30岁的男人离婚是什么感觉，男人离婚后男人会后悔吗

 nanrenlihunhounanrenhuihouhuima？dangwolihunshi，wozhiyou30sui，wodeqizizhiyou29sui。shishishang，nianlingchabiebuda。womenshitongyidairen，jihumeiyoudaigou。raner，liangzhongbutongdechengzhanghuanjinghequefabendijiatingyedaozhilewomenxinggedejudachayi。

 hewoyiyang，woyang，shifumudediergehunyinjiating，shimuqingengjianqiangdeleixing，suoyidangwomenjiehunshi，womentongyi，wulunfashengshenmedoubulihun。danbijing，womenrengranhuxiangweibeilenuoyan。

 dangwodiyicijianmianshi，wodeqizihenpiaoliang。wokanqilaibuhao，danwoqizibingbutaoyanwo。tashuowoshidiyigeduitahaodenanren。wozhenchengdiduitahao，erbushixuweihuotanlan。

 wojuedelaopodexinsizhendehenjiandan，naliyounanrenbukanhaozijidewaibiao！dangwodaitaqujianwodepengyoushi，wosuoyoudepengyoudouhenjingya。tashuyugengyoucaihuaheqizhideleixing。tamendoushuoduziliyoushiyoushu，wolaoposhuyuneizhongyouqizhidemeinv。

 nengjiandaotashiwodexingyun，danyeshiwodebuxing，womeiyouzhenxita，meiyouzhanzaitadeweizhishangweitakaolv，houlailihunhou，wohenwodemuqin，juederuguobushitaxuanze，wodeqizihewobuhuiqulihun，shenzhibuhuizaihun。

我和妻子没有办理婚礼手续，所以我们先拿到了结婚证

 woqingchudijidewomenjiehunhelihundeqingjing。zaiwonadaojiehunzhengdeneitian，wopoqiexuyaoshenqingjingjishiyongfang，wobixujiehuncainengshenqingzheizhongleixingdefangzi。woheqizishangliang：“xianqulingzheng，ranhouwoqubanlifangzi。”

jingguoyiyedesikao，qizidayinglewo。tashuochizaoyaojiehun，zaowanlingzhengdouyiyang。

 diertian，womenqunazhengshu。dangwomenchulaishi，woqizidetuihenruan。woxiangtayidinghenhaipa。bijing，tashenmeyemeiji。womentongguolefalvchengxu。jianglai，ruguowobujitacaili，tajiushiwodeqizi。

 jiuzheiyang，yinweiwodejiandanyaoqiu，taqingyibaweilaituofujilewo。danwoyebuzhidao:zheijitadailaileduodadetongku，yijiwaijiedebuhaoyulun。

 wojidedangwoyaoqingneigenanrendemeirentanlunwodehunyinshi，taduiwohenshengqi。yuanyinshiwodemeirenshuo：womenweijingfumutongyijiunadaolejiehunzheng。wodayingguotabuyaotiqiangaosutadefumu，danyinweifangzidewenti，wodefumutiqianzhidaolemeirenziranzhidao。

 neishihou，tayidingshiyinweifumubeimeirennankanershengwodeqi。danshiwoyikaishibingmeiyouyishidaosuoyouzheixiebuhaodeyulunheyijiandoushitachengshoude。

 houlai，dangwomuqinzaitamianqianfengcitashi，womeiyoushuohua。tahanleikanzhewo。zaiwodeqinqihefumumianqian，takudehenlihai，yayizhekusheng。womeiyouanweita，ershiduitashuo：“duibuqi。”nanrenlihunhounanrenhuihouhuima？

 woxiangruguowodenverbeilingyigejiatingxiuru，tadezhangfurengranmobuguanxin，wohuishengqi，wozhendeshiqulezuoweitazhangfudezeren，rangtazaoshoujudadetongku。

 dangshi，tademuqinbuzhidao，suoyidangtatingshuotadenverheqitananrennadaolejiehunzhengshi，tadejiarenyidingfeichangbugaoxinghebeishang。tazuoleyixiefeichangpannideshiqing，beimeirendangmianxiuru。

 zixixiangxiangyehenhouhui，dangshitainianqing，henduoshiqingmeiyouchuli，jiazaiqizihemuqinzhijian，yijiyixiehua，yezhenderangqiziganga，rangmuqinduiqizidewujiegengshen。

