挽回婚外情的痛苦，一个男人挽回出轨老婆的经历

 zaixuduohunyinshenghuozhong，fuqijiannenggouliuxialaihenshucihuihendeleishui，danshiduiyiqiefufumeneryan，hunyinshenghuozhongshidejiyuquezhinengyici!yicichuguixingweidepanbian，jiunengzaihunyinshenghuozhongliuyouyonghuandebahen。neizhaxindeyimufeichangshaoxuduorennenggoushizhongjieguo，yidanhuishouguowang，rengrannengtihuidaoshengmingzhongyinyuedetongku。- wanhuilaopo

 yiduizhenshixingfukuailedefufu，buyidingqingzhiaizhezhiqie，danshizuishaotamenyongbubianxin。wulunqiongfugaodiguijian，tamendeqingganzhongyidingmeiyoudisanzhedecanjia。erdanghunyinshenghuozhongdeyigerenchulegui，duilingyigereneryan，huoxushizhongdoumeifazaidedaoxingfukuailele。

 yizhiyilai，hunwailianjiushishuoneimenanjie，waiyujiushishuoneimezhisi。neileisunhainaizhinenggoulingrenshiluo，buqingchuzishenhuozhudaodishiyibiannaxie!

 jinguanyingduihunwailiandeneishihou，zhengtishangyueyoubaifenzhibashizuoyouderenyaotiaoxuanwanliu，huibiezhubeishang，liuzheleiquwanhuihunyin。danshidangtamenwanliuyihou，weilaimouyitian，huoxuhuiduizishenyiqiande“ruanruo”juedehouhuimojiyufanbeidetongxin。

1情感是一种很怪异的物品

 qingganshiyizhonghenguaiyidewupin，zonglanguwangjinlai，doushuoyingxiongqiduanernvsiqing。nengcuihuiyigeyingxiongrenwude，tongchangbingbushishizaitaiqiangjingdeduishou，zhishishenpangnageyiqianaidenanren!

 renshengdaoluzhong，yiqiekeguandewupindoukeyongyuyaneryanqingxi，keshiqinggandeshierzuishishuobuqingchu，yeshuobutou。xuduofanzadehunyinshenghuoyidanqingganshengbian，jingchangnengzaiqiaowushengxizhongjian，rangmouyirensangshiquanbudelixianghuayuzihao。

 hunwailianjiuzheiyangde，aidenanrenyiqianpanbianguozishen。jiusuanneirenzuihouhuiguotoule，dabufenshouguoshangderenyehaipazaidonglexin!

 yuanguyefeichangjiandan，hunyinshenghuozhongyizhiyouyigedadaoli，yiciwaiyu，tongchangjiunengwanquancuihuifuqijiandexinlai。buxiangganyiwangdeganqingshizaitaichengzhi，zhongjiuhunyinshenghuodemudishijianglai。jiusuanmouyirenjianchibuxiezhebashirikaizhanxialai，yebuyidingnengjianchibuxie，yebuyidingnengwanquanquanyuneikeshoushangdexin。zhongjiu，hunwaiqingdetongkujibenshangnanjie，lingrenhennanqiantumimang。

 jianxindahuoercongzhongxiaoxuedeneishihouqi，douzaoyidongleyigedadaoli，fuchujiuyouhuibao!haoxiangyaoshiyigerenyiwangwuqian，buhaipacuobaideyanlidaji，jiumeiyoufandanshidedashan。

 zheiyidadaolihenqiadang，keshizhiyouyongyikeguanzhong。dang“jianchibuxie”liangzibeifangjinlefanzadehunyinshenghuozhong，tebieshizaishihunwailianzhong，tongchangjiubingbushizenmehuishile。

