男人提离婚这段婚姻还有救吗，冲动离婚后男人的心理

 chongdonglihunhounanrendexinlishiruhede？liangnianqianwohezhangfuchaoleyijiahou，taheyigenvtongshichuguile，tamenzaiyijiagongsigongzuo，erqiehaishishangxiajideguanxi。

 tachuguileyigeduoyue，duiwohenhao。wotianzhendiyiweitamenhuijieshu。houlai，wodezhitahaizailianxinvtongshi。womenzhijianlengzhanlebageyue。houlai，womenweiwomendehaizihehaole。

zhidaobannianqian，wojinvtongshidezhangfudaledianhua，talaogongqugongsijiwolaogongdadianhua，haidaletalaopo。

 huidaomuqinjiayigeduoyuehou，zheiweinvtongshibeipopodaihuijia。zaiguoqudeliugeyueli，womenyizhichuyulengzhanzhuangtai，wozhangfuyizhizaitanlunlihun。wobuxiangrangzheigenvpengyoushangtai，suoyiwobutongyilihun。

 bangeyueqian，tabuzaitilihunle。kanlaitayouhuilaile，dantaduiwodetaiduhenbuhao。woxiangjieshuzheijianshi，suoyiwogaosuta，ruguonihewodetongshifenshou，womenyinggaiyoudiergehaizi，dantabutongyi。

wohenshengqi，shuobunenglihun，tameiyoushuohua，ranhouwomenjixulengzhan。

 worenweilihunhou，duihaizideshanghaizuida。congwomuqiandeshourulaikan，haizimenyehuihewoyiqishouku。weilehaizi，wonengzuoxieshenmerangtamenchedifenshou？

第一，从案件本身中寻找有利条件

 tinglezheigeanlidejieshaohou，woxiangshuo，nidadiaolenishouzhongzuihexindewangpai，zhijiedadianhuajinvtongshidezhangfu。dadiaowangpaihou，tamenmeiyouzheizhongruodian。

youyubuxiangzijidehunyinpolie，tameiyouhezhangfulihun，bazheigewangpaidadiaohou，tajiumeiyoutuilule。

 dangzheiweinvtongshidezhangfuzhidaozheijianshishi，tahuichaojiama？nihuiyaoqiulihunma？keyikanchu，zheiweinvtongshidezhangfushigeruanshizi。ruguotahennuli，tahuiheneigenvrenlihun。

 yidanzheigenvpengyoulihunle，nirenweinidezhangfuhuigenghaoma？tahuijuedezijiyaoduilihundenvtongshifuze。suirantabuxiangjiajizheiweinvtongshi，dannimenzhijiandezhengzhihuigengyanzhong，tahuijiadeyiyuanyehuigengruo。

第二，冷战影响关系的缓和

 keyikanchu，nijingchanglengzhan，erqiefeichangpinfan。nihehaolejiulengzhan，hehaolejiulengzhan。erqie，lengzhanbushiyigexingqi，ershilianggexingqi。

 lengzhanchixulebageyue，lengzhanchixulebannian，zheizhonglengzhanhuidaozhinimendeguanxiyuelaiyueleng，daozhinimendeguanxiyuelaiyueshuyuan。

 daozhitajuedeyunifashengmaodunhou，lengzhanshizuihaodechulifangshi，daozhitazaineiweinvtongshishenshanghuodeyuelaiyueduodejinglihehudong。

danshinimendeqinmiguanxiyuelaiyueruo，nimenlianggerendeqinmijiechuyuelaiyueshao，pifujiyiyuelaiyueqiguai。

第三，离婚对孩子的影响

 chongdonglihunhounanrendexinlishiruhede？xianzainizuidanxindeshinidehaizi，danxinnideshourubugou，haizigenzhenishouku，nikaolvruguozheiduanhunyinxiangyaolikai，haizihuigengtongku。

 zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nihaixiangyongdiergehaizilaiwanhuishenme？nibaolulenisuoyouderuodian，zheixiedoushinizhangfunengchulinideruodian。

 yinci，zaizheiyangyigecuowudezhidaoxia，niwufazhenzhengyutawanjiuhunyin，yewufalixingdipanduanhunyinshifouyinggaijixu。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，niwufayingdezheichangxinlizhan。

zaizheili，genjuzheigeanlijichudejigejianyi，keyixiancongzheijigefangmianrushou：

1.准备离婚

jiarunibunengzuohaolihundexinlizhunbei，nizhangfuzonghuiheninaolihun，zonghuiheninaolengzhan。

 zhiyouzuohaolihundexinlijianshe，cainengyonglihunjitashijiayali。liru，ruguonizaiciyudaolengzhan，ruguonibujieshou，nihuigaosuta，ruguonizheilihun。

jiarutajixuhenvtongshijiuchan，niyeyaojitashiya，jitazuolihundexinlijianshe。

 dangran，lihundexinlijianshebushiweilelihun，ershiweilerangnibuzaihaipalihun，dangran，jutizenmeyongzheizhangka，xuyaokannimenzhijiandejutiqingkuang。

2.buyaoranghaizichengweinideyueshu

 baituoshengdiergehaizidegainianhelihunshanghaihaizidegainian。niyinggaizhidao，zaihunyinzhong，duihaizizuidadeshanghaishinidehunwaiqing。emeishengdiergehaizibuhao。dangnizhangfuchuguishi，nibixushengdiergehaizi。

yaozhidao，haizizainixianzaidehunyinzhuangtaixia，duitashizuidadeshanghai，xiangfan，lihunduihaizishiyouyide。

nidejingjishourushiyouxiande，niyaozhuajinshijiankanhaocaichan，wanyilihunleniyekeyifengecaichanlaizhichinifuyanghaizi。

ruguofengecaichanhounimeiyoubanfahaohaozhaoguhaizi，neimenijiubahaizijinizhangfu。

buyaoyingzhetoupizhengduojianhuquan，haiziyongyuanshihaizizijide，tabushifumu，fumuzhishilinshiguanli。

3.quedingnixianglihunma？

genjulihundewugebiaozhunlaihengliangnidehunyin，nibufuhelihundetiaojian，suoyibuyaokaolvlihun。

4.nizhangfuhenvpengyoudeshi

 tamenshifouwanquandapobushinikaolvdeshiqing。nibixukaolvdeshiruhezhongjianbicidexinren，ruhezhongjianhunyinlianxi，ruhechulinimenzhijiandeguanxi，ruhechulinimenzhijiandelengzhan，baokuonidadianhuajinvtongshihezhangfudeyingxiang。zheixiedoushifeichangguanjiande。

erniyeyaozhuazhutamenderuodian，yinweizheigenvtongshiyoubeitapopojiehuilaile。

5.挽救婚姻的心理

 weilewanjiuzheiduanhunyin，niyinggaiyizhengquedefangshizuo。nidefangshidoucuole。zaiwanjiudeguochengzhong，niyinggaizunxunyigeyuanze，zunxuntamenfenshoushiyibuyibufenshoudeyuanze，nidezhangfuhuidaojiatingyeshiyibuyibuhuidaojiatingdeyuanze。

 chongdonglihunhounanrendexinlishiruhede？hunyindehuiguibushiyicijiuhuigui，yebushijitianjiuhuigui，buyaozheji，yaoanzhaoyishangwugebuzhouyibuyibulaiwanjiu。