离婚男人心里想什么，冲动离婚后男人的心理

 chongdonglihunhounanrendexinlishiruhede？renmenjingchangduidaiganqing“shiquhoucaidongdezhenxi”。danglianggerenzaiyiqishi，tamenchongmanlebuman。dangguanxipolieshi，nizhendeshiquletata，zaizhenzhengganshoudaoneifenkongxuzhihou，kenenghuibuyouzizhudijizhuduifangdehaolai，houhuicengjingdebuzhenxi。

 dangran，yeyoukenengshiyifangtaihuai，jilingyifangdailailetaiduodetongku。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，fenshoujiushijietuo，tahuotazaiyebuhuixiangnianyiqiandebanlvle。

suoyi，fuqilihunhou，nanrenhuiyoushenmeyangdexinli？

yibanlaishuo，butongderen，youyugexingbutong，qinggantiyanbutong，suoyixinliyebunengyigaierlun，yishangliangzhongdouyoukeneng。

 raner，youyizhongxinlizhuangtai，zheishiyixielihunnanrensuoduyoude，tashiduliyucide“xiangnian”yu“yiwang”chucizhiwai，congweibeizhongshi，danxiangdangpubian。

“不孝顺的女人不想要。我必须离婚。”

在与妻子离婚的那一年，张先生35岁

duiyutalihunzheijianshi，shenbianderenyilunfenfen，changchangtoutoushuoxianhua。

 youyujialitiaojianhencha，meiyounenglimaixinfang。yikaishi，gegehesaozizaizijidelaofangzilijiehunle，lundaotale，haishiyaoquxifuzaizheili。

tahegegelianggeren，hefumuyiqijizaizheigelaoxiaosiheyuanli，guozhelaoshidesandaitongtang。

 zaizheiyangdetiaojianxia，youyigenvhaiyuanyijiajinlaijiuhaole，haiganzhudonglihunma？jiandan，meiyouzizhizhiming，guaibudebierenshuo。

 erqietadeqizizhisuoyiyuanyijiehun，yishiyinweizhangxianshengxiangmaochuzhong；ershiyinweishierhun，bizhangxianshengdajisui，juedezijidetiaojianbibushangta。

zaizhe，zhangxianshengdegegesaoziyijingmailexinfang，dengdaofangzijiaole，zhuangxiuwanle，tamenbanchuquhou，jiubuneimeyongjile。

 meixiangdao，zaineiyitianzhiqian，tayijingbunengzhuzaizheilile。bushiyinweigegesaozizenmeyang，zhuyaoshiyinweitahepopoxiangchubuhao。

poposihuduizijideyiqiedoubumanyi。

 chongdonglihunhounanrendexinlishiruhede？taaimei，meigeyiduanshijianjiuhuiquzuotoufa，zuomeijia；taaichi，guangchaoshizongshihaochimaishenme；taaizhuangshi，zongaimaixiejiajuyongpin，laizhuangshifangjian。

 suoyouzheixie，popokanzaiyanli，tongzaixinli:“nizheihuaqianxiangliushuiyiyang，womenshineizhongjiatingma？！anzhaonidehuafa，rizidoubuguole。”

“qianshizhenglaide，bushishengchulaide。meiyounenglizhidaosijiejian，yibeiziyebuhuifuyou。”

zongshizheiyang，popozhize，tajiuhen，liangrenzhenjianduimaimang，sheiyeburangshei，chaojiashichangshi。

erxifuhemuqinxiangchubuhao，jiazaizhongjiandezhangxianshengrizibuhaoguo。tazhinengliangbianheni，guoyitiansuanyitian。

zhidaoyouyitian，zhangxianshengshangbanhou，popoheqizizaijia，buzhiweishenmeyouchaojiale。

zheicibuxiangwangchang，liangrenchaodehenxiong，dongledongshou。erqieshidasaohepopolianshou，lianggedazhangxianshengdeqiziyige。

fashengzheiyangdeshi，tadeqizifeichangshengqi，lijihuidaomuqinjia，yuzhangxianshengtichulihun。

zhangxianshengjianshiernaoda，xinlihenbuan，buzhiruheshihao。

pangbiandemuqinjianzhuang，baierziyiyan，shuo：

“datazenmele？tabudanmaniba，haimanigezaosi。ruguoninengrenshouzheiyangdeqizi，neijiutaimeichuxile。”

 tingdaomamazheimeshuo，zhangxianshengxinliyougezhuyi。shide，tazenmenengrenshouzheiyangyigeqifumama，mababadeni？wozenmenengzheimesong？mamashiduide，zheigenvrenbuyao。

yushi，tatongyilihun，fangzishuyuta，erzishuyuta，tajingshenchuhu。

neiyinian，haimeiyoushedinglengjingqi，hunyinlidegancuililuo。

 lihunshouxubanwanhoubujiu，zhangxianshengbaerzijiaojimuqinzhaogu，zijiquwaidigongzuo，chulejiaqijibenbuhuijia，zheicilikai，jiushiliangnian。

houlai，youyuneigeguojiadeyuanyin，waimiandegongzuohennanzuo，tacaihuijia。

huijiahou，tahenshaowaichutanwang，jishipengyouyaoqing，tayehenshaoyingyue。

“diuren”tazheiyangduizijibijiaoqinmidepengyoushuo，“meigerendouyouxifu，womeiyou。”

“neiniyoumeiyouxiangguorangtahuilai？”，pengyouwen。

“bu，haomabuchihuitoucao。nikannishuode，chuletawojiuzhaobudaole？woshineizhongqueshaonvrenderenma？”

shuowan，tanachushouji，zhaodaoleyizhangsishisuinvrendezhaopian，shuoshitade。“nvpengyou”。

回避型男人

zaihunyinzhong，mianduiqiziyumuqinzhijiandemaodun，zhangxianshengcongweizhengmiandiaojie，zongshikeyihulve，xuanzexingshiming。

 tahaishouxianhuibiletaheqizizhijiandemaodun。congweijiguoqizilijiehezhichi。keyishuo，taheqizizhijianconglaimeiyouzhenzhengdexinrenqinmi。

congzheili，womenkeyikanchutayouxiangdangchengdudehuibixingrenge。

lingwai，tongguozhangxianshengdehua，womenmingbaitabuxuyaoshenme“qizi”，ershi“nvren”。

duitalaishuo，“qizi”jiuxiangyigegangwei，bukongzhejiuxing，nishangganghaishitashanggangdoukeyi。

rangtananguodebushiyiduanganqingdepolie，yigejiatingdepolie，ershiyigebeitaolunhebishideliyou。

 suoyi，lihunhou，tajibuxiangnianyebuwangji，yinweitaconglaimeiyouzhenzhengfuchuhecanyuguo。yiqiedouxiangtadeqizizaiyigejiaoseli，tazhiyouhepopodeaihenqingchou。

hezheiyangdenanrenshenghuozaiyiqi，nvrenhennangandaoxingfu，likaita，bushiyijianhaoshi。

 chongdonglihunhounanrendexinlishiruhede？erfuqizhijiandexiangchu，xuyaozhenchenghenaixin，yudaowenti，jishigoutongjiejue。mangmuhuibi，zhinenghuanlaihunyindepolie。