吵架时男人频繁提离婚意味着什么，吵架提离婚的男人什么心理

 chaojiatilihundenanrenshenmexinli？henduofuqijingchangchaojia“lihun”guazaizuili，youxiefufushuozhendelihunle，youxiezhengchaodeganjuegenghao，weishenmehuiyouzheimedadebutong？nvrenhenanrenfenbielihunyiweizheshenme？

cengjingyigenvhailaiwanjiutadehunyin，meidangtahezhangfuchaojiashi，jiuhuiyonglihunweixie，cishuduodaoliangzhishoushubuguolai。

 zheigebaxihenyouxiao。meicitidaolihun，laogongdouxiangtachengrencuowu，tayejuedetamendehunyinjinglilezheiyang“xiaoquzhe”yuelaiyuehao，yuelaiyuexingfu。

 raner，rizibingbuxiangtaxiangxiangdeneimepingjing。wozhangfuzaiyiyuefentichulihun，tadetaidufeichangjianding。taqieduanlesuoyoudejiatingshiyong，buzaihetadewoshiyiqiyundong，tayeduanjuelelianxiheai。

 zhangfugaosuwo，wozuofuqihuitandeshihou，“woqizixiangwotichule14cilihun，binggaosutabuyaozongshishuolihun。ruguoyouyitianwoqiangpowolihun，neizhendeshilihunle，wozaiyebunenghuitoule”。

 laoposhuo，“weishenmewobumingbaiwozhangfuweishenmezheimeguoduan？wojuedewomendehunyintinghaode，danshiwomenjingchangweiyixiexiaoshichaojia，zheixiexiaoshizuihoudoujiejuele”。

第一，我们系统地分析了为什么女性说离婚是对丈夫的威胁

 diyi，nvrenaizheigenanren，danshinanrenshikongle。tarenweinanrenyeaita。tatichulihunhuofenshou，xiwangnanrenxinzhongyouyizhongweijiganheshiluogan。

 nvrenmingbaiaishihenjiandande，zhenaishizhendekeyichuqu，keyiweileai，jishinanrentichufenshouhuolihun，nvrendangranyuanyizuoyiqie，yiqiedouyuanyishituzhengjiuairen。

 nanrenzaishikongdeshihou，tabunengjieshoushiqunvrendeshishi，yidinghuiziyuanhuilaibeikongzhi，yidingyuanyiweinvrenfuchutabuyuanyifuchudedaijia。

 gangkaishideshihou，nvrenshuofenshou，nanrenjiuqufule。dangyigenvrenshuolihunshi，zheigenanrenbianhuileyigehaohaizi。jicizhihou，nvrenrenweizijizhangwoleyigefabao。

 congxinlixuedejiaodulaikan，zheizhongzuofadedaolejijideqianghua，nvxinggengyuanyixiangnanxingfachulihun、fenshoudexinhaolaishixianyuanwang。

 nvrenbuzhidao，zheizhongjiliangzhinengzaihunyingangkaishideyiliangnianneishiyong，zhangzexinhunqiyiguojiuwuxiao，duanzemiyueqiyiguojiubuchengren。

 dier、zainvrenxinzhong，baaiqinghehunyinkandebitianhaida，tarenweinanrenyeshizheiyangxiangde，renweinanrenyehaipalihunhuofenshou。

disan、nvxingquefaanquanganheziworentong。

danshiyouanquangandenvrenbuhuiyipohuaidexingshiyuzhangfugoutong，fenshouhuolihundebenzhijiushipohuaiguanxidexiangfa。

danshiyoulianghaoziworentongdenvxingbuhuiyifoudingzhangfudexingshijinxingduihua，foudingzhangfudezuijiaxingshishilihunhuofenshou。

 dangtayuzhangfufashengchongtuhechongtushi，nvxingdefangyuxitongjiangbeidakai，zheishitadeqianyishixingchengdebaohujizhi，rubuanquanganheziwoyishi。nvxinghenrongyiyilihundexingshibaohuziji，zheiyangnanxingjiukeyifucongneixindexuyao。