 zhenduizheixiexianghuzaoyimeilexinlaidefufumenlaijiang，duojianchibuxieyifenyimiao，jianghuiquanshiyizhongsunhai。buyaoshuorangtamenyiwangwuqianle，xuduoneishihou，najiashiqiannajiashihoudoufenbuqingchu，zheileihunyinshenghuohetanjixuxiaquya! qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 erzhenduizheixiechuxianlehunwailiandehunyinshenghuolaijiang，jianchibuxiedenanduxishu，jianghuibibuchenggongdenanduxishuyeyaodaxuduobei!miandelianrendewaiyuyubusihuigai，youchengqianshangwanrenzuihousheqilewanliu，tiaoxuanletaosheng。

 yiqiangaozhiguoxuduoyueduzhe，zaihunwailianzhong，bingbushiwaiyuderenshizaitaiwufawanliu，zhishifushangderenmeifazishenzhibing。jiusuanwanliulelingyiban，yehuibansuizhangqidetongxin，zuihousheqihunyinshenghuoderenhuoxushizishen。

2挽留的人非常容易后悔莫及

 xuduohunwailianshiliyizaishuoming，xuduorenjibaileqingdi，jibailehunwailian，quemeiyouzhanshengziwo。xuduorenjinguanwanliulehunyinshenghuo，danshiguozheguozhe，xinlizaicichuxianlebiequ。tamenhouhuimojidangshidewanliu，houhuimojiyiqiande“ruanruo”，houhuimojimeiyouliyi。

 zaochenjiedaoleyiweinvxingdexiexin：woshinizuikaishideyueduzheleba，buqingchuniyaojibuhaijidewo。shangniangangkaishi，woyemeitiandengnishenyekanzhenidewenzhangneirong，buguanduowanwohaidengdai。neidabannianlibian，woweiyidejiezhujiushishuozainidewenbenzhongzhaoxunkuanwei。henhaoyun，wowanliulechuguidelaogong，ganpaoleneinvren，hunyinshenghuoyexiufuleningjing。

 rujin，beijudeshieryeruqierzhi，wohouhuimojidangshimeitingnidehua，houhuimojizishenyiqiantairuanruo。rujinjinguantayijianshisuanshinenggou，kemeiyicixiangdaozheixieshier，woyoucongtoukaishiganjuetahenwuzhuo。woyulaiyuganjuezishenhenbuqizuoyong，weihemeiyoujinzaoliyi?

 wohenhenziji，buyuanhetayiguo。jishilihunzhihouyibeizilaosi，yebuyuanshouzaitashenpang。niyeshixintaishi，wozhenxinshiyiqingjiao，tashiyizhongnaxiexintaizhuangtaia?

jiuzheilishuoyixiazheiyinantiba，wojideniya，henbaoqianzheijitianqueshimeikongdulijieshi，guolejirikeyile。

tashiyizhongnaxiexintaizhuangtaini?huoxuhewaiyuderenyiyangdexintaizhuangtai，yejiaopannidexintaizhuangtai。

 congshehuixintaixueshangeryan，meilijingsiweiduanlianderen，qinggandefazhishijishangshidongtaixingqifude。huanjuhuashuo，youyukeguandecunyou，yigerenduiqinggandeqidaizhishiyizhizaibianhuade。

 dangshikanzhehunyinshenghuoyaoliekai，yexuquebuxianglihun，neimajiunengjienajuedaduoshupingchangbukeyijienadeshier。jiusuanxinliyouzaihaodebiequhetongchu，duinieryan，yaoshinengwanhuilaogong，doushizuigaide。

 danshidangqingganjianjiandiquyuwendingdeneishihou，ruguonizhenshiwanliulezhangfuyihou，jiuzaiyebuhuidangshi“hunyinshenghuojiangyaowanbi”detongkuganle。duinieryan，huoxuyiqianshangdetaishen，duizhangfumeiyouxinlaile。zheiyangdeshiqingxia，xiangliyiyejiubuqiguaile。

 keshihunyinshenghuobukeyijiaozongya，jiaruwanliuyihouhainengxunzhaoyisiyihaodeyiqiandeganqingdejuede，jiubukeyisuibianliyi。qinggannenggoujianjiandisuzaohuijia，jinliangduodiwangdiaoyiduanjiushiba。