 lihunhou，wohualesannianshijiancaihuifuguolai，zuichulihundechuzhong，yeshiweilehuanheqiziyumuqindeguanxi，danzuihouqizidangzhen，zhendelikaile。

 jiehunliangnianhou，shishishang，tazuodehenhao。chulewomuqinbuxihuanta，jialideqitarendouhenxihuanta。ciwai，womuqinjingchangzaiqinqimianqianshuotadehuaihua。taduiwohenshengqi。tazaimuqinjiazhuleyilianggeyue。tazhendebuxihuanhewomamazaitongyigewuyanxia。

 danshidangshiwojiuxiang:youlehaiziyaowomabangmangzhaogu，suoyishuofulaopotongyizhuzaiyiqi，womeixiangdaomaodunhuirangwomenzoudaolihundechengdu。

婚后，母亲对她的责备，妻子对我的冷眼

 yuanlai，wohemamaqukanhuaiyunderizi。dinghunhou，womenjisuanlehuaiyunderizi，danwomuqinzebeita，shuonimenlianggemeiyouhejiarenshangliangjiuzuochulejueding。

 houlaiwomajujueji10wanlingyi，woquzhaopengyoujiele5wan。hunlihou，wozongshixiangyaota。yigeyuehou，tahaobuyouyudibataquanbunachulai，batamamajidejiazhuanghaijilewojia。

 dangshitizhexianjin，tayizhiguazhexiaorong。xianzaicaizhidao，yexutaxinlixiang：zhiyaoduoshaoqian，nijiuyizhixiangyao，dangsheixihannijiajizheigexiaocaili。

taxiaozheshuo：zheimeyidianqian，yiniandegongzijiuzhuandaole，hairangnijiazheimehuainian。

 houlai，wozuolezuiyuchundeshi。yuanlaifangdichanzhengshangshiwomendemingzi，danwomuqinjianchiyaowozuogongzheng。woqizizhaodaoleyigeshurendepengyou，zhijiequzuohunqiancaichangongzheng。womenzuogongzhengdeshihou，yijingsangeyuele。

 xianzaixiangxiang：wozenmenengrenshoushanghaitadexinni？wozuoleshenme，erbushicishangtadexin？jiajita，tongyiyibeizi，danchanquanzhengshushangxielelianggerendemingzi，gouta，womeiyoukaolv，zheiyangzuo，tahuinanguoma？nijuedewoyouzaizuzhitalema？zaizheigeshihou，womenzhudingbuhuiyourenheguanxi！

 tahewomuqinzhijianfashenglehenduoshiqing，youxieshiwodecuo，youxieshiwomuqindezeren。wojiehunshi，muqinzaibierendequanshuoxiazhuangshilefangzi，mailesanjianhuangjinshoushi。

 wojidetahuaiyundeshihou，wodezufumu、biaomeiheerxidouzaijiachifan。neiduanshijiantameiyouqushangban，zaijiagebaobao，danshiyitianzuosandunfan，jiaodouzhongle，chuanlewodetuoxie。

 kanpopokandaotashi，kanzhetadeshouxintengdishuo：“tahuizenmezuo？meicizuofan，shouxinlideyouzidouzhanmanle，zaijialiwodoubuyuanyirangtazheimexinku，tazheigehuaizhehaizi，haisihouzhenimenjia。”

 yexutazhendehenlei。tahuidaomuqinjia，zhule6geyue。dangtazhudaojijiangfenmianshi，woyuefulaidaotajia，shuotabunengrangnverzaimuqinjiashenghaizi，suoyiwomuqinyunxutahuijia。

 houlaichaojiadeshihou，laoposhuo:shuo：wofuqinqunijiaweiwodishengxiaqi，xiangsunziyiyangbeinifumuzema，shuowohenhuai。woxiangwoshiyigexiurutadenver，zheirangwodefumuhenganga。wobuxiao。

 zaineiduanshijianli，womenfashenglehenduozhengchao。wobuzhidaotaxinlizaixiangshenme。congneiyihou，tasihubiandetinghuale。tatingwodejiarenhewomuqindehua。woxiangtakenengzaixinlizuoleyixiejueding。

