因为这一件事，他成功地挽回了老婆

 youxieren：“fufuwanhundediyinian，weileaierhuo;wanhundediernian，liangrenyibianhunyinshenghuoerhuozhu;laidaowanhundedisannian，lianggerenweilebaobaoerhuozhu。duiyuwanghoumiandeshiguang，fufulianggerenquanshiyibianhuozhuerhuozhu。”- wanhuilaopo

hunyinshenghuozhenduihenduoreneryan，jiushishuoyigeguichu，dangguichukuatadeneishihou，xuduorendexinyejiuzaoyiqushile。

 zaitiejinxinnianzheiyiduanshijian，xuduojiazhongquanshitianmanzhehuangexiaoyu，xiqishifen，keshiyoudefufuqueyouyuliyierzhengtuolehenjiu，laidaokuaixinniandeneishihoucaizuyikandaozishendelianrenyici。

01

欠缺沟通交流和关注才会造成女性心如死灰。

 liqianzaoqianhunhou，jiuyizhizaiyidigongzuozhong，feichangshaozaiyidaojiazhongdexifuxiaohai，jiulianxiaohaiyoushibingle，quanshilaopolinhanpeizaixiaohaishenpang。

keshiyouyuliqianzhangqixingmeiyoulinhanshenpang，zaochenglindaiyoubixudeneishihoutongchangquankaozishen。

 youyiciliqianshiyiguoqingdeneishihouhuijiale，daoxiawuyongcandeneishihou，liqiandaodaxuejiexiaohai，daxuedejiaoshiyikanliqianmiansheng，yikaishihaibuxiangyaotahuilaijiexiaohai，zuizhonghuanshigenlinhandaledianhuayihou，caiyuanyitahuibaxiaohaidaiqu。

 youyuzhangqixingqianquelaogongdeguanzhu，linhanyezhujianduiliqianmeiyoulenaxieqinggan。zailiqianyoufanhuiyidigongzuozhongyihou，linhanjiugenliqianmingquetichuleliyi。

 linhanduiliqianshuo：“niyizhizaiwaibiangongzuozhong，genjiarendeguanlianyezaoyizhujianshuyuanle，jiulianxiaohaiyebuxiangyaoqinmijiechuni，woyebuzhidaoshibushinizaiwaibianyeyoubiedenvxing，keshi，zaiguolecicinianyihou，renmen2gejiulihunba。lihunzhiqian，peizhewohuijialeguozuihouyicinianba”

02

沒有确实想离婚女人，只能在婚姻生活里缺乏安全感的女性。

 liqianganjuelinhanduizishendewujiexuduo，danzheiyedouyouyuzishenzhangqixingmeiyoujitaguanliandeyuanyin。zhenduilinhandekenqiu，liqiantongyile。

 liqianganjue，yibiantianbulinhanjiagezishenzheixienianlaidebiequ，tazaixinnianqianjiutizaoxiujiafanhuilejiaxiang，jijibanglinhanqingsaojiazhong，chujiuyingxin。erqiehaicongwaidiquhuijiaxuduoyididetutechan，shuoyaojilinhandaidaoniangjiaren。

 linhandexinkaishibeiliqiannuanhuale。laidaolinhanhuijialedeneiyitian，yidajiazirendouzuozheyizhangcanzhuoshangyongcan，liqianjinguanyizhigenjiazhongdelaorenliaotianer，keshiyemeiwangjibanglinhandewanlishengfan。

 linhangangkaishiganjue，neiyangdeqinggan，caisuanshitabixudejiehunhouqinggana。huijialehou，linhanjiuwenliqianshuo：“niyaoxiangliyima?”

liqianshuo：“wonaerxiangliyia，keshiwomingbaiwozheimeduonianzaiwaibiangongzuozhong，dequehushinini。”

linhanzheicaishuo：“neimejiulibulele!” qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

03

 liqianzheicailejie，linhanyikaishiduizishendewujie，shijishangdoujinjinlaiyuanyuzishenduitadebuzuguanzhu，liqianshuo：“wogenlinhanhuijialeguoyicinian，benlaijiujinjinxiangtianbutazhiqianzaihunyinshenghuoshangquefadeai，xiangbudao，quechuxianyiwaiwanliulerenmenliangrendehunyinshenghuo。”

 nvxingzaihunhoushenghuoshiyaodedanshijiushishuoyigemingbaixintongtazhaoliaotadenansheng，yinci，qingbubiyouyugongzuozhongjiuhushilenidenvren，hunyinshenghuolidexuduoshier，youshiruguoniyigeguanzhujiunenggouchulidele。