男方要离婚的原因，对方提离婚时你应该做的3件事

 nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？youshihoudangshirenhuiwenwomen：duifangxianzaiyaolihun，wogaizenmeban？erqieyudaozheigewentiderenhaibushao，neixiaobianjintianjiulaishuoshuoyinggaizenmechuli？

1.静观其变，了解原因

 diaozhengxintai，zhaochuduifanglihundezhenzhengyuanyin。niyekeyilijieduifangdexiangfa。nimenzhijianyoushenmewentima？nibunengjixuxiaquma？haishiduifangchugui，youlexiayigejia？haiyouwoyudaode。yinweidisancihuaiyun，wojiyulihun。

2.收集证据

genjuwomendebananjingyan，wulunyihouzounayibu，qianqixianshoujizhengjuqishishifeichangzhongyaode，zuodaokejinketui。

 diyi，chengqingnidecaichanxiansuo，shenmeshifuqicaichan，ranhoulejieduifangdezhanghu.gongzideng，ruguoyougupiao，.gongsidengqingkuangyeyaolejieqigupiaozhanghao、gongsigufendeng。nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？

bijing，hunyinzoudaolefenlizheiyibu，youxierenzhishixiangzaicaichanshangdongnaojin，suoyiyaozhuajinshijianbacaichanzhuangkuangnongqingchu。

dier，ruguoduifangyouguocuo，neimeshoujiyouguocuodezhengju，keyizaitanpanzhongshiyong。

zuihouyaozhuyihaizidedongxiang，bimianduifangweileqianghaizierbahaizizangqilai。

3.清楚地考虑是否离开，两个想法

siluyi：ruguoniyexianglihun

zheigeshihoukeyizaitanpanshangxiagongfu，tebieshiduifangfeichangjiyulihundehua，

 zaizhiqiandeyigeanlizhong，nanfangchuguile，disangehuaiyunle，suoyitaxiangheqizilihun，disangeyizhizaicuita，suoyitamenbuxiangtuoyan。yinci，zaitanpanguochengzhong，tamenzaicaichanshangzuochulerangbu，duojile50wan，haizidefuyangquanyejilewomen。

 haiyoujiushiwomenzhiqianzaitanpanbijizhonggaosudajia，ruguonengzhuazhuduifangdetongdian，huozheduifangshigehaomianzideren，jiukeyiyongzheigelaitanpan。

 erqiejishiduifangyijingqisu，yekeyizaizuzhidiaojiedeshihoujinliangheduifangtantan，ruguotandebuhao，keyishuodiyicibutongyilihun。

siluer：buxianglihundehua

 nizhidaolihundeyuanyin。ruguomeiyouyuanzewenti，nikeyichangshizuochugaibian，bawentibaizaizhuomianshangjinxinggoutong。ruguonizaigoutongshangyoukunnan，nikeyixunqiudisanfangdebangzhu，zheiyangshuangfangdoukeyimianduiwenti，bingzhaodaoyigeshuangfangdoukeyijieshoudejiejuefanganlaijiejuewenti。

danshiruguoduifangchugui，youyuanzewenti，neiqingbuyaoaidanao！

 ruguolianggerendoushiduide，yijingtashangledixian，ernihaizaixiangzhekeyiyiqishenghuo，neimenizaizheiduanganqingzhongdetouruhuirangniyuelaiyuebeidong。

xianshiyijingbaizainimianqian，nixuyaomianduixianzai，buyaorangzijijinyibushoushang。

nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？yiqiedouyaoweizijizhexiang。