夫妻吵架时男人常把离婚挂嘴边，男人吵架说离婚的心理

 nanrenchaojiashuolihundexinlishiruhede？chongdongshimogui，zheishizhende。wozaipengyouquanliduguoyijuhua。dangniyishichongdongshi，buyaozuorenhejueding。

 woyizhijidezheijianshi，suoyidangwohezhangfuchaojiashi，buguanwoyouduoshengqi，wodougaosuziji，wobunengshuorenheshangrendehua。wozhangfuyezuodehenhao。

dangrenmenshengqishi，tamenzongshizuoyixiejiduanhuofeilixingdeshiqing。shuoyixieshanghaitarenhuohushitarenganshoudehuayegengrongyi。

wojianguoyigenanren。dangtaheqizichaojiashi，tajingchangtanlunlihun。shishishang，tabingbuzhendexianglihun。shuolihunhenshengqi。

 zaishenghuozhong，bujinnanrengandaokunhuo，erqienvrenzongshitanlunlihun。nizenmerenwei。shishishang，nvxingyehenkunhuo，yinweiyouxienanxingjingchangtanlunlihunhuoshibai。

tamenzhendexianglihunma？shishishang，tamendaduoshurendouyouzheisanzhongxinli。

第一，离婚是假的，维护自己的尊严是真的

 shishishang，ruguoyigenanrenxianghenilihun，tazaojiurenzhenle。nanrenyoushixuyaoyizhonganquangan。tamendanxinnvrenbuzaiaitale。tamentongguolihunlaiquerennvrenshifourengranaita。

 dangran，zheizhongfangfabingbutichang。dangzheiduifufuchaojiashi，youshimianduinvrendeqinlvexing，dangtameiyoulukezoushi，tahuifanji。chaojiabunengdabainvren，yebunengdajia。tamenbixukuailedishuohuaheshengqi。dangran，zheizhongfanjishizuiwulihewuyongde。

 dangran，ruguoyigenvrenfanleyigeshizhixingde、bukeyuanliangdecuowu，biruyigenvrenchugui，duiyigenanrenrenlaishuoshiyizhonganwei。

第二，我心里有离婚的想法，但还没有到离不开的地步

 meigexiaohuadouyouzhenchengdeyuansu。liru，ruguoyigenanrenxiangnitichulihun，takenengbingbuzhendexianghenilihun，dandangtashuolihunzheigecishi，taxinliyidingyouzheiyangyigezhenshidexiangfa，yicilaibiaodatadexinsheng。

 yexuwojuedewohaimeiyoudaoneigedibu，huozheyinweiwobuyuanyifangqi，wozanshifangxialelihundeniantou。shishishang，zaifuqizhijian，zaizheiyishengzhong，huiyouhenduocilihundexiangfa，yehuiyouhenduocixiangyaoqiasiduifangdechongdong。zheishizhengchangxianxiang。nanrenchaojiashuolihundexinlishiruhede？

第三，心是威胁对方

 yibanlaishuo，zuichangjiandeshilianggerenchaojia。zaizhengchaozhong，dangnanrendehuahenchashi，tamenbuyuanyiruanruo，dantamenzhaobudaoheshidecilaifanbonvren。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，daduoshunanrendouhui“goujitiaoqiang”xuanzeyonglihunlianggezilaiweixienvxing。

 shishishang，weixienvxingdeyuanyinshiweilerangduifangbiandewenrou。dangran，tayekeyiceshiduifangdetaidu，huozhexiangtongguolihunjinvxingdailaiweijigan。

 ruguoyigenvrenyouhuaixiguan，zheigehuaixiguanhuijijiatingdailaitongku。tahaixiangtongguolihunrangnvxingyishidaowentideyanzhongxing。rangnvxingzuochuzhenzhengdegaibian。shishishang，zuikepadebushilihun，ershidangtafangqinideshihou。

 buguanshishenmeyuanyin，lihundoushiyigemingandehuati，fuqizhijianbuyaotiji。buguanmudeshishenme，xiangfashishenme，suizheshijiandetuiyi，zheizhongxingweihuirangduifanggandaohanleng。

 nanrenchaojiashuolihundexinlishiruhede？jishitazaidangshiqizuoyong，tarengranhuizaiwoxinzhongmaixiayinhuan。yidanlihunjingchangfasheng，shuangfangdexinjiuhuizhujianyuanli。dangran，zuihouyijianshishibeishangde。