youhenduorenwen tongxinglian duoma?tongxinglianhaoma?turanjianwobuzhidaozenmehuidanidewenti。bingbushiwoxinlimeidaan,ershiwojuezheixiewentidoushimeiyouqueqiededaande。youderenhuishuo,wokeyibuxihuantongxinglianya,wotianshengjiushibuxihuanya。weishenmeyaobiwoxihuanni?womenxiangxiang,zheigewentiweishenmehuiyinqiwangyoumenderelietaolunni?jiaruwomenbawentihuancheng:“wobuxihuanchidasuan,youcuoma?“jieguohuizenmeyang?
一、萝卜白菜,各有所爱
tongxinglianhaoma?wozhinengshuomeigerendouyouzijidexihao,zheibenmeiyoucuo。biru,youderenxihuanchidasuan,youderenjiuhentaoyanneigudasuandeweidao。
dajiazhidao,nanfangrenjiuhenshaoshengchidasuantoude,jidezaiqingdaoshangdaxuedeshihou,zaixuexiaomenkoukanjianyourenmaidasuantou,dangshijiujuedehenqiguai,chuyuhaoqixin,yexuezhebolegeyaoleyikou,neigejiaolaxinya,congci,zaiyebuganpengzheiwanyile。houlai,yejiushi90niandaichu,xuexiaozuzhidaoshanghaibaogangshixi。ganghaoyouyitianwanshangyouqiusai,neigeshihoudianshijibuxiangxianzaizheimepubian,zhudedifangzhiyouyigedadianshiting,qudeshihoufaxianlimianzuomanleren。wodejigetongxuejiushijingwangqianji,jibenshangdoukuaitiezhedianshijile。
qiguaideshi,yuanlaizaiqianmianzuozhederenmanmandouchuqule,zhongchangxiuxiwanhou,woneijigetongxuejingranqiaozheerlangtuizuodaoleqianpaizuizhongjiandejigeweizhishang。houlaiyougetongxuegaosulewoqizhongdeyuanyin,neijigetongxuekanjianrenduomeiyouweizhi,jiuhuiquchilejigedasuantou,ranhouguyipaodaoqianmianhudaqi,jieguoyouxierenshizaishoubulejiupaole。shexiangyixia,ruguodangshineixierenshoubuledasuanqiweiderenjiaoxiaoshuo“wojiubuxihuanchidasuanderen”,kenengjiuhuichuxianxianshibandelonghudoule。wobushizantongwoneijigetongxuedezuofa,zhishixiangshuo,jiuxiangzhenduitongxingliandewenti,niwentongxinlianhaoma?woyidiandoubuxihuan,danqishinixibuxihuanbuzhongyao,zhongyaodeshibierenzaibuzaihu。
二、任何的自由都应该有个度。
youxietaoyantongxinglianderenlaoshihuiwenwomenshenbiantongxinlianduoma?youtongxinglianma?you,duo,danzheixiegenniyoushenmeguanxini?dajiadeshenghuodoubuyiyang,xiangshuochunibuxihuandekanfama?suizheshehuidejinbu,meigerendeyanlungengjiaziyoule,keyiziyoudibiaodazijidexiangfaheyijian。danrenhedeziyoudouyougedu,jiao“ziyoudu”。zheigedujiushifalv、daode、fengsuxiguanhezuorendejibenyuanzejidixian。“cunzaijiushiheli”,nikeyibuxihuanmoujianshi,mougerenhuomouleiren,dantadequejiucunzai,rutongxinglian,tongxinglianhaoma?tongxinglianduoma?jirannibuxihuan,hebiwenneimeduoni?nibuxihuanshinideshiqing。womentichanghexieshehui,erhexieshehuizuixuyaodejiushikuanrong,shiqiudatongcunxiaoyi。qingkangxinianjian,zhangyingdanrenwenhuadiandaxueshijianlibushangshu。talaojiatongchengdeguandiyuwujiaweilin,liangjiayuanluozhijianyoutiaoxiangzi,gongshuangfangchurushiyong。houlaiwujiayaojianxinfang,xiangzhanzheitiaolu,zhangjiarenbutongyi。shuangfangzhengzhibuxia,jiangguansidadaodangdixianya。xianguankaolvdaoliangjiarendoushimingmenwangzu,buganqingyileduan。
zheishi,zhangjiarenyiqizhixiaxiefengjiajixinsongjizhangying,yaoqiutachumianjiejue。zhangyingkanlexinhou,renweiyinggaiqianranglinli,tazaijijialidehuixinzhongxielesijuhua:qianlilaishuzhiweiqiang,rangtasanchiyouhefang?wanlizhangchengjinyouzai,bujiandangnianqinshihuang。jiarenyueba,mingbaiqizhonghanyi,zhudongrangchusanchikongdi。wujiajianzhuang,shenshougandong,yezhudongrangchusanchifangjidi,“liuchixiang”youcideming。
三、言论自由,意愿表达,请注意场合。
youxieshi,nikeyixiang(nibuxihuanjiufangxinli),keyizuo(buxihuan,nijiuyuanli),danshibunengshuo,ruguoshizaiguanbuzhunidezui,neiyeyaozhuyichanghe,jinliangbuyaoshanghaidaoneixiemeiyoushanghaiguoni、shenzhiyunihaowuguanxideren。
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