3一位挽回妻子男生的痛楚

bulunshigongzuozhong，huanshixiewangluowenzhang，yizhishiquanhebuquanzude。jiusuanshipengdaolehunwailianderen，yinweiwoquanrenwanqiang。

 danshixuduozhuangkuangxia，beilingyibansunhaiguoshenderen，jingchanghuizaiwanliuyihoumeiduojiu，jijiwanbizheiyiduanhaojuebuwanliudehunyinshenghuo。

 yiner，yiqianyouguoguiderenyidingyaogaoqingchuzheiyidadaoli：dangnihunneichuguidelianrenshiyiweigangzhengbuaqiexurongxinhenqiangderen，jiusuannihuiguotoule，weilaiyebuyidingjiunengguodetashi，jianghuibushinishuolesuanle。

 hunyinshenghuozhongyixiebuzhengqueyidanchuxian，huoxuzhinengweiyidexiachang。xiangrangzishendehunyinshenghuogengxingfukuaile，nenggoulihunzhihouzaizhao，keshizuishaozuishaodedaodedixianyidingyaogaoqingchu，bukeyiwaiyu，yicidoubuhao!

jigeweikanyigehunwailianshili：tayiqianwanliulechuguidelaopo，danshiyinianhou，tayoutiaoxuanleliyi。

 tashuoguoyijuhua：woneishihoutaitianzhenle，yixiebuzhengquequeshishiyishengdetongku。yaoshitahaijiuzaiwoshenbian，jiuhuiyaowoyizhitongxialai。jiusuanhuiguotoudetabizhiqiangengaini，yinweiwobuyuanjienatale。

 shuoyifanhuaderenshiyiwei33suidenanxing，zhongwutayuwolingjuliliaowan，jiujiaotahuxianshengba。huxianshengwanliulewaiyu2niandelaopo，erwanliuyinianhou，tajijitiaoxuanleliyi。

 huxianshengshuo：xifuchuguiyihouxiangyuwoliyi，neishihouwohendanxin，yehenbiequ，zhongjiuyemeiyouqinshenjingliguozheiyangdeshiqing。shijishang，yinweiwocongweixiangguozishenhuipengdaozheiyangdeshiqing，taibeitongle。wunianqian，laopoyibianzuowodexinniang，ganyuanhetadebabamamanaojiang，wofangzhitayijianshideaiyouduoshen。yemeiyoucuoguotadeai，jiehunhouduitafeichanghao。

danshiwaiyuhou，taqueyibianneigerenganyuanyuwonaojiang!yiyangdegushiqingjie，cicidaowobianchengduishou。

 woqiutahuiguotoudeneishihou，tashuobuainile，qidaiwomanzuta。woyaoquzhaoneigerenjichulilundeneishihou，tajuranwanquanfennule，yidianzizunyebubangwoliu。taheneigerenhezhehuolaisunhaiwo，tashuobuguanzenyangbixuyuwoliyi，tahaishuowobupeiaita。

 woxinnengbutengma，yibianwomendehaizi，weilehaizidezizun，wohaipazaiquzhaoneigerenjichulilun，yehaipahelaopozhengchao。buguantayelijigedianhuijia，wohaihaipawenta，yehaipapengta。zheixietongchubieshuoleba，yidingxuduorengaoqingchude。

4一些挽留就是说难熬

 huxianshengshuo：wojiushizheiyangshuzheshirijianjiandinanao，neishihouwoxinlinaizhiyouguoyigeniantou，yibianhunyinshenghuohezizun，woyuanjienaneigeren，xiangyaozhengzhiyanbiyizhiyan。yaoshitabuliyi，gaizenmebandoukeyi!

 jinguanrenmenmeiliyi，danshinei2nianwoguoderenburenguibugui。zaiwaibian、zaixiaohuobanmenyanqian，wojiazhuangjiatinghemu，jiazhuanglaopoyiranhenxianshu，woparenduanzi。qijinxiangdaoyiduanjiushi，wohainanyishihuaizishenderuanruo!