生孩子的时候买了矛盾

 shenghaizideshihou，weilebimianlianggemamajianmianchaojiaheganga，mamashuo：“patamamalaile，tajiubuhaohaoshengziji。ershisajiaopoufuchan。”danshijishanglaopozaojiuduiwoshuo：“ziranfenmiandehaizishentijiankang。”

 dangshiwotingmamadehuaquanta:buyaoxianjinimamadadianhua。zaitashenghaizizhiqian，dangtatebietongkudeshihou，wonazouletadeshouji，danxintahuijipopodadianhua。

 tatongkuditangzaichuangshang，dantashenzhimeiyouhengheng。tengdehenlihai，suoyitayaolewodegebo。wojidetayaodehenlihai，hentong！

 tashengchanshiliuxuehenduo。houlaitashuowomendouzhidao。dangwozhishikanfeiyongdandeshihou，wofaxianbizhengchangdeyunfuduohuale1000duoyingbang。tashuozheimeduoqian，tadaleyizhenzhixuezhen。houlai，zhidaohaiziyisui，tadeliancaihuifuhongrun，liansecangbai。

 zhidaozhizuowancheng，zaitadeyaoqiuxia，womeiyoudadianhuajiwodeyuemu，huozheliyongwodemuqinbuzai，danpopogujineitianyoushenmedongxi，popozhidaodiertian，suoyiwotebiebaoyuanwodeyuemu，dadianhua，nibulai，dengwomenmang，nilaizhuanshen。

 womeixiangdao，renjianvershengdeshihou，womeiyoudadianhua，shengwanhaizicaibaoxi，zheiyebushizunzhong，wopopoyeyincitebiebaoyuanwojiazuoshibudidao。

 zuoyuezideshihou，womashuobuxiangrangpopolaisihouwolaopo。wotongyile。wobuzhidaowoqizishizenmegaosuwoyuemude。woqizikule，hepopochaoleyijia。woyuemufeichangshengqi。yinci，zaipopodequanshuoxia，popodeqinqimeiyoushangmen。woqizizhenggeyuedoumeiyouqinqi，chuleyixiepengyou。

 wohepopozhijiandemaodunyebeimaizangle。shengwanhaizihou，woqizixianghuidaotamuqindejia。ciwai，wodehaizizaimanyueshijuxingleyigeyanhui，danwomeiyoudadianhuajiwoyuemudejia。haizimanyuehou，womuqindaizhetadeqizihehaiziqulewogumajia。

 yexuzaizheigeshihou，woqizijiandingdixianghewolihun！zheijiushiweishenmetazhidaowodejiarenzaishuoshenme，congbufanbo。shenzhiwomuqindeyigepengyou，yejiushimeiren，yeshuo：“zheigenvhaidagaishiyinweibuxiangheniyiqishenghuo，caichuchutuoxie。”shide，neishitabuxiangtaziji。

妻子上班后，渐渐变得越来越冷淡

 haizisigeyuehou，qizikaishigongzuo，yuanbenwomaxiangweitaanpaigongzuo，taxiaozheshuo：“bu，wokeyizijizhaogongzuo。”tazhendehenhao，zhaodeputonggongzuo，doubiwodegongzigaoliangbei。

 takaishimeitianliangbianpao，zhongwuhuijiajihaiziweinai。danshishangbanyeyiweizheqizibuxihuandaizaijiali，wanshang9dian10fenkaihuihuijia。

erqiejingchanghuiyougezhonggeyangdeyulehuodong，wokaishidanxinqizishifouyoushenmeqingkuang？womahaishuowolaopojingchanghuazhuang。

 youyici，woqiziwanshangmeiyouhuijia。dangwomamadadianhuajiwoshi，wodadianhuajiwoqizi。tashuotazaijiaban，dandangwoqutadegongsishi，gongsiderenshuotamenzaojiuxiabanle。

wozailouxiadengta，ta9diancaidaojia，woheizhelianwenta："niweishenmequ？woqulenidegongsi，nibuzai。"

taqingqingdishuo："woqulemeirongyuan，yanjingshangzhanglezhifangkeli，qutiao，jiushipanijiwai，caishuojiaban。"

wowenta：ninengshuoshihuama？niyouduoshaocipianwo？

 tashuo：“ng，yanjingshangdezhenyanhaishihongde，burannikeyidadianhuajiwobumendexiaoguniang，womenyiqiqu，nibuxinjiusuanle。ruguowobupanimashuowo，wojiubuxuyaosahuang。”womenweicichaoleyijia。

