走不出失恋的阴影，失恋是什么感觉

 shilianshishenmeganjue？yigezhengchangrencongshiliandaozouchuzheiduanganqingxuyaoduozhangshijian？daanshi28tian。genjuduirenleishentigongnengdeyanjiu，renleideqingxubianhuazhouqiyuewei28tian。suoyizheibiaoming，wulunnijinglileduomebeishanghekuaile，28tianhou，nideshentigongnengdouhuirangnibaituozheizhongqingxu。

 yinweiyidanrenmenzhangshijianchuyuyouyuhuoxingfenzhuangtai，danaojiuhuibuyouzizhudiganzhidaozheizhongweixiandexinhao，zheihuidaozhishishuihebaoyinbaoshi，congerbangzhunidadaozhiyudemude。

yinci，duiyushilianzheigewenti，nihesuoyouzhengchangrenyiyang，nibingmeiyouxiangxiangzhongneimechiqing。

 danshiweishenmehenduorenzaijinglile28tiandeshilianqizhihou，quemeiyouchulaini？jishijinglile28tiandejici，jishiciyebunengwangji？

shishishang，bushiyinweishilianerhuanshanglejingshenjibing，ershiyinweinibuxiangchuqu，jincieryi。zizuozishou，wuyaokejiu。

nidefumianqingxujiuxiangyigelaofang，dangzheigelaofangzhangshijiankongzhizhenideqingxushi，nidedanaohuibuzijuedixiangbanituichuqu。

 liru，dangnichengshoujudadeyalishi，nixiangtongguoyulehuoshuimianlaishifangyali；dangnixinqingbuhaoshi，nihuiqingbuzijindichitianshi。shilianhou，nidedanaohuijinlibangzhuni，xiwangzaicizhenzuoqilai。danshinizijini？

 dangnixinglaishi，nichongmanlejingshen，danzaizheigeshihou，nibuhuisi。nibixuchumofengjing，shanghaiziji，huiyiqinihenideqianrendediandiandidi。dangnideqingxujijianghuifuzhengchangshi，nijiuqukankanniqianrendepengyouquan。cishicike，nideqingxuwanquanhuidaoleshiliandexiaojiqingxuzhong。

ranhou，28tiandexinyilun，rangnideqingxuxianruwuxiandeexingxunhuan。

 xianran，nideqianrengenbenmeiyouyongrenhefenshoulaijinuni。xiangfan，niyiciyouyicidibaoluzijideshangba，rangzijikanqilaixiangyigechimidehaohaizi。shishishang，zheizhishiyibuyounizijidaoyanhebiaoyandetongkuju。

weishenmezhangshijianbunengzouchushiliandeqingxu？wokenengbuyuanyichengrenzheijuhua——yinweinizijideshenghuotaixianle。

 zhengtianpengtougoumian，qingxudiluo，buyuanyizuorenheshiqing，duijiechurenheshiqingdoumeiyouxingqu；dangniwushikezuoshi，nizhinengbazijisuozaijiali，zhengtianyongyanleixilian，gandongziji，jiuhaoxiangnishiquleneigeren，nijiushiqulezhenggeshijie；qieduanyupengyouheqinqidesuoyoushejiaohuodong，zhengtiandingzheqianrendetouxiang，dakaiqianrendedongtaijiankong。shilianshishenmeganjue？

 jiuzheiyang，nishuonizenmenengchulai？gengcankudeshi，jishinixiangrangnideqianrengaibianzhuyi，huidaonishenbian。danduiyuzheiyangyigeni，nideqianrenyoushenmeyongqishuofuzijiyunizhongdaofuzhe？

 meitianbazijiyigerenguanzaifangzili，yushigejue，sihuzaiziyu，danshishishinideqingxuyizhichenjinzaishilianzhong，genbenmeiyouzhuanyi。

 dangniwusuoshishishi，daozhiqianglieqingxubodongdeyinsu，birushilian，ziranhuizaicichuxianzainideshijieli。huozhemeitianfangzongzijideyuwang，zhengyewanyouxi，sihushizaizhuanyizhuyili，danshishishang，niyueshiguozhetuifeideshenghuo，nijiuyueyanjuanxianzhuang。

rujintuifeideshenghuoyuguoqumeihaodehuiyixingchenglezirandeduibi，neimenisinianqianrendexinqingjiuhuiyuelaiyuenanyipingjingxialai。

 nirenweisuizheshijiandetuiyi，dangsuoyoudechenailuodingshi，nikeyizouchushiliandeyinmai。danshishishi，niyizhizaiqiangpozijishenghuozaishiliandeyinyingxia，congbufangkaiziji。shilianhuirangrenshangyin。

 nikeyiyiciyouyicidiyongshilianzuoweinijusangdejiekou，nikeyiyongbufangshouzuoweinibuduantaobishenghuodeliyou。zheigeguochengkanqilaihentongku，danshishishangnideshenghuohenshushi。lixiang、shenghuoshenzhiziwokenengbuzhideyiti，yinweinixinzhongdeshilian。

