正常吗同性恋，我们都是平等的

 qianliangtianyipian《zhalangnihao，woshi tongxinglian 》dewenzhangzaipengyouquanshualeping。shifadeyuanyinshiyinweixinlangfabuyigexinguiding：“shehuangde、xuanyangxuexingbaoli、tongxinglianticaidemanhuajituwenduanshipinneirong，rubaohanyixiatezhengdeneirong：“fu、ji、danmei、benzi”zhiyaoshejidaoyishangde，doulieweiweiguineirong。yeyinci，tongxinglianzheigehuatizhongxinbeiladaoxianshizhong。henduorenzaizhuanfawenzhangdetongshishengtaozhe，zheishilishichelundedaotui，zaiqitaguojialuluxuxuchengrentongxingliandeshihou。womenjuranhaibazheigehuatilieweiweijin。neimetongxinglianshibingma？zhengchangmatongxinglian？

一、同性恋是天生的吗？

 zaizhiqianwomenhuitingguoyizhongyanlunshuo，henduotongxinglianshitianshengde，shijiyinsuodailaiwufagaibian。danshijishangzhendeshirucima？tongxinglianshibingma？zhengchangmatongxinglian？meiguojingshenbingxuexiehui（american psychiatric association）zaizongheledaliangyanjiuwenxianhouzhichu，wulunshiyichuan、heermeng、shenjingfayu、shehuibianhuahewenhuayinsudengdengdoubunengwanquanjieshitongxingliandefasheng，zheishiduozhongyinsugongtongzuoyongdejieguo，zheixieyinsudeyingxiangliyinreneryi，shenzhiheshidaidouyouhendadeguanxi。

 shehuihuiyinweitongxinglianhuigaima？tongxinglianshitianshengdeyanjiumingtishijiyuzheishiyizhongbujiankangdezhuangtai，ersuizheshehuidefazhan，dajiazhujianrenwei，zhichitongxingliancaishizhengzhizhengque，caishiwenhuajinbudetixian。erruguoshehuixiangfan，burentongtongxinglian，neimetongxinglianhuigaima？zhideshensi。

 yizhiyuyuelaiyueduoderenkaishimohuzijidexingquxiang，yidanquedingzijibukangjutongxingdeshihou，jiukaixinneixinanshi，zijishitongxinglian，xihuantongxing，zheishitiansheng。danqishi，jiugendaodichulenatianshengzuoweijiekou，gengduorenyinggaichengrendeshi，jiusuanshitongxinglian，shijiyuzijizuoweidulirendexuanze。yourenhuiwenzhengchangmatongxinglian？dangranzhengchangya，xuanzetongxingzuoweibanlv，shiyinweiai，aiconglaimeiyoubianjiehexianding。

二、不是同性恋的人都好看。

 xianzaiyouzhongyanlun，zhangdehaokandenansheng，douhuishuotashibushitongxinglian。zhangdemandenvsheng，yehuibeirenweihenkushitongxinglian。shouxianbixuxianzhengshiyigecuowuderenzhi。bushisuoyoutongxingliandouhaokan，xingquxianghewaimao，meiyouguanxi！bayanzhihexingquxiangjiehezaiyiqideren，bushichunjiushiwuzhi。nikenengbuhuizhidaonisuikouyishuoduineigerenzaorenduodadeshanghai，erduiyuwangluobaominlaijiang，kandaoyiduitongxinglian，ruguozhangdebuhaokan。dixiadepinglunyongyuanshi：zhangdezheiyanghaishitongxinglian，zhendekelian。tongxinglianshibingma？wodiyicijiandaozheijuhuadeshihoudianlejubao，wowufaxiangxiangdaodishineixinduomeyinanderencaihuiyouzheiyangdexiangfa。

 danlingwogandaowulideshihou，youzheiyangxiangfaderenyidiandoubushao。wangluoshangchuxianzaidajiamianqiandetongxinglianyanzhiconglaibudi，yushihuzaochengbulejiederendouyiwei，zhangdehaokandetongxingliancaizhidezhichi，buhaokandedoushizijizuo。ruguojieshoutongxinglianderenshizheiyangdexintai，wojuedenikeyixuanzefandui。renyunyiyunderen，zhihuibianchengwuhezhizhongjiaoluanqianrendenuli。

三、同性是真爱吗？

 wuluntongxingyixingshuangxing，aijiushiai，meiyouxingbiezhifen。wocengjingwenguoyigetongxinglianpengyou，duiyutadebanlvtadeganshoushishenme？pengyouzhidaowoshirenzhenwen，tayexianglehenjiucaihuidalewo，duitadehuidawozhijinhaiyinxiangshenke：“paochudiaoshehuiduiwomendeqishi，paochuxing，shuoshihuaduiyuwolaishuo，lingwaiyibandecunzaijiushidangwokaixinnanguodeshihou，wodouhuixianghetafenxiang。erqiewoyehenxihuanyutadaizaiyiqideshijian。”dangwobazheiduanhuaduizhaozaizijishenshangdeshihou，faxianzheihewoduinvpengyoudeqidai，bushidouyiyangma？zhishiwoxihuandeduixiangshinvxing，taxihuandeshinanxing。danaijiushiai，conglaibuhuiyinweizaitidebutongerbianyi。zhiyuyizhizaiwen，tongxingshifouzhenaideren，yinggaixianwenwenziji，shibushiwuzhi。

四、尊重同性恋

 tongxinglianderenyebuxihuanshibushijiubeidazhongjiuchulaipinglunyifan，shenmetongxinglianshibingmazhurudewenti，wogankendingdegaosuni，tabingbushiyizhongbing，womenyinggaizunzhongta。worenzuoweichengnianrenyouziyouxuanzelianaimoshidequanli。danwulunhezhongxuanze，conggetidaoshehui，douyingxuehuizunzhong。zheicaishilishidechaoliu。