhexingyibushimudishi，“fuhexing”zheiyixuanzexiangcaidechengqueshijianghui。

neima，jiarudequexiangfuhexing，quchudiaochuxintaizhiwai，yeyaokeguandeduidaizheihaoduogenanti：

 1.shibushiliangrenchangyouyixiangfuhexing，mingquezishenbingbushidanlian。2.duizishenkaizhanpingding:yutichufenshouneishihouduibi，zishenyoumuyoubianchuse、bianwanshan、linglingyifangaishangdezheixieyoushihaiyaoma?quexiandougailemeiyou?

 3.shixiadezishenyoumuyoujiyupengdaobilingyifanggengqiangderen，zishenyoumuyoumishangyigexinderendegongzuonengli。(zheiyinantihenguanjian，bubibeiyiwangqingganzhongxingfudeyimianmengshangyanjing，jinizhipeiquantiaoxuanjianglaidelianren)。4.jiaruyouteshudezaochengtichufenshoudeyuangu，neimanageyuangurujinchulilemeiyou。jiarujinjinyouyu「taileileruguobuaile」，neimarujinbicikefouranqireqing。

 5.jiarufuhexingle，zhihouhaishifouhuichuxianshifenzhongtedadenenggouyuliaodetichufenshouyuangu。lirumengpian、jianju、wuzhishenghuo、qinrendizhizheixie。fuhexinghoudeqingganshishifenmingande，xinshangjiajiubaneijiushihebini。6.weihubaoyangqinggandechengbenfeishibushixiangduixingguogao。dangzuoyoudehaoduogenantidoupianxiangyigehaodefangweiyihou，haiyaokaolvdaoyixielixingdeyaosule。

 kexueyanjiushuoming ，wulunshishuangfangrenheyifangmingquetichudetichufenshou，bicidoushitongchu，naizhititichufenshoudeyifanghuigengweishang。dadaolifeichangjiandan，yigesanguanyiqiezhengchangderen ，meibanfaquxiajuecequdangyigehuaidan,chufeishizaoyidichuzhiji。 yincishuo,yaobushiyanfanzhiji，quanshiyouwanliujianghuide。

 wanliulihenguanjiandedoushipangguanzheqingdeyidianjiushishuo，lingyifangdenianji，jingyan，jiaoyujingligangweidengzheizhongkeguanyuanyin，zuihoudailailingyifangdeshizhixingqingshisha。moqingchuzheidianer，caikeyiyouzizhitanwanliu。xuduorenshuo，wohaizaitashenpangshiduoshaoshiduoshaonian，tadexingqingwofeichangzhangwo，keshijiaruqueshizhangwoweishenmehuilaidaotichufenshouzheiyibuni。

 zailianqingli，juedaduoshurendoujinjinzhuyaobiaoxianlexiangduinizhuyaobiaoxian，xiangjinijiandaodeyimian，ertabuyishuzhideyimian，henjianghuijiushishuofenshoudezhengqueyindaomian，fajuetadeshencengcixingqingshifenyouyiyuwanliu。keshizheiyixingqingbixuzuohenduodenantijiexicaikeyisuanchu，zheieryebuyiyiqujiang。

 woyizhijiaoweixiaishaheteyouguanxintaidekexueyanjiu。xintaishishenglixuegouqiherenzhinenglibiaoshixianghuchangyongdejieguo。zhenzhengdeaiqingruhezaochengde，shaheteshuo，dangshenglixuebeigaokuanbihuanqideneishihou，jiarutajuedenidecunyounenggouchushilianaideganjue，neimajiufeichangrongyizaochengganqing。

 shenmeshiai，yiwangerenyouyiwanzhonglejieheganshou。wojuede，aiqingshiyizhongjuede，zheileijuedechuangjianzaiqipanzhizhong，zheileijuededeguanjianaiqingshiguishugan，congzongtishangyou：lejie，jieshou，renke，shiyongjiazhi，wennuandeng。renmenzishenqinshenjingliguodeyeba，renmenduwandeweidadeaiqingjingdiangushiyeba，fajuedouwufataolizheizhongqipandesuming。ai，jiushishuoqipandekaolv。

 wokandaoxuduorendaozhuiqiuwanmeiqingganhuoshiwanhuiaiqingdeneishihou，zaidiyicengbiaomianganlexuduogongzuozhong，quzhaoliaota，xiezhuta，gouwujitamen，weitazuoshier，qidaitanengdadong。jiarutadadongle，niyeshihaoyunde。jiarutameiyoudadong，jiuhuifahuohuoshihenxinhan：weishajinizuoneimeduo，niyemeiyoufenhaojuede。

 weishaneimenuli，huanhuilaidequanshisunhai。nishuobailedesunhai，bishidoushitameiyoutongyangdeailaiganenhuikuiyuniba。huoxu，wojianguoaideshenchen，buduandenulizhe，jibianlingyifangmeiyouhendadeyijianfankui，tarengrannengjianchibuxiezhenulizhe。suihourenmenjiuhuiweizheijiechudeaidadong，suihourenmenjiuyaoxiangshiyouyigerenyeneimeyijianshigaiyouduohao，suihourenmenjiuxiangquxiang，zheiyibeiaiderenruheneimebuzhizu。

 renmenjinjinbuzhangwozheiyibeiaiderendeku。yexutazishendoubuzhangwo。weiheyouyigerenyijianshineimehao，wobenlaikeyimeiyoufangfaaishangta。 woxiangdeshiiphone,niquebangwoyikuangli。

 jiandandianlaishuo，wanliujiushishuochuangjianzaibiciqingganmeiyouchedisheqi，duilingyifangyeyoujiniandejibenshang;bingqie，wanliudeyifang，yaolejiebeiwanliudeyifang，jiujingbixunaxie，shiiphonehuanshili。

 rutongwochangshuo，suoyourenduiaidefenxidoubuyiyang，taiduotaiduorendegexing，zaochengtaiduotaiduodetichufenshou，yincizongyouletaiduotaiduodewanliufangfa。keshi，guanjiandianbuyiyang，yinsutongyang;dangnimeiyounongqingchulingyifangyaoxiangnaxie，doumeiyougaohaozhenshidefuhexingxintaizhuangtai，neihuanshibubiquwanliule。