 yigerenzuihaipadejiushizhaodaoyigerangzijiyuanyiduoluodeliyou，bingqieyongyuanxiangxinzheigeliyou，congershizijiyiciyouyicididuoluo。

 wenwenziji，sheizaochenglezhengtidejusanghebukuaile？bushinideqianren，tabuzaishuyunideshenghuo，nimenzhijianmeiyoukeneng。zhenzhengzaojiuzheiyangderenqishijiushiniziji。

 shilianhou，nibixurangzijijieshouyijianshi：“suiranshiquaiqingqueshishiyijiantongkudeshiqing，danaiqingzhishishenghuodeyixiaobufen。zainizijideshijieli，bujinyouai，haiyoulixiang、ziwoheshenghuodengzheniqushixian。”

 zaihenduoqingkuangxia，nihuijuede“shiquyigerenhou，dabufenqingxudouwufadedaomanzu”danshishibingfeiruci，aiqingyongyuanbuhuiwuyuanwugudixiaoshi，zhihuicongyiqiandemubiaozhuanyidaoxiayigemubiao。

 shishishang，nideqianrenshiyigejianglaibuhuiaishangnideren，yuniwuguan。ruguonibasuoyoudejinglidoufangzainideqianrenshenshang，neizhihuizengjianidetongku，jieguojiangshitulaode。

 jiranshizheiyangdejieguo，weishenmebubazheifenaihereqingbianchengduizijideaini？nirenweishilianhou，nibuzaiyouanquangan。danshishishi“ni80%deanquanganlaiziniziji”nuligongzuozhuanqian，tigaoshenghuozhiliang，zuyiqudaiyiqianbanlvjinidedongxi。

 ninirenweishilianzhihou，nilvle。danshishishi，“jiating，pengyou，shenzhidulideziji”keyimanzuyigerenduipeibandexuqiu，danshiniconglaimeiyouchangshiguo。

 nijuedeshilianhouhennanzhaodaorenshengdeyiyima？danshishishi“renshengdeyiyi，yinggaishishixianziwojiazhidetisheng，dedaorenmendezunzhong。”dangnidegerenjiazhidedaotishengherenkeshi，zouchushilianshiyishunjiandeshi。

 zuikepadeshi，shilianhou，nibunuligongzuo，bunengwandekaixin，bunengxuexi，bunengzhuiqiulixiang。rangzijizhengtianguozhelanduodeshenghuozhendehentongku，danshishishang，nixihuanzheizhongzibaoziqideganjue。

suoyibushinizoubuchushilian，zhishiyinweinideshenghuotaishushi，taiyouxian，buxiangrangzijizouchuzheigeshushiqu。

nixinlizhendefangbuxiaqianrenma？bu，qishinifangqizijideyuanyinshiyinweiyigebuaizijideqianren。

 fenshouhou，nibuduananshiziji“shiqudecaishizuihaode”zaizheizhonganshixia，nizenmenengqidaiweilai，gengbuyongshuonulitishengziwojiazhi，rangzijipeideshanggenghaoderen？

 “sheihuodeyuecha，fenshouhoujiuyuehouhui；sheiyuehao，fenshouhouyuexiaosa。”zheijuhuatingqilaihengongli，dantashirenxingzuizhenshideyimian。dangnizuochugengduogenghaodexuanzeshi，nijiubuhuihuitouqujiannicengjingfangqidedongxi。kenenghuiyouhuaijiudeganjue，danhuaijiuzhishihuaijiu，danbuzhidezaihuitou。

 juyigefeichangxianshidelizi：dangniwozhedili·leibadeshoushi，nibuhuixiangdaopaoqinideqiannvyou。dangnitangzaipengyupengyuyandexiongbujiroushangshi，niziranbuhuixiangdaochuguinideqiannanyou。

 niwufabaituoshiliandeyinying，dannideqianrenshenghuodehenxiaosa，zhishiyinweitazhaodaolebinigenghaodetidaipin，dannibuneng。dangninenggoubuduantigaoziwojiazhi，peideshangyigebinideqianrengenghaoderenshi，nikeyizaishunjianbaituoshilian。

 youjuhuanikenengbuxiangting，danwohaishiyaoshuo：“niyongyuanbuhuixiangdaopaoqinideqianrennengjinidailaiduoshaoliliang。nuligongzuo，nulixuexi，nulizhuanqian。

 dangnidejiazhiyuanyuanchaoguoqianren，zouchushiliandeshunjian。”nimeiyouxiangxiangzhongneimechiqing，28tianjiuzuyibaituoshilian。jiwangbujiu，haohaoaiziji。neigerenbuzhidenijixuxindong。

shilianshishenmeganjue？ruguonengzhunquepanduanlianggerendexingweihezhuangtai，jiunengyouxiaodibimianyixiewenti。