情感咨询：如何走出失恋困境

 budebuchengren，nvxingshigeqingxubuwendingxiaodongwu，zuichibuxiao shilianxintai zhiliaodeshi，wojuede，huanshiqinshenjinglideguoshao，xintaizhuangtaijiaoweimingan，renshengdaolubixuqinshenjinglibeixi，douquanshizhenshirenshengyingdangxiangyoudaode，nimeinongcuo，shixiangyou，nu，jianghuiwomenyiqijiandaoshiqinghuaideyibian，aiwomenyiqimingbaixingfukuaile。

情感咨询

 wohenxiangduitamenshuo，shilianxintaizhiliaozheixiedoushixiaowentide，jiudanglaiyihuilijiale，shundaixiaojiexiafenshouhoudeyuangu。jinguannenggouneimejiandan，danwodoubukeyineimeshuo。

 tongchuzishen jinjinyishizhuxingrangwomenfade1geshujuxinhao，shiyaogaozhirenmen：butaihaochanshengle，renmenyingdangqugenggai。jiarujinjinyixinqinfendequjianshaotongchu、duobitongchu，neibianshizaiduobinantizishen ，zheihenbulixintaizhuangtaichengcai。

 dongyishizhuxingderen，daziranmingbaisoujigongzuojingyan，chengcaizishen。danjiuyouderen，youyuqingganwentierzijinde，zheizhongyouzijinderen，dabufendouzaodaozhegezhonggeyangtongchuhechaimode。shubuzhi，bingfeigenjujiangditongchujiunenggourangzijidujuezijin，zaicixiufuxinlijiankang。

 yiban，renmentongchudeneishihou，shouweifanyingshijianshaotongchu，taochutongchu。jinjin，tongchuzishen jinjin1geshujuxinhao，shigaozhirenmen，nantichanshengle，renmenyingdanggenggai。jiarujinjinqinfenjianshaotongchu，duobitongchu，jiushishuozaiduobinantizishen ，zheibulirenmenxintaizhuangtaidechengcai，zhihouhaihuishouqimouhai。

 zheihelailalijiajingtongdedadaolixiangtong，duzitongshi，dafutongchangbutiyixianfushizhitengyao，youyuneihuirangrentifama，rangdafuwufachayandaoshinaerchanshenglebianbing，jinermeifazheshouyizhi。xianeryijiantongtengbingbushishouweiguanjiannanti，rentidechanshengbianbingdebuweiheyuangusuanshizuiguanjiande。xintaizhuangtaitongchudeshijiyiyidoushixiangtongde。

 richangshenghuo，meizheizhongxintaizhuangtaidetongchuquanshigengyouyiyide。renmennenggouyouwushuzhongfangshijianshaotongchu、duobitongchu，liru：laizheichanglanzuirunilailinshibikaitongchu，danzhenshijiejuekunnandefangshizhinengzheizhong：mianduitongchu，lejietongchudeshijiyiyi，lijienantidelaiyuanyu，bingcongerchengcai，yuelaiyuedegengweiwanqiangheyibusuibianfancuowu，shixintaizhuangtaitongchuyingdangyoudeganshou。neixinzhongjiuyaozaiwaishangzhongxiangqian。

neima，qingganzixunzaichanshengxintaijiankangwentishi，renmenzenyangtaoshengni?

zaici，shiyongwuzhihongjiaoshidesanjujingdianxiaojie：

1、jienaxintaijiankangwenti，daizhunidexintaijiankangwentiqujijizhudongyishizhuxing;

2、changkaixinfei，zhaoxunnishenpangdeyeyuzudafu;

3、lejiebieren，zishenquzuoyiweihaodeyeyuzudafu。

tongchujinjinxintaijiankangwentideshujuxinhao，mianduinantinenggoujiangditongchu。

 wojuede，xiangduixingyuchulixintaijiankangwenti，haoxiangnvhaigengyoufangfa，tamenfeichangrongyidejiunengjianshaoxintaijiankangwentichanshengdegongzuoyali，tamenhuilijixunzhaohaoguimihezuigaixinlaidepenyou，datantetanzishendebeijuhegongzuoyali，jinershifangyali，danxianeryijianzheibingbushishigehaofangfa，jinguanchuliledangjindegongzuoyali，danbulizhihouneixindechengcai

 zhenduixintaijiankangwenti，yihuiqudechenggongdeduobi，zhihou，hejianghuihuiyinglaidaliangneiyangdexintaijiankangwenti。tongchangnanhaizitaobixintainantishi，jiuaibazishenguanrumianbiwuli，yidakouyidakoudetianxichuangkou，zhizhibuneimatengle，caihuizouchuqu，tamenyebuhaipaneiyangtianrangchuangkouzaiciganqi。

 bixutishideshi：zhongjiububirenweinidenantishiyuzhongbutong，weiyide，yezhongjiububirenweiniyeshizuibeijude。shijizhong，jibenshangsuoyouren，baohanshenpangdelianrenpenyou，dounanmianhuidiyouxintaijiankangwenti

 jinjinbierenmeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchuqubale，yonglaonianrendejijulaohua“xingzoubudapentiderenquanshishanren”，bieyiweibugankebutanxidedouguodefeichanghao，qishibushi，dahuoerdouhuimomodidetihuizhexintaizhuangtaidegongzuoyalihuoshitongchu，xuexipeixunzhexinxinxiangqiande。

 taiguotongchuyouyurenmenbuzhangwotongchu，zheileimoshengrenhaichanshenglehaipa，ertaitongchuyouhuizaochengrenmentiaoxuanduobitongchuhehaipatongchu，zuizhong，renmenhushilenantidezishen ，naizhijuedeneijiushizishendebeiju，jiqiediyuanyiqingchutongchu

 yinerzaochengleyilianchuanxintaijiankangwenti。yeyaodaizhuxintaijiankangwentiquyishizhuxing，renmenzhinenggenggaimouxiexiayishidebuzhengquerenzhinengli，gaoqingchutongchuyunantideguanlian，nenggougengqiangdeyizhixintaijiankangwenti，yibushouqihai。

meiqinshenjinglimeiduanganqing，douwomenyiqixuehaoruhequai，erbingbushixuehaozenyangbaituoxintaizhuangtaitongchu。