因为如何安慰失恋的人

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yi、ruheanweishilianderen

1、不要着急着安慰

 pengyoushilianlegaizenmeban？zheishigejingchangbeiwendaodewenti，neimewomengairuheanweishilianderenni？henduorenzaikandaoshiliandepengyouyiku，zijijiuhuangle，jiumashangquanweiduifang，shuoshenmebuyaoku，nibuyongzheiyangde，huozheshuoqitadedadaolidoushimeishenmeyongde。ruheanweishilianderen，xianzaiwojidajiayijianyi。

2、zaishenbianjingjingdepeiban

 anweishilianderen，xuyaozaitashenbianjingjingpeiban，rangtashaokanshilianwenzhang，yinweishilianwenzhanghenrongyijiqitadeqingxu。keyijingjingdezuozaiduifangdepangbian，buqushuohuabuqudarao，rangduifangjinqingdekuchuqu，buguozheishihouxuyaozhunbeizugouduodezhijin，huozhejiejianbangjiduifangyexing。ranhoujinliangzhaoyigechengrenshiliandefangfajita。yinweiyigejiazhuangbuzhidaozijishilianshihenkepade，zheijiaozhimibuwu，shifenpianji，suoyiyaozhaoyigechengrenshiliandefangfa。

3、yindaoduifangjinqingdekuchulai

 dangpengyoushilianle，womenkeyitongguoyuyanyindaorangduifangbashiqingdejingguohuozhefenshoudeyuanyinshuochulai，xiangxinduifangzaisushuodeguochengzhongkendinghuirenbuzhudekuchulaihuozheliulei，zheishihoukeyijiayoutiancu，chudaoduifangdetongchu，rangduifangkeyijinqingdekuchulai，kuguozhihouyehuishunjiantongkuaibushao。>> 10daowanhuiceshiti：cenimendefuhejihuidabuda

4、xuyaobuduandekendingduifang

 xuyaozhanzaiduifangdejiaoduqutiduifangzhexiang，zaiduifangtidaojutimouxieshideshihou，jishidejiyuduifangkendinghezanyang，renkeduifang，tongshikeshidangdebiandiduifangdelianren，rangduifangjuedenidongta/ta。

5、yongshenbiandelizilaikaidaoduifang

 yigenduifangjushenbiandelizilaikaidaoduifang，birusheisheisheishangzhouyegensheisheifenshoule，huozhenagegenneigeyinweishenmeyuanyinyezoubuxiaqulezhileide，rangduifangjuedechengshouzheshiliantongkudebuzhita/tayige，juedeyouneimeduorengenzijiyiyangshi，neizhongweishenmetongkudeshiwo？weishenmeshiliannanshoudeshiwo？deyiwenhetongkuyehuimanmanjianqing。

6、zuoyixierangduifangzhuanyizhuyilideshi

 haikeyizuoyixierangduifangzhuanyizhuyilideshi，ruguoduifangshinvsheng，niyeshinvshengdehua，keyiyueshangduifanggenniyiqiquguangjie、gouwu，ruguoduifangshinansheng，niyeshinanshengdehua，keyiyueduifangquhejiu、yundong，dayouxi，ruguonimenlianggeshiyixingdehua，haishiyiqiquchigefan，ranhouzailiaoliaoba。

7、rangduifangzhidaofenshouzhishikaishierbushijieshu

 henduorenzaishiliandeshihoudoujuedeshiqulequanshijie，ganjueshenghuozoudaolejintou，keyitongguojiezhuzijideshilihuozheshenbianyixiefenshouzhihouzaiyushanggenghaodelizilaianweiduifang，rangzijixiangxin，zheiyicidefenshoubushijieshu，ershixiayicilianqingdekaishi。yishangjiushiruhezhaoyigechengrenshiliandefangfa。xiwangdajiaxihuan。