如何安慰失恋的人

 guanyushiliandehuati，shiwojingchangyudaode，suizhierlaidewentijiushi：ruheanweishilianderen？tongchangqingkuangxia，womendehuidashi：“quchihuoguohaishishaokao？”weishenmebuxuanzemalatang？

一、如何安慰失恋的人？

1、吃东西

 chimalatangyinweirongyizaochengwuhui。buzhidaocongshenmeshihouqi，malatangzainianqingrendeyishilijiuchengleyizhongbuzhengjingdeshiwu，qingnvhaizichimalatangyebianchengleyijianhenxieedeshiqing。shilianshixiao，beiwuhuicaishidashiqing。yaoburanjiushijuedemalatangdedangcitaidi，meidianzhuiqiu，zenmeanweishilianderen？haoburongyishigelian，bunengjiuzheiyangdafale。

 zuoweiyikuangaoduande、dacongguzilijiuhenyansudemeishi，malatangbiaoshi“zhentamaweiqu”。yinci，huoguohuozheshaokaojiuchenglenianqingrenmianhuaiyiduanganggangshiqudeaiqingzuijiadexuanze，ranhouzaijiangyixiashilianwuyu，meizizi。shijishang，huoguoheshaokaobingbushizhongdian，zhongdianshizheiguochengzhongbiranyaochuxiandepijiu。weishenmebuxuanbaijiu？

 yinweishilianderenyibandouyoulaobuwantaoyijisubujinzhongqing。anweishilianderen，niyaoshirangtahebaijiu，sanliangxiabataganzuile，taxiangshuodehuahaimeishuowan，mingtiannihaidelai。fanbufana？shilianshixiao，shijinshida。suoyi，anweiyigeshilianderendediyibujiushixianzhaogedifangheliangbei，jiangjiangshilianwuyu。

2、精神开导。

 youxiebendankandaopengyoushangxinnanguo，jiuyigejingdeduineigemeiliangxindeshagua。gezhongsaolangjian、gezhongsezhuangzha，bazijinengxiangdaodesuoyouxiuruwumiedihuiyigerendeyuyanquandoushuolegebian。zheiyangyoumeiyouyong？youyong，zaidangshishitingjieqide。danhaobuhao？kendingbuhao，wanyirenjiadiertianhehaolezenmeban？youyidexiaochuanhaizenmedangqishuangjiang？shilianshixiao，shiquyouyishida。

 suoweidejingshenkaidao，shijijiushipeiban。jinliangbuyaoshuohua，gaichichi、gaihehe，peizhezuijiuxingle。jijupihuanenganweide，jiubujiaoshilian，jiaoxingbanlvfanlian。keruguonijuedeyizhichenmoyebuhao，bixushuodianshenme，neidefangshijiushiyinyongmingrenshilianwuyu。lirulinyutangshuo：“renzhisuoyishangxin，shiyinweikandebugouyuan。weilaimeiyoulailinzhiqian，zenmezhidaoxianzaisuoweidekunjing，bushiyijianhaoshini？renyaoxiangqiankan，youqishiganqing，genbenbuxuyaojiujieqizhongdeduicuo，yinweiganqingbenlaijiumeiyouduicuo”。youliruhemashuo：“weileshilianerdanwuleqitashiqing，shizuishadesunshi”。zailirunigulasi·jijishuo：“diqiushangzuibuquedejiushiren，youqishinanren。duiyuhenduonanrenlaishuo，shilianshiyizhonglingrenxianmudefannao，yinweitamenliannvrendoumeimoguo，genghekuangshilian”dengdeng。

 yinyongmingrengeyandehaochushiwanyichulechazi，yebuguannideshi，bijingneixiehuabushinishuode，nizhishiyinyong。guanyushiliandegeyanwangshangyisouyidadui，buyongchou。

3、买单。

 chiwandongxihewanjiu，nijiujinguanzhuangzui，rangtatiyanyixiajiyaomaidanyouyaobaninonghuijiadetongku。zheishi，tajiumingbairenshijianlingrenyumendeshiqingbingbuzhiyou“shilian”，haiyou“yudaoyigebukaopudegouyou”。anweishilianderenbixuzhaohen。

 zheisangebuzhouzouwanyihou，guoduanshijiantajiuhaole。dangran，tanenghao，genyoumeiyouzheisangebuzhouwuguan，quankao“guoduanshijian”，qianmianshuode“anweisanbuqu”shijishangjiushifangzhitazaizuijiliedeshihouzuoshashi，qitazuoyongbuda。shiliandaozhidebingtongshiwuyaokezhide，bixukaoshijian。dangran，youxiezhenzhideaiqinglianshijiandougaobuding——zhongshengbuzhi。buguanshiqingguoquduojiu，zhiyaojiechudaotedingdeshiwu，shangtongjiuyaofufa。lirugouyouliang，zhidaoxianzaidoubuganshiyonggangben0.03，yinweiduwusiren。xiangqiqianrenxiannendenaiziheqdandepigu，tajiubujinanranyoushang，yanzhongdeshihouhaiyaoshishengtongku。

suoyi，anweiyigeshilianderendefangshijiushipeiban，dengtaziyu。