jialidemaoduncongweitingzhiguo，haiziduannaihou，mamashuo：“tajinwu，wusuoshishi，baozhehaizi。”

 xiangfan，wogaosuta，tafennudiduiwoshuo：“zhiyaowowanyidianhuijia，liangtianjiujianbudaohaizile。dangwohuidaojiashi，haizihengaoxingjiandaotademuqin，bingkaishirangwobaozheta。wobubaotama？woshenmeyemeishuo。wohuijiabaohaizihou，woxiyifu，zuofan。wozuowanfan，xiwanyifu，haizijiugaishuijuele。”

wozhidao，qishizhiyaolaopozaodianxiabanhuilai，fancaijiuhuiweiwofumuzhunbei。

 buzhidaoweishenmepoximaodunzheimeda？erqie，tayekaishiduiwoyouyijian。dangwoxiangyaodeshihou，tashuotahenkun。haizhizewoshuo:“nizaiketinglihenimamaliaotiandaobanye，womeitianzaoshang6dianqichuang，wanshang10dianshuijue，ruguonixiangzaodianshuijue，buyaodengdaowoshuizhele。”

tashiyuanhende！wojingchangshangyeban，henshaohuijia，quehemamaliaotian，fanerhulveleta。

 womamazeguaitarangwoheshui，jingchangrangwobangmangzuogezhongshiqing，danzheibushifuqizhijiandeshima？danwosixiagaosuta：“buyaozongshizaijialijiaowo，daoyibeishuirangwobangmang。”

 xianzaixianglai，tatinglezheihua，yidingshiweiqule，ruguoxianzaiwokendinghuishuo：“buyaozaiwomenmuqinmianqianshihuanwo，sixiaxiangzenmeshihuandouxing。”

fuqibuyinggaihuxiangbangzhuma？danshiwomabuxihuantajiaowo，yebuxihuanwomenzaiyiqideyangzi。

yuqizilihundezuizhongtuishou：haiziyizhouqingbuqingpopoyijia。

 houlaiyinweihaiziyisuiyanqing，daodiyaobuyaoyaoqingpopo，tajiugenwonaole。tashuomanyueyibaitianbuqing，xianzaibuqingle。ruguonixiangrangwojiajini，nihuimeiyoujiarenma？

danshidangshiwomayebuyuanyipopoyijiacanjia，shuoruguocanjiale，jiubuhuijuxingyisuiyanle。

 woqizideyisishijiecijihuihuanheyupopodeguanxi，dancishiwomeiyouxiangdaozijidecuowu。woyetaoyanwoyuemuzaimanyuehebaitianzhengzhengyinianmeiyouqukanwangwodesunzi。

 dangwomenchaodehenlihaideshihou，wobujidewoshuoleduoshaoshangrendehua，dagaishiwoshuode:“wodehaizimeiyounainai。”leisizheiyangdehua，ranglaoponubukee。

houlai，chaodehenlihai，tahuidaoniangjia，shuobuqingpopojia，jiugenwolihunle。

 woqingwodepengyouhehao，danwomendoumeiyourangbu。womenlihundeshiqingrangwomendeqinqidouzhidao。woshushuyeqinziqutadedanweishuofuta，woshushuhoulaimeiyoushuo，tahoulainadaolelihunzhengshushuo：“zuotiannishushulaizhaowo，wodayingtabuhuihenilihun。danshinilaibiwolihun，woquebulikai，haoxiangwozaihunimenjia。”

 lihunneitian，woyiweitaqulewaidilvyou，tazhishiqulechengwaideyizuosimiao，qidaizhezhongshen，xiwangwomenbuyaozainaoshi，shenghuonengshunli。

meixiangdao，houlaiwoyidazaojiubizhehetalihun。neishiwomashuo：youwolaopomeiyouta，youtameiyouwolaopo。

 qiziyezhiwenwoshuo：“nimamabushizaiwaimianshuobuxiangyaowodehaizimamama？nibuxiangyaowodeerxifuma？wojuedesheizaihunijia。”

 nanrenlihunhounanrenhuihouhuima？wobuzhidaowomamashifoushuoguozheixiehua，danwomamabuxihuantashizhende，womamaqiangpowolihunshizhende，worenweilihunkeyihuanjiewomuqinhewoqizizhijiandeguanxi，danburenweiwoqizitazhendexianghewolihun！