 jiyuyishangsanzhongxinli，nvxinghuiweixienanxingtongguolihunyaoqiujinxingdiaozhenghegaishan，ruguonanxingzuochudiaozhengshenzhigaishanxingwei，nvxinghuihuodeanquanganheaideganjue，juedezhangfushihaode，juedezijishinanrendebaobei。

 ruguoyigenvrenzailihunshidebudaonanrendejijifanying，neimenvrenhuirenweiwoaicuoleren。zheigenanrengenbenbuaiwo。woyidianyebuzhongyao。woyidianyebuhao。nibuzhidaoruhexinshangwodemeili，zhishidingzhewodebuwanmei。

 nvrenxinlijuedeleng，manmanjuedejinrulehanlengdedongtian，ranhoukewangzhaorengaosu，ruguoyudaogebidelaowang，henrongyigantongshenshou，jinruchuangshangyuhedehunwaiqing。

yinci，nanrenqianwanbuyaohushinvrenlihundeweixie，neijiushi“lvhua”nideqianzou。

 zhengquedezuofashijiyujijidehuiying，niyaozhidaonvrentichulihundebenzhi，nizuoweizhangfuduitabumanyi，buyaobaqizideweixiedanghuishi。

第二，我们系统地分析了为什么男人会如此坚决地想要离婚

yi、jingchangchaojianaolihun，renaozhangfu。

fuqichaojianaolihun，qishibushixiaoshi，ershidashi，daibiaozhelianggerendelinghunchongtu。

 fuqizhijianzhenzhengdexiaoshikeyitongguoyouhaodehezuogongtongwancheng。zheikenengshiyijianxiaoshi，yekenengshiyigejiatingdezhongdajueding。raner，yinweitamentongyiduifangdeguandian，zheigenbenbushiyijiandashi。

suirananlizhongdenvxingrenweizheixieshiqingdoushixiaoshi，jirandoushixiaoshi，weishenmefuqilianghaiyaobuduandiweizhizhengchaoni？

yinci，zheixiedongxibiaomianshangshixiaode，zaizheixiedongxibeihoufanyinglefuqilianggerendeziworentong、ziwojiazhihezunyan。

 ruguozheixiexiaoshijifalefuqigezidefangyujizhi，neimelianggerenzhijiandezhengchaojiubianchengleziwei，zheibushiyijianxiaoshi，ershiyijianhexindezhongyaoshiqing。

 congbiaomianshangkan，fuqizhijiandezhengchaodedaolejiejue，wangwangyinanrendefangqihuoqianjiuweidaijia，erqiewangwangbansuizhe“nidaodiaibuaiwo”，“zheiyidiandoubukenrangwo”，“zheiyitianbunengguoqu”baoyuan，shenzhiyouxienvrenzhijiewanxiaoshi，huozhelengzhanjitian，fanzhengbudamudebubaxiu，zuihounanrenbeipoxiangnvrentuoxie。

 yigenanrenzaihunyinshenghuozhongbeiyapolehenzhangyiduanshijian，beipofangqilehenzhangyiduanshijian，beijujuelehenzhangyiduanshijian，henzhangyiduanshijianyongzheixiexiaoshilaiceshiai，tahuibukebimiandigandaolei，yuanhenjileileyidian，zhidaozuihoudejusang。

 chaojiatilihundenanrenshenmexinli？weishenmenvrenhuizhizheyuyaoqiunanrenfangqizijiqufucongni？youxierenhuirenweitazaizheixieshiqingshangshiduide，ernanrenshicuode。weishenmebujianchiziji？

 genbenyuanyinshinicongxiaojiubeifumutaiduodifoudinghehushi。dangnizhangdahou，niziranxiwangzaiqinmiguanxizhongmanzuniderenke，xiwangnideairenzhichi、renkeheguanzhuni。