 yinianhou，neigerenbubitale，batapaoxiale。tayidinghenhouhuimoji，jinguanzuibianzongshuoyuwohuodehaoleile，erwoyegaoqingchu，taxiangzhongguijiazhongle，taxiangzhaogeloutixia。

wohaoburongyimairulezuihoudehuosheng，worenweiwohenxingfu，queshijiushishuoshiliandeganjue。

 caiduanduandeyiniandeshijian，woyehouhuimojilea。hunyinshenghuoxiufulaidaozhiqiandeneileiqingkuang，danshiwoxinyibushidangshideneikexinle。duanzanxingdexingfukuaileyihou，womairuletongku。meiyiciwuyijiandexiaochaoxiaonao，dounengyaowoxiangdaodangshitayijianshidesunhai。

 womingbaitayizhizaipeichangwo，yizhizaikuijiu，jishiyoushihouzhengchaodeneishihou，yeyizhitadaotui。kewohennanbuganjuetaxianshule，yiqiantaneimasunhaiwo，takecenglejienei2nianshijian，woxinzaoyichuxianleliefeng，hennanfangbujintale!

qianduanshijianwoshuota，worangninaxiedepeichang，nixiangyaoyuwoliyi?

tashuo，nifenglema，womenguodehaohaodide，linaxiehuna?

 wojiangchulewodebiequhetongchu，womenqueshiguodehaohaodidema?huoxuniwangjile，niyaoxixinxiangyixiang，niyijianshidesunhaishiyongjiuxingdea!wojinguanhaiaini，erwodexurongxintaiqiangle，yuanliangwomeifajienani，meifayunibaitoudaolao。congnimishangneigerengangkaishi，womenzhongjianjiuzaoyimeilejianglai，guaizijigaoqingchudetaichi。

 wodougaozhita，wodezizunlijinglesanniandejuexing，haoburongyiwanquanxingguolaihuilai。wogaozhita，niyaojilao，youyigerenyiqianshenshenaiguoni，taniyishengzuichengzhideai，yexupaoxiale。wobuganaixialaile，quzhaozheifenairenba，buguantadaodishisheini，wobuhuirongxutajiushiwo。

5不外遇是婚姻生活的道德底线

 huxianshenglilehun，ganjuejinguanhenkeshi，keshiduitaeryan，weicengbingbushihaoshier。jiarutabuqinshenjinglineimeyiduanquanguocheng，huoxutashizhongburongyikuanrongzishen。

 tongshiquanleta，jiarubiequxiaochule，jinzaofuhunba。shubuzhitajiushuolelingyifanhua，tashuoyouyigelihunnvrenzaidengta，liangrenzaoyiyongyouqinggan。tahaishuo，buguanzenyang，ciciliyibuzhunbeizaihunle。

 zuizhongjiangjiangyijuba：yibanlaishuo，hunyinshenghuozhongyixienantishiyiqiezhengchangde，meiyoucaiyichang。danshirenmenyoubudebuchengren，youyixienantijingchangnanjie!rutongxuduohunwailian，xuduoshuobailedewanliu，huoxujinjinyouyulinshideshebude。

 shijishang，xuduowanliuderendouhehuxianshengdezhuangkuangxiangjin，xinliyirantongchu。ganjue，meiyiciwanliudouburongyi，buyaozaidusunhaizishen。nengbuliyide，jinkenengjinliangbuyaoliyi。ruguonijianchibuxieleyiduanshijian，yekeyijianjiandixiufuyiqiandeqinggan。

 danshirenmenyoubudebuchengren，waiyushihunyinshenghuozhongjiaodadebuzhengque。haohaodiaixihunyinshenghuoderen，hunyinshenghuoyeyidingburongyigufuni。buwaiyu，caisuanshiduihunyinshenghuozuiguanjiandekeshou。