男方一直拖着不离婚的理由，逃不过四种可能

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？lihunduimeigerenlaishuodoubushiyijianxiaoshi，shejideshiqinghewentitaiduole。henrongyijuzaiyiqifenshou。dongdongzuibabuxuyaotaiduonuli，danqishiyouyigefeichangguanjiandeqianti。lianggerendouyouhaodexingge，fouzehenrongyichuxian“gousiyangpi”deqingkuang。

yizhongfeichangqiguaidexianxiang，erqiezaishenghuozhongjingchangnengtingdaoheyudao。

dangyiduifuqiqueshizoudaojintoushi，nvfangtichulihun，jieguonanfangbutongyi。

 shenzhi，henmingxian，nanrenbuai，shouxianshanghailenvren，zheirangtajuedingxuanzelihun，duinanrenlaishuo，yinggaishixin，danweishenmebuyuanyifangshouni？

yizhiyushiqingnaodehenda，yueyanyuelie，zaifatingshangdaobingxiangjian。

benlaishibijiaojiandandeshiqing，nanrenbuyuanyilihun，daodishishenmeyisi？

nanrenguyixiaohaonvrenbulihun，shidashenmesuanpan？

第一，必然会毁掉对方

zheishiyizhonghenjiduandexinli，jiranwodebudaoni，neibierenyebuxiangdedaoni，wobuhaoguo，yebuhuirangnihaoguo。

kepadechengdu，rangrenmaogusongran，buhanerli。

 wobudebushuo，ruguoniyudaozheiyangderen，niningyuanshiquyixieliyi，yebuyuanzaodianlihun，huxiangjiuchanzaiyiqi。zheizhishizainanideshenghuokaiwanxiao，duinizijibufuzeren。

henduoshihou，bingbushiduifangburangnizou，ershinibuxiangrangzijizou。

jiuchanxiaqushimeiyouyiyide，zhendehuihuilezijideshenghuo，biandeyuelaiyuejiduan，biandeyuelaiyuexiaoji。

 ruguoyigerendexinlibeiniuqule，buyaoshituhetajiangdaoli，yebuyaoshituyinghuoshu。nishuoniyanbuxianeikouqi，danzheikouqibishenghuogengzhongyaoma？

第二，对方也有使用价值

tingqilaibutailingrenxinsui，kexiyoushihoushishijiushizheiyang，quanhenglibidebeihou，shihengliangzijidedeshiheliyi。

 yidanlihun，meiyourenhuibangtazhaoguhaizi，meiyourenhuibangtazuofan，yemeiyourenhuibangtaxiyifu。haiyougezhonggeyangdejiatingsuoshixuyaotaqinzimianduihechuli，huozhetahaimeiyouweizijizhunbeihaochetui。

shenmeyisi？nanrenzhishixiangzhewufengduijie。

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？yaodengdaozhaodaonengdaitiqizidecunzai，zailihun，neiyangdehua，yiqiedoubuxuyaozijiquchengshou。

 nanrenshilixingdedongwu，youqishidangtamensipoliandeshihou，tamenzhikaolvzijideganshouhexingqu。aiyufoubingbuzhongyao。zhongyaodeshininengjiwodailaihaochuhejiazhi。

haishizijihaimeizhunbeihaolihun，xiangjizijiliudianshijian，manmanjieshouhexiguan。

第三，考虑离婚的代价

zhongsuozhouzhi，lihunshiyoudaijiade，yibanlaishuo，nanrenzuishebudedejiushiqianhehaizi。

 youliangxindenanren，huikaolvlihunduihaizideshanghai，suoyiningyuanweiquziji，shiqunanrendezunyan，yeyaomianqiangweichijiatingdewanzheng。

 yigemeiyouliangxindenanrenyanlizhiyouqian。tabuyuanyirangyigenvrenbaibaifengetadecaichan。jingguozheimeduoniandenulihejilei，tadecaifuyijingchengweitayishengdequanbu。zhijieledangdishuo，nanrenzhishijuedelihunbushiyibihuasuandeshengyi，ershitamenzijidesunshi。

gengguofendeshi，guyixiaohaonvxingbulihundeyuanyin，shixiangzaibeihoutoutouzhuanyicaichan。

 haiyoulingyizhongqingkuang，youyizhongnanrenkeyirenshiziji，suirantongchanghenhao，danyezhidaotamendetiaojianheqingkuang，yidanlihun，kenengzhaobudaogenghaode，shenzhikeyizhaodaoshiyigewenti。

第四，放不下这段多年的感情

ren，yongyuanshiganqingdongwu，youxueyouroudeganqingdongwu，zheimeduonianderiyexiangban，tongchuanggongzhen，bukenengyidianganjuedoumeiyou。

 yexushibuganxin，yexushishebude，zaizheiduanhunyinzhong，meigerendoufuchuleneimeduo，xishengleneimeduo，xiangweizijidehunyinzhengquzuihoudejihui。

kankanyihoushifouyoukenengxiufuhemibufuqiguanxi，huidaoguoqu，zhongxinkaishi。

yibanlaishuo，zheizhongshizhongqingzhongyide，suiranbuyuanbiaoxianchuneixinderouruan，danbunengfoudingtadexinruanheshanliang。

gezhonggeyangdelianggerenyijingronghezaiyiqi，yixiangdaolikaiduifang，sihuyehuobuxiaqule。

 haiyouyizhongkeneng，jiushinanrennianjidale，buxiangzaizhetengle。buguantamendeganqinghaobuhao，tamendoukeyijiangjiuyixia，ruguotamennengjiangjiuyixia，tamenjiukeyijiangjiuyixia。

yibanlaishuo，nanrenguyituozhebulihun，taobuguoyishangsizhongkeneng。

 zhiyudaodishishenmeyangdekeneng，qishidangshirenzijibisheidouqingchu，zheimeduoniandelejiehexiangchu，duifangdebenxingzijijiuqingchule。

buyaoqingyilihun，ruguokenengdehua，bufangshizhejizheiduanganqingyigejihui，yongxinquxiufuzhiqianganqingdeliehen。

 zheimeduoniandeganqing，shuoshiqule，duomeyihana！lihunmeishenme，zuihaipanizhishiyinweichongdong，zongshiyaoqiushenghuohetarendewanmeibiaozhun，ranhouyinweimeiyoudadaozijideqiwanghebiaozhun，shiwangdaozhinixianglihun。

yaomezaiyiqihaohaoshenghuo，yaomelikaiganjing。

 nanfangyizhituozhebulihundeliyouyounaxie？ruguonizhendebunengjixuxiaqu，niyinggaiguoduandilikai，jishitingzhisunshi，zhongxinkaishixindeshenghuo。buyaolangfeitaiduoshijian，bashijianhuazaiwuyiyideshiqinghecuowuderenshenshang，zheihelangfeishengmingmeishenmequbie。lengjingxialai，buyaobahunyindangzuoerxi。