 aiyinggaishifangsonghekuailede。yidanyigenanrenzaiaiqingzhonggandaopibei、wuliaohejinzhang，tachangchangrenweizheigenvrenbuaita，huozhezheigenvrenbuzhideai，lianggerenhenrongyizoushangchalukou。

er、jingchangchaojianaolihun，zhangfuchaojiabizui。

 zhengchaoqueshishifuqizhijiandeyizhongjiaoliufangshi，youshishenzhigulifuqichaojia，youqishiduiyuchenmendehunyinlaishuo，fuqizhijiandezhengchaogengrongyijiankang。

 meiyounengliangliudongdehunyinshijiangshihunyin；meiyounengliangliudongdehunyinshiyichangbeidongjiedeweikun；meiyounengliangliudongdehunyinshiaiqingkujiededianxinglizi。bujinfuqizhijiandeaiqinghuikujie，haiziyehuikujie。

fuqichaojianaolihun，shixiaosanhunyinaiqingzuikuaidefangshi。

 hunyindeaiqingnengliang，shouxiantixianzaiyanyubiaodashang，yaoshuo，yaoxie；dier，tixianzaizhuyilishang，guanzhuguanxi，guanxinairen；disan，tixianzainengliangdejiaohuanshang，xuyaofuchuxingdongheshentisuzhi，huodefankui。

 ruguonijingchangchaojia，nidezhangfuhuigandaowunengweilihejuewang。qiangliedeshibaiganhecuozheganhuirangtazijidexin，bishangzui，shoujinzijideqingxu。nihuikandaoyigejiangyingdezhangfu，yigelinghunchutidezhangfu。

 zheijiangshinvxinggengjiafengkuang，ranhoushengjizhengchao。ruguotamenzaiciqiangpo，yaomenanrenkaishitaopao，buhuijia，yaomenanrenkaishijiatingbaoli。nanrendexinbuhuixiangnichangkai，tadezuihuibishang。

san、jingchangchaojianaolihun，bazhangfuchaodaochuangshangneifangmianbuxing。

zhangfuzhiyouzaifuqizhijianqingxuwendingpingjingdeshihou，zaifuqilianggerenzaiyiqibijiaoqingsongyukuaideshihou，caihuiyoudongli。

yidanfuqizhijiankaiqilezhengchaomoshi，yikaishiyekeyizaichuangtouchaojia，yongwoshiyundonglaijiejuefuqizhijiandemaodun。

 raner，zheizhongmihebingmeiyoudedaojijidehuiying。xiangfan，ruguoqizijinyibuchengfahuogongjizhangfu，zhangfujiuhuituisuo，zaiwoshiyundongzhongchanshengyalihejiaolv，zheijiangwanquanyizhizhangfudeyuwang。

 yidanwoshiyundongbeiyazhi，zhangfujiuhuiduiqizideshentichanshenglengdandeganjue，yinweidanaoshixingjiaodeyinqing，yidanzheigeyinqingchuxianwenti，xingjiaojiuhuitingzhi。

chaojialihunhuizaifuqizhijianjileifumianqingxu，fanfushanghaizhangfudewoshiyinqing。

ruguoyigenanrenzaiwoshiyundongzhongbujili，tahuibiandefeichangzibei、jiaolvhetongku，tahuixiangzaibiechuzhengmingzijidexingnengli。

jinglilezheisangeweidudexinlizhilvhou，nanrenjibenshanghuilikaizheiduanhunyin，zhengtuozheigejiating。

 chaojiatilihundenanrenshenmexinli？duinilaishuo，hunwaiqingshiyigegenghaodexuanze。yidanniyoulehunwaiqing，nijiuhuiyaoqiulihun。zheiyidingshiyichanghunyinweiji，tajiangxijuannidejiating，shinisuoyoudejiatingchengyuanchengweishouhaizhe。jiejuefuqimaodun。