好闺蜜失恋了怎么办?我该如何帮她解决失恋的痛苦?

 shilianlezenmeban ？haoguimishilian，henbuxiaxinjiantaneimayoushang，yixindichenmiyushiliandetongkuzhongnanyiziba，zuojianzishen。zheiyineishihouchushidexiezhuzhenzhengkaopu，erbingbushimouxiepianmiandeqidai、douyindekuanwei、yichengbubiandezhuyuan。zheixieliefengdewupingongxiaobingbuda，fandaohuirangrenganjuenimeiyouchengxin。neimawogairuhexiezhuhaoguimijiejueshiliandetongku?

一、心里好好地思索

 shilianlezenmeban?haoguimishilian，taxinlinanshoujiuyaoxiaoxiaosasadikuzheichang，taxiangqingtujiujingjingdetingtashuo。bubizongshidianjizhe，nengfoukuaidianerrangzheiyikanyiwang。yuanyihaoguimixunsubaituofenshouhoudeheiying，yixinsudu，neijibenshangshibutaikenengde。chufeishijiushishuozijicongweiyongxinlianqingguo。lianqingbuzouxin，mengpianzishenzhegaileneileijuede，butongchusuanshizhenfama。queshizijintouruleqinggan，shaozehaoduogeyue，shaozeyaohenduoniannenggoujianjiandibaituoheiying。

 shijiushishuopeizhehaoguimi，rangtaxinlihaohaodisisuoyixiaxia。dangzijishenxiantongchuzhong，nikeyizuodejiushishuobangtaxiufulixing。dang1geyouxixinde、haodeqingtingzhe，lizhidibangtapouxi，shidudifabuyixiaxiazishendejianyi，younaxiehaodeniantou，jitatititiyi。huoxuninayifangmian，zaibuzhibujuenengbangshangta。

二、说她观念不上的

 niyuanyianweihaoguimi，bukeyizhiyanzhetashuo，shishichuchushuncongta，wojuedeneiyangzuimeishijixiaoguo。lirufenshouhou，taxinliduiqiannvyouhaitianmanyuanqi，zongganjueqiannvyoukuijiuzishende。nibubihewoxiangtongdushe，bangzhetamaneigerenbingbushihaochanpin，bangzhetazeguaineigerendezhuduozuixing，qiaobuqinanren，baquanbudebingbushidoutuidaoneigerenshoushang。nineiyangdezuofa，yejiushishuojitaqianjiadeanshizhe，yushitazhenhencha、daozhuinanren、meiyourenyao、meiyoufengcai、shaguazheixie，neiyangzuoxiangdangyucaiyijiao。

 niyingdangshuomouxiehaoguimiguannianbushangde、meiyoufajuedenanti。lirutazishendaizhebianseyanjing、jindaocuowuguannian、duinanrenyouchengjian、youbuzhengquedesixiangyishi。ninengbiaodazishendeshangxi，wojuedeneigerenhaifeichanghao，youxuduochusededifang，jinjinwobulejieta、nenggouhuanyigejiaoduguanchananti。kuanweitayixiaxia，gaozhitaqitanvshengyingduinanyou，douburongyiwoyiweineiyang。rangtagaoqingchu，zishenfanleruhedecuo，yingdangruhezuosuanshi。yongyouchengcai，zaizhuiyishijiuburongyineimatongchule。

三、多向人求教

 shilianlezenmeban?danghaoguimixianggaobudongshi，zijikunzailibian，ninengdaitaduochulaizouyizou，xiangxijieshaomouxiehenfeichanghaodexinpenyouhetaxiangchu。rangzheizhongpenyouquguanzhuta，jitayishizhuxingshangdezhaoliao，jitagongzuofangmiandexiezhu，ranghaoguimiyounaxienantixiangtamenqiujiao。

 zhenxinshiyideguanhuaikaiqileneixin，tajiuburongyiyixindisinaojin，jiuyouziqudiaojinquzilianziai。yaoshikeyixinlakai，taiyangjiunengzhaojinlai。banantishuochuqu，baqianjiadeqingxuxuanxiediao，zijijianjiandijiuhuixiufudaoshideqingkuang。xinshenhuoyuexingqilai，luojisiweiyuelaiyuekuankuo，shixiankuanle，zaihunandeshiri，douhuiyunkairichu。

四、懂得为她掏钱

 haoguimifenshouhoudeshiri，biegenrenherenxiangtong，qianfuhoujidi、mangzhedouyindekuanwei。bubidushepingjia，suibianpintoulunzuyoushigongyun，yebubisuiyikaizishihenquweidewanxiaohua。wojuedezheiyineishihoutazuibuyongzheizhong。niruguobuxiaoxinshuocuohua，fandaorangtagengnanguo，zongshitishengtadeshangxin。

 ninengshizhongpeizheta，daitaqushizhongbushedequdeyazhifandian。nihaikeyipeitaqulvyoukanjingse，zhuyiyehuojiridegaojishechijiudiancanting。nizuozheizhong，dongdeweidepengyoutaoqian，jiushishuoyibiangaozhita，tazuigaizheishijiederenhe。nineiyangzuo，rangtatihuidaozishennenggouxiangyouzheibangaojishufudefuwuxiangmu，yeyouneimaduoxingfudewupinzuigaiyouzhe。zaibujingyijianzhong，rangtadexinxintigao，youzixinxinquyingduijianglaiderenhe。